posted November 12, 2013 04:15 AM            

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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
Well, I will try to make a question, if you could put the cards I'll be happy and if not, that's ok too My question is:

I will get married someday and will be happy with this way of life?

*I'm asking this because I don't want to marry and neither have kids, but some people say I will...

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Ace of Wands - Ace of Swords - Five of Pentacles

Two aces, very interesting. I don't get the sense that the cards have anything to say about marriage and children for you, it seems you have been very creative and forceful with your own way of seeing things. Right now other people are giving you input about what they see for you, and this is causing at least some mild confusion. I almost get the sense that this reading is more about the current situation than the future's outcome. Maybe you are worried that despite the fact that you are mostly sure you don't want to be married or have kids, you will regret that decision. Aces symbolize new beginnings, and maybe that says something about your choice to opt-out of traditional commitment and home life. You've been given the freedom to make these choices for yourself, and that's a new beginning in itself.

posted November 12, 2013 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:

Ace of Wands - Ace of Swords - Five of Pentacles

Two aces, very interesting. I don't get the sense that the cards have anything to say about marriage and children for you, it seems you have been very creative and forceful with your own way of seeing things. Right now other people are giving you input about what they see for you, and this is causing at least some mild confusion. I almost get the sense that this reading is more about the current situation than the future's outcome. Maybe you are worried that despite the fact that you are mostly sure you don't want to be married or have kids, you will regret that decision. Aces symbolize new beginnings, and maybe that says something about your choice to opt-out of traditional commitment and home life. You've been given the freedom to make these choices for yourself, and that's a new beginning in itself.

Whew - this one was tough. What do the cards say to you?

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Hi Twitterbird05!

Thanks a lot for remember me! I don't know about tarot cards, but someone I know sometimes talk about marriage with me and it drives me crazy. I never felt this desire neither wanted children too but this guy is confusing me. Other times, other guys talked about marriage with me too and I begin to wonder if it is something I have to do in life (because my NN in 5th house and my sun is in Leo in 7th). I started thinking this way because I know I'm very attached on my SN that is conjunct my chart ruler Uranus, so it's pretty obvious to me why the idea of get married just freak me out. So I wanted to know this, if marriage and children are something I have to consider to evolve spiritually. I started to be afraid of don't learn what I have to in this life. You are very right in say I've " been very creative and forceful with your own way of seeing things" and the other things you said too. You understood very well that it's a current situation...maybe I'll start to change my mind about this subject?

Again, thank you very much, you were very insightful and I agree this isn't an easy question. God bless you and help you in your life as you are helping me, success in your studies