posted December 10, 2013 01:59 AM            

i would like to know which one is my soulmate and what type of men i am dealing with.if they are good men. maybe i am wasting my time and its better to be single or maybe fate has other ideas with my love life to be marriaged to my soulmate inital (em) or the other one i think is my soulmate who i fall in love at first sight inital (t).

please norainnorainows i want to know as its been ongoing for the last seven years and i want to know if i just need to move on and just focus on my career. and forget about soulmates.

posted December 10, 2013 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
and the message is for norainnorainbows. thank you for your criticisms littlecloud

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posted December 10, 2013 03:08 AM            

I am pretty sure you didn't mean anything malicious towards anyone, but this board is a platform where people offer readings as a gesture of good will and frankly your message does contain hints of a certain feeling of entitlement, meanwhile no one is obliged to do anything around here.

This attitude is not welcome on this board. If the way you sound is unintentional, this is still how you come across. There the edit button. Whatever is done for you is a favour and favours are normally asked for. e.g. "Dear NoRainNoRainbows, I realise I am claiming your time, but I would be grateful if you could spare some time, as I have admired the other readings you did that I have read. If you have the time, the situation is as follows etc."

You start with "I would like to know", as if NoRain existed for your convenience. Not cool.

Even so, suppose you secured this gesture of good will. Sometimes we tend to describe situations we are aware of using language and syntax incomprehensible to others. There is no harm in rereading and making sure what you wrote is legible and understandable. This is for your own good, as any reader, however willing to help you, might simply get lost in your description of the situation, so the only person affected is you, as all of this stands in the way of your getting the reading you want. Also paragraphs are ace. They make it easier to read.

No offence intended. It is always cool to see people having confidence in our contributors and we hope every new user blends in. Hope you enjoy this board, and do not misunderstand littlecloud. We are supposed to facilitate the functioning of this board, and she just pointed out the fact that your request would benefit from a bit of editing, this is for your good as opposed to everyone else's.

I feel you might have lacked time to type your query and failed to think of how it may sound. For future reference just try to be more courteous towards people you ask favours of, this kind of attitude goes a long way.

posted December 10, 2013 03:50 AM            

i didn't say you felt entitlement, i said you sounded as if you were. are these two the same in your opinion?

i never read any of the other posts, which is not a problem at all. it is impossible to delete threads even for us, so this is how things are, i have no issues with you creating 5 posts

if you realise it's good will, then it wouldn't hurt to split your opening post in paragraphs. opening posts that are long and confusing are a sign of disrespect for the person you address. this is basic etiquette. and this is the only thing you're doing wrong, not your 5 posts

no one is judging you. if our suggestions are not welcome, it's up to you.

posted December 10, 2013 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
hi i would like to know what is store in my love life a soulmate etc. is the one with curly black hair initals em my soulmate the one i met in large print section of my local library.

and there is four others five including possible soulmate initals em with the initals t someone i met in august 2007 who i have chemistry with inital t and inital rc who i am attracted to and initals bi a love interest is there any romance or love connection there with rc and bi and my soulmate em and the last one inital m someone i just met inital m who would make a good partner i think as he seems nice. what do you see with t, em, rc and bi and m is there a future romance.

and which one out of the five am i most compatible with and the best one for me and for each other and a happy future together and the one i will be the happiest with most. is it em my soulmate or t who i met once and fall in love at first sight or rc who i have met twice but i have a strong attraction too or bi who i have a love interest with and live with or m who i met twice in business appointments but i thought would make a good partner as he is a christian and there is chemistry but he seems like he has honourable character and somebody i could marry and be happy with. i left a violent relationship more than 7 years ago and dont want to make the same poor judgment mistake.

i would like to know what type of men i am dealing with and if i am wasting my time and its better to be single or maybe fate has other ideas with my love life. and i can just focus on my career. and also i would like to know what the best career for me to pursue next year studies etc. i am thinking along the lines of IT and business law and doing both and industrial or clinical psychology and astrology.

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and stuff i disagree its respect to break up message into paragraphs as a sign of respect and equittuite . i think its about control.i will do it because of good will and how i feel about linda-goodman.com. if it makes it easier to read that is fine. i feel like i am in high school and not on a forum and getting reprimanded like a child by littlecloud with a sense of superiority and not as equals. even though little cloud is a moderator. i am a snowflake and i contribute by my posts and being here. thank you saronna

posted December 10, 2013 04:18 AM            

if you believe your way of addressing people is irreproachable, okay. it is going to have an impact on your life, not mine.

mods are here to ensure requesters and contributors interact comfortably. you inconvenience NoRain implying she should wade through your opening post. we pointed it out. you ignored. end of story.

posted December 10, 2013 04:23 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
well it's none of my business how people perceive you

if you believe your way of addressing people is irreproachable, keep believing. it is going to have an impact on your life, not mine.

if you believe you don't need this kind of suggestions, fine. no one can force you. bye now

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posted December 10, 2013 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
well it's none of my business how people perceive you

if you believe your way of addressing people is irreproachable, okay. it is going to have an impact on your life, not mine.

mods are here to ensure requesters and contributors interact comfortably. you inconvenience NoRain implying she should wade through your opening post. we pointed it out. you ignored. end of story.

if you believe you don't need this kind of suggestions, fine. no one can force you. bye now.

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i would like to hear this from norainnorainbows. if norainnorainbows has the same perception or opinions as moderators that i inconvenienced norainnorainbows with my opening post.

posted December 10, 2013 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
hi norainnorainbows i would like a normal card reading please. i would like to know what is store in my love life a soulmate etc. is the one with curly black hair initals em my soulmate the one i met in large print section of my local library.

and there is four others five including possible soulmate initals em with the initals t someone i met in august 2007 who i have chemistry with inital t and inital rc who i am attracted to and initals bi a love interest is there any romance or love connection there with rc and bi and my soulmate em and the last one inital m someone i just met inital m who would make a good partner i think as he seems nice.

what do you see with t, em, rc and bi and m is there a future romance. and which one out of the five am i most compatible with and the best one for me and for each other and a happy future together and the one i will be the happiest with most.

is em my soulmate or t who i met once and fall in love at first sight or rc who i have met twice but i have a strong attraction too or bi who i have a love interest with and live with or m who i met twice in business appointments but i thought would make a good partner as he is a christian and there is chemistry but he seems like he has honourable character and somebody i could marry and be happy with. i left a violent relationship more than 7 years ago and dont want to make the same poor judgment mistake.

i would like to know what type of men i am dealing with and if i am wasting my time and its better to be single or maybe fate has other ideas with my love life. and i can just focus on my career.

and also i would like to know what the best career for me to pursue next year studies etc. i am thinking along the lines of IT and business law and doing both and industrial or clinical psychology and astrology.

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posted December 10, 2013 07:40 AM            

but please understand where littlecloud and andstuff are coming from.

someone i was too kind to, (i even read for them when they offered me nothing in one of their first posts here) started harassing me out of the blue on this forum a week ago, and they speak to others in private emails.

so littlecloud and andstuff who have both seen how these things work one time too many were just keeping an eye open, to any more harassment coming towards me, (it happens some people ask their 'friends' to harass someone on their behalf, i'm not saying this happened here, but one can't be too careful) and for that i must thank them, as it reminds me there are a few bad, but that also there are good people on this forum.

also the post is edited into paragraphs, but i'm very confused by who you are speaking about, or what your question is.

i can read for you for only one person, but not sure who. also i hope you don't mind if this takes a few days, as taking a break from reading for people on this forum for a while unless we are already exchanging offline.

posted December 10, 2013 08:13 AM            

is my soulmate initial (t) tristan who i fall in love with at first sight in august 2007.