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posted October 11, 2013 03:48 AM            

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See my tarot reading request topic for details, can horary answer this?

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posted October 11, 2013 03:52 AM            

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Is this his chart?

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posted October 11, 2013 03:53 AM            

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I posed the chart.

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posted October 11, 2013 03:54 AM            

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So I believe he would be Saturn and I Moon?

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posted October 11, 2013 03:55 AM            

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I'm sort of fuzzy on horary...but i'll give it a try.

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posted October 11, 2013 03:56 AM            

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thank you, any insights help

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posted October 11, 2013 03:58 AM            

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well first you'd have to tell me if this is the exact chart that was made up for the questions your wanting to ask about his sexual issues.

then we can go from there

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posted October 11, 2013 03:58 AM            

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this is the exact chart

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posted October 11, 2013 04:03 AM            

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ok!

Well it's a very difficult chart first off,there is a cardinal grand cross which means there are issues with taking action.Cardinal modality is about doing not thinking,the two major planets are affected the Sun which is a person at his/her truest core and the Moon the expression of emotion.

Now three outer planets are involved Uranus the planet of change Pluto the planet of transformation and Jupiter the planet of beliefs.There could be an issue with this guy in which he does not believe in who he is anymore on the inside,something has obviously changed Uranus and he is definitely going through an inner healing.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:04 AM            

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So you believe it's trust issues within himself?

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posted October 11, 2013 04:08 AM            

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Pluto is playing an even bigger role here because he's making aspects to both the Sun and Moon.

Which tells me that something is needing to be transformed meaning he or you need to bury past hurts or there is a definite need for him or you to not have sex just mean something superficial,Moon conjunct Pluto always means that our emotions come out raw it's hardcore real emotional intimacy that we crave want and need.

Sun square the conjunction adds fuel to the fire because it's not just an emotional need it's and inner need it's the way we are or the way he wants to be at this time.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:10 AM            

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well, he really does love it when we have sex, so I believe it might be his past hurts

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posted October 11, 2013 04:11 AM            

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He has had a lot of difficulty with women in the past.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
So you believe it's trust issues within himself?

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It could be that he has trust issues,but it could also mean he might be having issues in initiating having a conversation with you about what is really going on with him internally.

May i ask does it seem like he hasn't been communicating with you lately in the matters of your sexual life?

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posted October 11, 2013 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by AqMoon:
It could be that he has trust issues,but it could also mean he might be having issues in initiating having a conversation with you about what is really going on with him internally.

May i ask does it seem like he hasn't been communicating with you lately in the matters of your sexual life?

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yes he kind of shuts me out, when I try, and that's one of the reasons I posed the chart.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
yes he kind of shuts me out, when I try, and that's one of the reasons I posed the chart.

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I mean he shuts me out when I try to talk about it.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
I mean he shuts me out when I try to talk about it.

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Now looking at where mercury is it's conjunct Saturn which means he might be shutting you out because Saturn is having an effect on how he communicates with you and vice versa.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:16 AM            

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Ok, but why would he be having problems? Because in terms of everything else, we have excellent communication.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:18 AM            

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There is also a t-square involving Neptune the planet of escapism Venus and mars the female and male counterparts of attraction.

obviously the square can indicate different wants between the male and the female sex.there is a rough tension that needs to be corrected and in this case it could me that your wanting to be more intimate and romantic and he is obviously pushing away.The neptunian energy could be forcing him to escape from his internal issues instead of directly talking it out.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:20 AM            

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oh ok, I see, well he once told me of when he was nineteen like me, he was about to have sex with his ex girlfriend, when her dad walked in, and pulled a gun on him, do you think that could it?

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posted October 11, 2013 04:20 AM            

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oh ok, I see, well he once told me of when he was nineteen like me, he was about to have sex with his ex girlfriend, when her dad walked in, and pulled a gun on him, do you think that could be it?

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posted October 11, 2013 04:20 AM            

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Ok, but why would he be having problems? Because in terms of everything else, we have excellent communication.

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In the sign of Scorpio saturn conjunct mercury can mean that there are thing's he might not be telling you about his past relationships,he might not have told you everything about his previous relationships.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:22 AM            

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In the sign of Scorpio saturn conjunct mercury can mean that there are thing's he might not be telling you about his past relationships,he might not have told you everything about his previous relationships.

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hmmm...I've actually often wondered that.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:24 AM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
oh ok, I see, well he once told me of when he was nineteen like me, he was about to have sex with his ex girlfriend, when her dad walked in, and pulled a gun on him, do you think that could it?

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having a gun pulled on you while having sex can affect anyone into that it might be wrong,it's all in the mentality you know if it happens we as a person might think oh well what's to say it might not happen again.He could have in issue with feel secure about having sex with you because of somebody else walking in or catching you both in the act.It might always be a possiblity for him or it might always be there in the back of his mind.Remember thing's like this affect people in different ways as well.

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posted October 11, 2013 04:26 AM            

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Originally posted by AqMoon:
having a gun pulled on you while having sex can affect anyone into that it might be wrong,it's all in the mentality you know if it happens we as a person might think oh well what's to say it might not happen again.He could have in issue with feel secure about having sex with you because of somebody else walking in or catching you both in the act.It might always be a possiblity for him or it might always be there in the back of his mind.Remember thing's like this affect people in different ways as well.

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Do you think there's anything we can do to fix it? Like I said in my other thread, he has no problem remaining hard while I'm on top, but when it's him, he will get soft half-way through.

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