posted December 09, 2013 12:13 PM            

First of all, hugs and more hugs from someone who just start the healing process.

You need to give yourself a break. Know all that was good and all that was wrong into this relationship. Give yourself a time to heal. It must not be good to be with someone who still thinks about another guy...

posted December 09, 2013 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Hello dear!!

First of all, hugs and more hugs from someone who just start the healing process.

You need to give yourself a break. Know all that was good and all that was wrong into this relationship. Give yourself a time to heal. It must not be good to be with someone who still thinks about another guy...

All the best dear, I know what you are passing through, I've been into this road too..

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Thanks Dani. I know I need a break, I just hope it's not for years and years. This was a only 5 month relationship and I hate the fear that I'm fated to be single, the pain that for most of my life I've been unable to enjoy the basic affection that most people experience. 25+ years of celibacy was a hard burden for me. It sucks to feel like I was finally able to experience things only to have it snatched away.

I feel like I must have been a horrible person in a previous life, because I feel like I'm constantly paying for debts.

posted December 09, 2013 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Thanks Dani. I know I need a break, I just hope it's not for years and years. This was a only 5 month relationship and I hate the fear that I'm fated to be single, the pain that for most of my life I've been unable to enjoy the basic affection that most people experience. 25+ years of celibacy was a hard burden for me. It sucks to feel like I was finally able to experience things only to have it snatched away.

I feel like I must have been a horrible person in a previous life, because I feel like I'm constantly paying for debts.

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Dear don't think this way! I had my first boyfriend this year! It lasted 3 weeks, but I had a wonderful time with him. But it was all a lie. Yes, because when he was with me, he was thiking about his ex.

but don't think this way. I hope someday to find someone. But everyone I talk about this, they say: heal yourself first, after this you will find another one... I know what you feel, I feel it too. I can't imagine myself single for the next months, but I know that I will. But today I say: I prefer to wait a little more for a true feeling than to have an illusion as my last one.

posted December 09, 2013 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Dear don't think this way! I had my first boyfriend this year! It lasted 3 weeks, but I had a wonderful time with him. But it was all a lie. Yes, because when he was with me, he was thiking about his ex.

but don't think this way. I hope someday to find someone. But everyone I talk about this, they say: heal yourself first, after this you will find another one... I know what you feel, I feel it too. I can't imagine myself single for the next months, but I know that I will. But today I say: I prefer to wait a little more for a true feeling than to have an illusion as my last one.

I pulled one card for you: 3 of Wands. Keep on fighting for the healing. Don't stay in this mood and start something new: a project you have in your life. Keep your head busy and sooner than you think, you will be with someone...

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