posted November 30, 2013 11:34 PM            

would it be a better statement to say you were in New Found situations and you don't know which direction to go in....

when i hear crossroads I think difficulties and challenges but that's not what I'm seeing here

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I really do greatly appreciate your feedback. I assure you though, while most of my life I'd completely agree with that statement.... I have things going on right now. Enough to get me anxiety attacks . I've never had them before . mostly relationship related. I feel like I'm at a cross roads there.

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posted December 01, 2013 02:29 AM            

there's nothing severe that you are going through you're only going through emotional tense drama being played out in your head.... with a mix of non communication... poor communication from the other party.... the difficulty and challenges are related to that solely. nothing dire is going to happen, no loss is going to happen.... the emotional intensity level right now is that of a high r schooler( no offense at all.... and when I say that I mean when people come on to the bread and said that they have difficulties and challenges I soon that they're more of a grown up nature's such as losing someone I was in a job not have enough money Exedra but this is not the case what is happening with you_ that's actually a good thing if you look at the brighter side of things!).... it may be enough for you to play into the drama but it is nothing that is life altering.

if you want to know how to make things better you have to change your response... but to do that you have to change. and honestly that's not going to happen... you need to go through a few more trials, a few more life experience and then you'll have a whole new outlook and you'll be able to see why this person and probably other men like him have been able to come into your life and with that you'll be able to choose wiser and get better quality men. in short you need to mature your thinking you need to mature your responses and mature tor emotions.
I say all this to be honest upfront and critiquing not criticism.... I don't lie and I don't tell people what they want to hear I don't give fairy tales I give them honest approach as to why things aren't happening and why things are happening you their unliking

QUOTE]Originally posted by coolingembers:
What I'm going through is difficult and challenging . I'm going crazy :P . I am almost always well adept at handling stress but this time not so much . Cancer men and their hot and cold. Didn't affect me in the start, but now I'm in deep and I don't understand what move to make . When I said reading I meant either astrological or tarrot. Regardless, I thank you for taking the time to look ![/QUOTE]