posted October 09, 2013 08:38 PM            

pluto-saturn in the 10th may mean a lot of struggles with career pressures between you two. mercury squares pluto in the 6th and i see some issues with clashing career goals/motivations. maybe one person is career obsessed and it hurts the other. issues with working overtime vs. spending time together. one is too cutthroat ambitious. or maybe you both are struggling with this attitude. not sure...

either way this is sensitive. all of it is sensitive, you have two core cancer planets. maybe you met thru family or friends. your moon is in aries which clashes with the moon meaning that sometimes one person could step on the other's feelings and sensitivities w/o realizing it.

mars in pisces may mean some illusions. fantasizing. lofty, putting partner on a pedestal. seeing the relationship thru rose colored glasses vs. the cold hard reality. be careful.

posted October 09, 2013 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
is the relationship a secret? 12th house venus is never a good sign. it means that there may be a secretive quality to the romance. not only that but its in aquarius too. so maybe for social reasons. there could be emotional distance between you two. or did you meet online? it could be that too. venus isn't afflicted but this still isn't a great spot for it. but trine to the moon may mean that you are both trying to cope with it.

pluto-saturn in the 10th may mean a lot of struggles with career pressures between you two. mercury squares pluto in the 6th and i see some issues with clashing career goals/motivations. maybe one person is career obsessed and it hurts the other. issues with working overtime vs. spending time together. one is too cutthroat ambitious. or maybe you both are struggling with this attitude. not sure...

either way this is sensitive. all of it is sensitive, you have two core cancer planets. maybe you met thru family or friends. your moon is in aries which clashes with the moon meaning that sometimes one person could step on the other's feelings and sensitivities w/o realizing it.

mars in pisces may mean some illusions. fantasizing. lofty, putting partner on a pedestal. seeing the relationship thru rose colored glasses vs. the cold hard reality. be careful.

i don't see any easy saturn contacts except a wide trine from mars to saturn so it may not last as long as you'd like. then again, saturn-venus kind of sucks, so its not a big deal you don't have it.

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posted October 09, 2013 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
ok i figured i was right about the online thing. there is a lot of venus uranus stuff going on. i would say aquarius asc means you are both emotionally distant. may be far from each other in heart and/or space.

scorpio mc means ruthlessness in career. maybe you work at the same place and put aside the relationship to compete in work. its intense. don't start a relationship. theres a lack of chemistry. it will not be good. its just my opinion. i see it as too competitive and heavy and based on hopes that won't come true.

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posted October 09, 2013 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
ok but lisa, how are you in love when you haven't met? or am i wrong. idk, i just don't see it going places. it seems really... like it is built more on what you think is true vs. what is real. like not seeing the real him. it worries me. i hope you met him already.

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no we have not met, only in dreams, it's a very long story, but we have a soul connection, and we're going to find out what it is between us.

posted October 09, 2013 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
please be careful. i feel like you may not be seeing everything here that is true. please meet him in a public place only! i can tell a lot of this relationship is based on illusions. it makes sense that you... met in a dream i guess. i kind of saw that with pisces mars but not that extreme when i was thinking of it.

my point was that you may find yourself struggling w/ real sexual compatibility. good luck.

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posted October 09, 2013 10:19 PM            

thanks lisa. i don't mean to come across as blunt, i just don't have the time - and I'm broke! - to do these kinds of in-depth, very personal readings anymore. composites are ok when i have time on my hands, but synastry just goes too deep since its a 2 person thing.

posted October 11, 2013 01:00 AM            

Perhaps the whole purpose IS to meet, understand the spiritual connexion, and then move on.

Plus, his natal ... wow. That stellium ALL opposite Uranus. He's just way too unpredictable and unstable in order to endure such an already unlikely relationship.

posted October 11, 2013 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I think the composite is too scattered to withstand a long-distance relationship.

Perhaps the whole purpose IS to meet, understand the spiritual connexion, and then move on.

Plus, his natal ... wow. That stellium ALL opposite Uranus. He's just way too unpredictable and unstable in order to endure such an already unlikely relationship.

But we wish you luck!

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posted October 11, 2013 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
how is he unstable if he has alot of taurus planets?
he seems impatient sometime but then extremely patient another time, also he started all this and so he must think about the fact that we live in different countries right? he knew and he still waits for me till i'm ready to meet..

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Those planets are ALL being heavily aspected by Uranus. By opposition. Are you honestly not seeing this? The man is constantly at war with his independent spirit. Jekyll trying to desperately keep the lid on Hyde. This is the sort of chart I'd imagine for someone with fugue state - who'd dedicate themselves to putting down roots only to one day just pick up and leave. Adios. See ya later. G'bye.

Uranus is just too ...

And at the 29th degree like that.

I've also got personal experience with a man born just a few days off. I'll always love him to pieces, but he was just too unstable.

Even now, I swear he'll never feel truly settled, or be genuinely happy. He has too much soul work to do first because he'll seem to allow himself to that point.

Of course the synastry matters, but in general, that's part of the picture.

Also, you're considerably younger in comparison - to try to take on something of this magnitude.

It's just very, very dicey. Alas, a Scorpio Venus-Pluto, heh. You guys can certainly dig your teeth in, can't you? Trouble is, you're dealing with some quindeciles here: obsessive on top of obsessive. That Venus-Mars quindecile ... man, let me tell you. I KNOW that one, like the back of my hand.

Never had my heart broken so badly in my life. Not because he doesn't love me - but because he DOES. He's there, I'm here. Timing was wrong, we both had other things we've had to do, and ... here we are.

So, careful with those quindeciles. They'll emotionally murder you, and you two have a few big ones.

My pro advice? Handle. With. Caution.

posted October 11, 2013 01:47 PM            

My oldest girlfriend met her husband online; they have a highly concentrated composite, dual Sun-Moon conjunctions, Venus-Mars activity, and each other's 7H's highlighted.

We were all still sceptical, but then, after 5 years, he got the visa, they married (7 years ago), and they just had their second child. They proved us wrong - but, hey, with synastry and a composite like that ... ?

With one like this ... ? Ehhh.

posted October 11, 2013 02:45 PM            

what do you mean with he's extreme ?? he's the sweetest, and he has so much patience with me, and me being influenced by scorpio i do tests and he always came back, and forgives me, he's super artistic and sensitive guy.

posted October 11, 2013 03:46 PM            

Perhaps you don't see it, and that's fine. Uranus is always subtly putting VERY intense pressure upon the bulk of his chart. Maybe it's a drop in a bucket, but it's a CONSTANT dripping. Eventually, it's going to collapse.

That's just a powerhouse of energy, VERY close: Mars-Mercury-Sun. Wow. Then you've got Venus-Chiron, adding ultra-sensitivity and insecurity.

With the possibility of his Moon-Nodes forming a T-Square, in which Uranus is the spark?

posted October 11, 2013 03:49 PM            

Once, and if, you two actually begin a relationship that isn't at a distance, and that continues for awhile, THEN consider making a commitment. Otherwise, there's just too much potential for everything to explode very suddenly, leaving you both in shambles.

posted October 11, 2013 06:46 PM            

I think that there's too much Neptune here clouding things. I have had a similar 'psychic' connexion with someone whom I also met online for several years, but in conjunction to the weird phenomena, we communicated regularly - here - on the material plane.

I fear you guys will get too caught up in fantasy and that which can never be verified, disappointing each other in the long run.

And I would be VERY suspicious of ANYONE saying they 'love you' before you've even MET. Nevermind, communicating regularly on a consistent basis, honestly.

I understand your reticence to Skype with him and so on.

posted October 11, 2013 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I've got a bad feeling about this. All of it.

I think that there's too much Neptune here clouding things. I have had a similar 'psychic' connexion with someone whom I also met online for several years, but in conjunction to the weird phenomena, we communicated regularly - here - on the material plane.

I fear you guys will get too caught up in fantasy and that which can never be verified, disappointing each other in the long run.

And I would be VERY suspicious of ANYONE saying they 'love you' before you've even MET. Nevermind, communicating regularly on a consistent basis, honestly.

I understand your reticence to Skype with him and so on.

But then shouldn't that be the only red flag you need that something is NOT right here?

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