posted November 27, 2013 06:11 PM            

By being retrogade, we can already say he's feeling weak and preoccupied.

He's in emotional Cancer, who is known for retreating into their shell when they're hurt, worried, stressed and/or vexed.

He is exalted AND received by you on your degree of term and face. Am I correct in assuming you still care for and love this man and is attracted to him? You, on the other hand, is dignified by term but not received by him. From this, I'd say he cares for you, but he isn't interested in you anymore.

Venus is being received by him in his degree of term in Capricorn and is dignified by triplicity. There's an applying opposition here, so I'd say he has a love interest at the moment but it's being hidden from you, as she rules your 12th house.

Another relevant applying aspect your ex makes is to Saturn, a trine. I feel Saturn here represents his property/communication skills or even his home, as it rules his 2nd, 3rd and 4th. Can he be preoccupied with anything related to these house matters?

posted November 27, 2013 06:36 PM            

What he wants/what his intentions are towards you?

3 of Cups - Ace of Cups - Knight of Swords

posted November 27, 2013 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
You rock, thanks!
I don't think he cares about me though, you're being a little bit too generous with your words there. My impression is that if he had some muddy boots on he would just go and wipe his feet on me, if you catch my drift. Guy hates my guts.
Do you see him separating from his current love interest? (Yes he has one right now, I confirm that) (Another thing about him being Jupiter, he is a Sag Sun. More irony there). Saturn could be his home OR it most likely is his Ex Wife. He got problems with her too? Damn.

Give me 20 minutes and I'll be back with your reading.

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Well, you're dignified, my dear. The least he could feel for you is respect and the most is some warm feelings. I do think that Jupiter being in Cancer signifies he's holding onto grudges and retreating into his shell. You are dignified in this chart, so you're strong in this situation IRL.

posted November 27, 2013 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Here you are:

What he wants/what his intentions are towards you?

3 of Cups - Ace of Cups - Knight of Swords

He wants to have fun and celebrate with you and tell the whole world about it. I think he is very much in love with you and may even become a little forceful in letting you know these things. Consider yourself lucky, that is, if you reciprocate the feelings.

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In love?! That is surprising! He does not show it... I had a crush on him some 6, 8 years ago and I actually thought I was over him until someone told me he speaks a lot about me and very fondly. My old feelings rushed back in but I'm not sure what this is all about for me. I do love him, though... just not sure about the whole "in love" thing.

posted November 28, 2013 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Yes they were together for a long time his ex wife and him.
I wish him and his new one would break up. How soon can I ask in a separate horary if they will? Should I wait 3 months?
Whole situation here isn't fair at all. I hate this all. I'm thinking that I could probably ask if him and his new one (which isn't that new now, they have been together for about 8-9 months) will break up because this horary is about why he is ignoring me

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posted November 28, 2013 08:04 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
4 of Cups - Page of Swords - Ace of Cups

I think there is something there that you aren't noticing. The cup is being offered to you but you cannot see it quite yet or you are not paying attention to it. I think he will communicate to you through an email or message soon. Swords show action. Then there is that Ace of Cups again..love love love. Lucky you.

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This past year, he hasn't contact me for anything other than for me to get him the name/number/facebook of a girl he saw talking to an acquaintance of mine... Was really annoying about it too and didn't let go of it until I had contacted the acquaintance. Keeps offering to set me up with a friend of his too. Does that sound like someone who's interest in me?

posted November 28, 2013 10:59 AM            

Please excuse me for barging into your thread but since your horary appeared just about the same time I cast mine, I thought this thread may have some insights for me too. And it did, of course.

But there are a couple of differences with aspects which I would like to ask filleaspirant about. She's down such a good job of interpreting yours.

posted November 28, 2013 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
@ filleaspirant - if you wouldn't mind, should I ask you on a different thread or could you pinpoint any differences?

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Yes, dear, please do that, as I need to know the exact question you asked and we don't hack someone else's thread. You can tell me the background for the question and ask your own questions.

posted November 28, 2013 11:21 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
You can ask horary now if they are going to separate soon, but why would you even bother with this man anymore? You sound like an intelligent, assertive woman who can do much better than a guy that ignores his ex-girlfriend (i.e. is not mature enough to be in the grown-up's world), tbh.

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posted November 28, 2013 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
ah thanks, but I have not met anyone else...I really wish someone else would just come into my life so I could completely forget about him for sure.

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But have you been really looking around you? Sometimes, when we're too focused on a particular someone because they hurt us and/or we want them back, we forget to notice any new, cute prospectives that cross our path.

posted November 28, 2013 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Filleaspirant, in reference to your tarot cards...it was very suspicious that the Ace of Cups would float up twice. I mean something has got to be brewing up there underneath the surface. Can you talk to him?

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I'm a bit reluctant here... I've already told him I liked and wanted him once, I'm not comfortable exposing myself in that way again.

I did try to say something a couple of months ago by making a joke that, since he talks so much about me when drunk, he must really love me. All he said was maybe and left it at that.

posted November 28, 2013 12:44 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
But have you been really looking around you? Sometimes, when we're too focused on a particular someone because they hurt us and/or we want them back, we forget to notice any new, cute prospectives that cross our path.

Btw, why can't you come into someone else's life? Find a guy that can make you laugh and take it from there. Perhaps only a friendship will spring out of it, but you'll be having fun and putting the silly ex behind you.

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posted November 29, 2013 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Yes of course I have been looking, I'm not over focused on him. He isn't my ex boyfriend. We were never formally together and NO he never used me for sex, we never had sex or anything like that. He was my one and only love. Even though I have had tons of other "loves" all the time. I have always been looking. I have another "love" interest but he is only interested in sex and not an actual relationship but we live in different countries so of course the relationship cannot progress any further at the moment. Then I have another guy but he is also abroad and he wanted a full blown relationship with me as he told me himself in july but now he is way too focused on work and has distanced himself from me in a way as well and doesn't talk to me now. Another guy I was involved with who is a good guy inside and out has started talking to me again, (I was the one to find him and begin talking to him) but he has a girlfriend!
This is an evil vicious cycle and I am ******* angry because I feel like everyone is in a relationship except for me right now and I really want to be loved and love back and I crave intimacy and I need sex but of course I have to be single while everyone else enjoys themselves
Sorry but after this guy I have had tons of other guys who "made me laugh", I don't need any of that sh$t. I need a serious relationship. And if I ever have an encounter or see this ******* in person, I will ******* spit in his face after the way he treats me now, ignoring me and all...

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Look, I know what you mean. You are ready for a relationship and tired of dating. I get it. But you can't really choose the time you'll meet your guy, the one that will make you truly happy and fulfilled. Life does not work that way, and perhaps there is a life lesson to be learned here for you...

Perhaps you're to learn to accept life as a single woman first before you can have a relationship? Or perhaps you are to find peace and happiness inside you before you can have share it with someone else? I don't know. I don't have all the answers. I'm trying to tell you it is okay to be single: it's sh*t to be single while everywhere's a couple, but it's not the end of the world. I'm also the only single woman in my group of friends in real life, so I know how you feel, but it doesn't bother me that much. No one is in my shoes and no one feels what I do. I'm happy to wait for my moment of coupled happiness, because I know the wait will be worth it. But that's me and I can only tell you how I deal with it on my own...

As to this guy, I don't know what he did to you but clearly it was something that hurt you. Heal yourself first, before you go at another relationship, ok? Otherwise, you'll be bringing baggage from this a-hole that the new guy will have nothing to do with.