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Topic: Im over it!
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jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 01:50 AM
  
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IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 929
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 14, 2013 01:57 AM
When it's time, it'll happen. Otherwise, focus on everything else you feel you're drawn to do. Really. Love comes when it does - not because you're wondering why it hasn't got here yet.Happy early birthday. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 14, 2013 02:01 AM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
When it's time, it'll happen. Otherwise, focus on everything else you feel you're drawn to do. Really. Love comes when it does - not because you're wondering why it hasn't got here yet.Happy early birthday.
Great advice Indigo  I feel like Jenny a lot even with my hobbies, but your post just brought me some peace of mind. IP: Logged |
BirdLee
Newflake Posts: 13
From: jupiter
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 02:08 AM
Take it as it comes.
Althought you've wandered this path that these relationships have brought you on, this is a time of creative forces for you by destiny. Do not wish these moments to end and enjoy what life brings you. Emotions run wild sometimes but you will find happiness. Remember God loves you too IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2328
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 08:00 AM
Not to be a killjoy, but sometimes it doesn't. And if it doesn't (or you don't see it/don't know how to put yourself out there), sometimes it helps to just examine what happened so far & why the plunge was never taken. That opens the door to change & a coach can help greatly with that. It also doesn't mean something is wrong, but that you need a different approach.
Someone I knew had this. We always said 'it will come', but at 30, it still had not. X went to a coach, discussed it, changed the strategy & now X has a lovely partner for years already, living together & generally being very happy, content & in love.
X did have to change ways for this though. And even though it was scary, my friend is so glad that it was confronted Wishing you good luck! IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 269
From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 14, 2013 08:44 AM
Hi Jenny.....Sorry about this situation. I can relate (about the relationship part) although I've always managed to have strong friendships. Have you ever spoken to a professional about this? I like Twirl's idea of talking to someone about this and what may be causing this. Sometimes this happens and it's timing, fate, etc, and sometimes this happens because we are not focused on that area of life. However, I agree with other comments that love really does appear when it needs to. I can pull 3 cards for you in this way--- Here they are: 5 of cups, King of Pentacles, King of Wands---Wheel of Fortune as a clarification card. The 5 of cups definately reinforces the feelings you are having--however, look at the two kings that have shown up! Now, one idea is that this represents aspects of yourself in this case you are more powerful, resourceful, magnetic and in control of things than you think. I asked about the next month for you in terms of getting your energy up and this is what appeared. I would say two kings also indicate that someone wiser and older will provide counsel to you and there will be a meeting of the minds. The wheel of fortune to me, is a sign that things will be shifting favorably for you while keeping in mind the energy of the kings (within you, or within others supporting you, or those you may meet) in order to change your situation right now. Research those two cards and see what resonates with you.... Hope this helps! Good luck to you! IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 16, 2013 03:50 PM
Dear Indigo, Hannah, Bird,Twirl and Lotus,
I just want to express my gratitude for your words. Thank you for being understanding and lending me advice and support. The one constant in my life that has never let me down is my radio...i was told once by a psychic that my spirit guides contact me through song and it is true. SO, I keep listening and gain strength from them. I sound so corny!!! ANyways, thank you Lotus for the reading, I am interested about two kings in my spread. And I like the last card as well, it seems positive. This site has inspired me to learn more about tarot, today i am going to look for a deck-i use playing cards now- and maybe i will take a tarot class as well.
I hope everyone has a great week.
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poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 147
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 09:43 PM
Hi Jenny,I have been following your dilema since last September when you lost your job with a heavy heart! I agree with Twirl that perhaps you should talk to someone about this. I know it probably feels good to reach out to Lindaland and sometimes we go to physics,clairvoyants etc. until we find a favorable solution. In your case tarot cards. I fear that you would use them in the same way over and over until a favorable solution showed (with your ex boss perhaps)and I'm pretty certain it will never happen. He was your boss after all not your boyfriend. Remember when I asked if you have close relationships or have ever had male attention ie: a boyfriend? You mentioned that you have not. I know this sounds very harsh (sorry honey)! but perhaps it is time to really think about counselling to get over your grief. I know you have the strength in you. You deserve happiness. Big HUGS to you. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 525
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted October 17, 2013 09:57 PM
Awe, Hello Jenny,I am in EXACT same situation  I feel your pain hope things get better for you soon! IP: Logged | |
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