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Topic: Will I be SINGLE forever?
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shesz
Newflake Posts: 22
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 03, 2013 04:04 AM
  
Hi, I'm 26 years old and I'm still a single. I've never had a serious relationship. For 9 years I have not been on a date. What is wrong with me? Will I be alone forever. Do you have any ideas? 
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starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 873
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 03, 2013 11:21 AM
no, you have so many planets in cancer that love and motherhood are likely gonna happen. but all those planets in cancer might be holding you back. you might come off as way to shy/retiring and just not actively pursuing what you want. the moon opposite mars is probably what is prohibiting action on your part (seeking dates), and coupled with so much cancer you're probably more of a homebody that isn't actually allowing yourself to get out there and change your own situation. just get onto match or eharmony or something and find a date; it's not that hard and you've only got shy placements, not detrimental ones. your ASC and venus are close in aspect, so you're probably very pretty or focused on looks, so just takes steps to actually put yourself out there and be noticed. you do have some oppositions to outer planets from your inner ones, but that won't be a big thing until you actually start getting into a relationship.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6005
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 04, 2013 02:23 PM
I notice you have Venus opposition Neptune. I have the square and I've been single a long time. I think this placement can put someone off in la-la land when it comes to love / relationships. You might find yourself missing signals, or seeing signals of interest that aren't there and get confused or nothing happens a lot of the time. IP: Logged |
St@r2013
Knowflake Posts: 103
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 04, 2013 05:45 PM
Hi shesz, I can't read astrological charts but believe me you're not destined to stay single! There's a book that I absolutely love - 'If I'm So Wonderful Why Am I Still Single' - Susan Page. Reading the book I understood that the reason I'm single is because I don't do much about it - I would only go to dates when someone would try to set me up but I was never doing anything to meet people - I just thought it would happen somehow (because I met my Exs without trying). I also bought this book for my friend (after I told her about it and she was curious to read it). My friend went to about 3 dates in her 26 years - after I told her that the idea is basically to date and be more proactive - she signed up to online dating and went to about 10 first dates or so (she's 27 now). Now, I'm still single (my friend started dating this guy, but I'm not sure how serious it is) but I know that I can change it - maybe sign up to another single's event etc. So yeah - you're not going to be single forever! really recommend the book and best of luck =)
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