posted October 24, 2013 06:21 PM            

Could someone be kind enough to make a reading to know if my ex will win the custody? We're both fighting for it and im scared and sad.

Ty

posted October 24, 2013 10:25 PM            

I dont know what to offer in exchange but I can pray for you :-)

Ty

posted October 25, 2013 03:11 AM            

I put down cards for this. Since it's a very sensitive subject, I would like to urge you to keep in mind nothing is ever written in stone & you always have a choice in how to deal with the circumstances.

I am under the impression that the outcome of the custody case will lead to having to cooperate with your ex. So if he for instance asked for full custody, that will not happen. However, if he asked for seeing the children more often, that will be granted. There will have to come a certain agreement where both parents (you & him) will be a part of the children's life.
If you have been trying to keep him away from the kids fully, you will not be able to do this.
I'm not sure in which part of the world you are, but I'm under the impression that mediation - guidance from a therapist to Ensure you will be able to make that cooperation work (for the kids) will be recommended (or demanded even <-- depending on your law system).
So overall: your precise demands in this case will not 'hold'.

posted October 25, 2013 05:11 AM            

Ty so much for your kind answer.

We got separated 2 years ago, i decided that we both should be with the child. But things did not go well and now that she went to school i decided that she needed stability. In the weeks he was supposed to be with her he didnt and the child had been always with his mother or friends.

posted October 25, 2013 05:49 AM            

I'm sorry this got out of hand that you both went to court

However, looking at your cards I don't think it will be put this black & white. The importance of stability of your child will be the focus. Especially looking at the long-term stability.
Again, I don't know what is common in your law system, but I really think mediation (help from a third party) will be into this. I'm sorry your ex is saying such horrible things, like pointing at depression. Therefore I do think some help is being suggested.
So you will not 'win' what you demanded, but I also don't think he will get that full custody at all. So very much what I wrote above. Something leading to an agreement in favour of your child and I think they will keep an eye out to see how that develops & if they can get you on the same page.
Something along those lines.

posted October 25, 2013 07:10 AM            

I think its fair the child staying with both, as long there is someone mediating it.. i only want the best for my child.

Ty once again and ill pray for you :-)