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Topic: Tarot: Has he moved on? Should I? What's next?
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REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 12:01 AM
  
Has my ex moved on or does he still have feelings for me? Do I need to make the first move? I can't move on or do anything without him popping up inside my everything. Please, help.Thank you. This is our synastry if it helps. I'm black and he's red.  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
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posted October 21, 2013 04:02 PM
Has he moved on?
10 of Cups + ChariotNo he hasn't he is still very much into you and is ready to act on those feelings, perhaps he is being pushed by someone or something to act on those feelings, like a friend... Does he still have feelings for you?
Page of Cups + Fool YES and YES. But they are renewing and are more immature like a childish infatuation and excitement regarding you. Advice?
2 0f Wands + The Lovers Your feelings are shared and go with what your heart is, this will help you become independent and realize your self - qualities as well. This relationship is exalted and wonderful. IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Has he moved on?
10 of Cups + ChariotNo he hasn't he is still very much into you and is ready to act on those feelings, perhaps he is being pushed by someone or something to act on those feelings, like a friend... Does he still have feelings for you?
Page of Cups + Fool YES and YES. But they are renewing and are more immature like a childish infatuation and excitement regarding you. Advice?
2 0f Wands + The Lovers Your feelings are shared and go with what your heart is, this will help you become independent and realize your self - qualities as well. This relationship is exalted and wonderful.
I don't know how to thank you. My, God. Thank you much. <3 IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 09:36 PM
Oh, how shall I approach this situation? How do I reconnect with him? What does he want/expect? :/IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 3019
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 09:52 AM
You should show him that you are not indifferent and you're approach should be honest and passionate
knight of wands (r) 8 of cups (r) 9 of cups (r)
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2435
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 10:01 AM
Not that I really want to budge in, but the 10 of cups & chariot tells me he moved on. So in my opinion it's best to let him go. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 3019
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 03:40 PM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Not that I really want to budge in, but the 10 of cups & chariot tells me he moved on. So in my opinion it's best to let him go.
Interesting interpretation. I could be wrong with mine after all. You should pull the cards yourself (I'm not being rude I hope it doesn't come off that way). My cards come off as a certain vibe to me when I pull them lol it depends on the reader I think for MY spread if he moved on I would of saw 8 of Cups combined with 5 of Cups just my feelings.. I'd like to see yours too  IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted October 22, 2013 04:28 PM
It's always good to follow your hunches, but 10 of cups & Chariot are both cards that give of an impression that all will be well in love, while that's not what they are stating. They actually answered your question precisely in my opinion. He moved away (chariot) from happy times (10 cups). Edit: no, I don't think you are rude & I hope you don't mind I said something about your cards. It's just that if he did move on, it's really a shame to keep waiting when there are others there. @Rev: I think the sun-pluto connection may be one if the reasons from an astrology viewpoint that makes it hard to let go. I don't know much about astrology though. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted October 23, 2013 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Not that I really want to budge in, but the 10 of cups & chariot tells me he moved on. So in my opinion it's best to let him go.
I thought this too. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 23, 2013 01:26 AM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Not that I really want to budge in, but the 10 of cups & chariot tells me he moved on. So in my opinion it's best to let him go.
Thank you I wanted to say that too but I didn't know if I should. IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 23, 2013 11:52 AM
But, what Karka said, "No he hasn't he is still very much into you and is ready to act on those feelings, perhaps he is being pushed by someone or something to act on those feelings, like a friend..." sounds about right.My ex has a lot of friends that are awlays egging him on about me, so. Thank you for all the insights though, really. TT.TT IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2435
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posted October 23, 2013 12:40 PM
I understand the wishes in regards to this. I'm just not seeing it. Wishing you well! IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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Registered: May 2011
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posted October 23, 2013 12:42 PM
Its interesting how Page of Cups always comes up after a break up )or whoever was dumped). Did you dump him?IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 23, 2013 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Its interesting how Page of Cups always comes up after a break up )or whoever was dumped). Did you dump him?
Yeah, I did. But, I didn't want to. I've never stopped liking him. It's been 3 years now though. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 3019
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 24, 2013 07:27 PM
I realized Page of Cups + Fool basically happens when the other person abruptly separates from that person so that person feels like they have a lot of premature emotions they didn't get to share and wasted potential basically. It wouldn't hurt to try, OP.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1104
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posted October 24, 2013 07:31 PM
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Originally posted by REVOLUTION21:
Yeah, I did. But, I didn't want to. I've never stopped liking him. It's been 3 years now though.
It's been 3 years though, how long did you guys date for? IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 24, 2013 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I realized Page of Cups + Fool basically happens when the other person abruptly separates from that person so that person feels like they have a lot of premature emotions they didn't get to share and wasted potential basically. It wouldn't hurt to try, OP.
OH. MY. GOD. This is exactly how I feel. OH. MY. GOD. I can't right now. OH. MY. GOD. IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 24, 2013 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
It's been 3 years though, how long did you guys date for?
For a month. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted October 24, 2013 08:42 PM
I'd say pursue him. *shrugs* Tell him straight up how you feel.IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 24, 2013 08:49 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I'd say pursue him. *shrugs* Tell him straight up how you feel.
Thank you. I will. I was thinking about writing him a letter because I can't really call him, so. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted October 25, 2013 02:35 AM
Just do it, you have nothing to lose. Good luck! Though if I were to be blunt, if you were only with him for a month, he's most likely lost feelings by now.IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
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posted October 25, 2013 07:21 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Just do it, you have nothing to lose. Good luck! Though if I were to be blunt, if you were only with him for a month, he's most likely lost feelings by now.
Well, I feel, like, we hit it off kind of fast. Like, I really believe it's his Mars conjuncting my ASC/Rising and Moon. Our relationship started off kind of sexual, y'know? I feel, like, I don't even have to say or do anything to get him excited. xD IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted October 26, 2013 12:56 AM
^ Yeah... But the thing is sex and emotions are generally a separate thing. A guy can really care about someone and not have had sex with them once, and another can sleep with someone often for 5 years and feel nothing. So the fact you guys got sexual doesn't mean much really imo. I think you should probably just tell him how you feel in person- a letter probably isn't the best option.IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 26, 2013 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ Yeah... But the thing is sex and emotions are generally a separate thing. A guy can really care about someone and not have had sex with them once, and another can sleep with someone often for 5 years and feel nothing. So the fact you guys got sexual doesn't mean much really imo. I think you should probably just tell him how you feel in person- a letter probably isn't the best option.
Alright, thanks. I guess I'll have to schedule a hang out then. IP: Logged |
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