posted December 23, 2013 06:48 PM            

update me if you do but I wasn't sure at first if you were going to hear from him until 2-3 weeks but that's when I got the nagging feeling know you're going to see him. you know I just had to say that you to really can work this out if you two are willing to compromise and meet each other halfway and actually have patience in dealing with your struggles. tell each other how you feel about each other and how you feel about how is my feeling you guys have to make a commitment to be together. its scary when you don't know if that person really wants to be with you for the long haul and then someone starts to retreat and the other person gets angry and upset and then they just like you know..... this isn't going to work this is not like what they wanted a relationship and they dissolve it.
so I don't know what went wrong and why ur relationship just can't seem to connect but you both have to be very honest with each other and check each other to make sure one of you doesn't retreat , withdrawal or say screw it I don't want to put this much energy into it

QUOTE]Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Thank you cheerful....you said you felt strongly to edit this - to tell me that when I see him I need to update you on it? Thanks again! Our situation is really weird!not weird just confusing he so aloof.its alot to explain. Will do your reading soon![/QUOTE]

posted December 23, 2013 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
yes I always see you in the creative Art.... what makes you think you wouldn't be after you got married..... its a hobby and the skills

gosh I'm such a loser

so is it 8 months from now or 6 plus 8.
Am I going to atleast date anybody within 8 month.

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posted December 23, 2013 11:18 PM            

I would also be upfront and say something in the line of you not interested in ur ex or anyone other than him and u would really like to see if something can really blossom and stick with that relationship. but you also need to tell him that the game playing have to stop iand open communication and being open about how one feels have to also start happening more frequently.

you guys are hurting each other because you both are individually afraid of getting hurt from the other person....... stop it!

posted December 23, 2013 11:41 PM            

8 of pentacles- I think Jason thinks with hard work & Co operation you two could start over & workout. He is more open & willing to possibly try again with you? Perhaps a very slow process to get to that point.

The star - I think you will see a glimmer of hope feel inspired let love come to you have a open mind and heart ...I think you will stay in one of their lives even if it's just as friends I think perhaps its Jason...

posted December 23, 2013 11:53 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
King of wands - is john older than you atlwast quite mature serious minded? I think he does think of you but no so much in regards to romantic realms...maybe more like, how are you doing? Things like that. Is he in a long term relationship? Or maybe considering marriage?? It seems like he is very secure & settled in at this point in his life ...

8 of pentacles- I think Jason thinks with hard work & Co operation you two could start over & workout. He is more open & willing to possibly try again with you? Perhaps a very slow process to get to that point.

The star - I think you will see a glimmer of hope feel inspired let love come to you have a open mind and heart ...I think you will stay in one of their lives even if it's just as friends I think perhaps its Jason...

I hope that resonated? I tried reading three times kept getting shut out of my browser why it took so long! Please let me know if this makes sense or not as I'm still newer with reading cards ..hugs!

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posted December 24, 2013 01:04 AM            

your ex and I think that you were a good girlfriend to have and I sense he thinks of you as a great person and I think that's why he might have memories of you and miss you..... if he were to come across your way you would definitely want to chat with you..... but he's content with who he's with.... and I'm feeling he might even be thinking of maybe taking it very seriously.... like wanting a marriage with her.... but the funny thing is I'm not actually seen that happening maybe because I don't know either of them in anyway.... or the relationship have to develop more. I'm very careful to say whether she does or does not miss you romantically I think its more of the feeling the nostalgia between the two of you.

can I ask when you see me dating somebody coming around, anything about him
him

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Oh ok! I sensed John was married feels like less of a nice person than Jason...I'm sure there is someone out there who will help you get over both of them...Jason seems like a nice guy like one of those people you could stay friends with be Platonic and that's ok you know? Exes to stay friends ...

Thank you so much for the reading about. Guy I'm interested in! I hope we can start over be close...in the Summer we saw eachother every weekend, but same time he's always been aloof...I made a BIG mistake in Aug & that's when he got really distant...we just started talking again in Nov cause I didn't have a phone. But in Aug his cousin kissed me & I well returned it but I told his cousin no, I like your cousin A....his cousin that kissed me told A. A said he wasn't mad but did become very distant...I felt terrible about it & apologized. Its actually was very out of character for me even do that. Can I ask 1 more question? My ex is he really truly happy with C? Does he miss me?

Will edit this after

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posted December 24, 2013 06:00 AM            

Death card - perhaps the next man will be a sultry Scorpio! I think that next person you date it will be unexpected, not a light or superficial fling either ...I think there will be growth and learning from it.

Queen of pents - when asked what you should focus on...I think its yourself and well being ..love yourself nurture yourself also to love nurture others. Focus on work gaining stability if right now that front is a little shaky, home make your home a comfy pleasant one you like to be in.

I do hope that makes sense! Leave feedback or more questions if you like or if something sounds off.

posted December 24, 2013 06:13 AM            

is she having affair or is your dad seeing someone.... that came up very strongly. Even if they are separated it might not be considered an affair but I feel like something's going on........ this message just came out very powerful for me so I wanted to put it out there I will do the rest of your reading a little bit later today

posted December 24, 2013 06:25 AM            

My main questions:

1 - What the Universe want me to know in this coming year?

2 - What will be the relationship I'll have with my in-laws after marriage?

3 - Do you see me changing jobs? Will I work with arts someday?

Doing the readings here for you... I want to thanks you for being kind and nice for me...

posted December 24, 2013 06:37 AM            

the first answer is on your original thread.

for your second question you will have a great relationship with them and it won't be like how you have with your family. He comes from a healthy relationship type of family they all get along theyre Great

like you will be calling the mom and dad you will be at their house having dinner with you guys for the holidays. again this is going to be a perfect setup for you because the lying that you have to feel part of family and to be loved and accepted and actually get along and have great time the laugh with this family is just going to be very rewarding for you...... I can't stress enough that how you are living today is definitely not going to be higher living when you have your husband and your own family going to be a thousand times better

for your third question I don't see you doing a job with the arts until later on in your life.... but what it feels like to me is you're like a volunteer classroom teacher and that's where you do your creative art work... I also think you should look into leaving some creative art work group when you get into your new spiritual temple that you actually make a long time commitment to...... I just see when you get married and have a family you you won't work..... but your time can be spent in volunteering like I was just speaking of above

in terms of anything sooner to where you can actually get paid for it I don't see that

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
cherful24, will leave my questions here, then I'll give the readings to you about love, career and moving..

My main questions:

1 - What the Universe want me to know in this coming year?

2 - What will be the relationship I'll have with my in-laws after marriage?

3 - Do you see me changing jobs? Will I work with arts someday?

Doing the readings here for you... I want to thanks you for being kind and nice for me...

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posted December 24, 2013 06:54 AM            

Wheel of Fortune
King of Pentacles
Ace of Swords
7 of Cups
6 of Pentacles
9 of Wands

So, for the coming year, the reading supports the one I gave you... Things will start to move forward. A stable man, balanced, will enter your life. I don't see the love at first sight here, I sense you will be first friends, while you're on the process of healing/sensualization in your life. You will exchange ideas, and you need to leave the bad things that happened with you behind, so he can see your light! And this is your trophy: a friendship that can turn into romance. So don't give up dear, this will be heading to be good for you, 2014 will be the year of changing for you. King of Pentacles is an older man... Someone who already saw many things in life... so he will be good for you!!

Career

Page of Cups
King of Swords
8 of Cups
7 of Cups
9 of Swords
8 of Wands

For your career, cards are showing that you will start something soon. Through a man that is very rational. You will be tested a lot in this new job, but this is what will build your career in the future. You will know exactly how and what to do, your choices too. At the beginning, you will feel overhealmed, as with too much in the mind and too much to do, but don't give up! Things will be better after it, I see another job opportunity, a better one.

As many cups, do you work in human field?

Moving

4 of Wands
2 of Wands
3 of Swords
King of Cups
6 of Wands
2 of Cups

Dear Cherful, this reading is pointing to a moving in 2014, but not too soon, not at the beggining of the year. Start having this idea to move after the 4th month of next year. It will be clearer to you. If you do it before, will get a lot of pain and troubles. I see someone with a great heart helping you durin the process, and when you find this new place, things will be ok... and I see a relationship in the end.... so for your love question, I guess you need to move too... wow...

I just saw the post where you say you have a lot of 7th house planets, I sense your pain of being alone... but don't despair... I sense someone coming your way, but first light this wonderful woman you have inside yourself...

posted December 24, 2013 07:03 AM            

yeah my lease ends at the end of April so I can mail probably have to move or I could have the option to stay thinkin but if I do move is it going to be within the city of Chicago are the different location:?

I have a psychology background I don't have a license to counsel but I would love to be advised are other than that yeah my jobs always do you work with people like I manage a residency program at the hospital

so even if the job that you're talking about it temporary to the other better job, that would be fine I just need money like bad!!

I also ask about my weight I go up and down very frequently.... I'm an emotional eater..... I'm losing weight now but I want to know it's going to stabilize am I going to be at my body I had when I was like six and fit to where I love to work out of the time or am I going to be lazy on going to keep going up and down except Exedra! me getting worried weeks havoc on my wardrobe I don't have money to buy new clothes!

I also wanted to ask how people perceive me in the year 2014. I'm trying to go back to my past in the sense where I was very healthy very fit I love to work out and people would just stare at me they always complimented on my hair on my clothes and I felt really really great.... again money is an issue so I don't necessarily have all this money to pamper myself so if you can tell me anything about that it would be great!

leave my questions..... I wrote this on my phone so that might be a lot of spelling mistakes! I definitely wont be able to get to your additional questions until later this afternoon. TY!!

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
[b]Love for Cherful:

Wheel of Fortune
King of Pentacles
Ace of Swords
7 of Cups
6 of Pentacles
9 of Wands

So, for the coming year, the reading supports the one I gave you... Things will start to move forward. A stable man, balanced, will enter your life. I don't see the love at first sight here, I sense you will be first friends, while you're on the process of healing/sensualization in your life. You will exchange ideas, and you need to leave the bad things that happened with you behind, so he can see your light! And this is your trophy: a friendship that can turn into romance. So don't give up dear, this will be heading to be good for you, 2014 will be the year of changing for you. King of Pentacles is an older man... Someone who already saw many things in life... so he will be good for you!!

Career

Page of Cups
King of Swords
8 of Cups
7 of Cups
9 of Swords
8 of Wands

For your career, cards are showing that you will start something soon. Through a man that is very rational. You will be tested a lot in this new job, but this is what will build your career in the future. You will know exactly how and what to do, your choices too. At the beginning, you will feel overhealmed, as with too much in the mind and too much to do, but don't give up! Things will be better after it, I see another job opportunity, a better one.

As many cups, do you work in human field?

Moving

4 of Wands
2 of Wands
3 of Swords
King of Cups
6 of Wands
2 of Cups

Dear Cherful, this reading is pointing to a moving in 2014, but not too soon, not at the beggining of the year. Start having this idea to move after the 4th month of next year. It will be clearer to you. If you do it before, will get a lot of pain and troubles. I see someone with a great heart helping you durin the process, and when you find this new place, things will be ok... and I see a relationship in the end.... so for your love question, I guess you need to move too... wow...

I just saw the post where you say you have a lot of 7th house planets, I sense your pain of being alone... but don't despair... I sense someone coming your way, but first light this wonderful woman you have inside yourself...

Thanks for your readings... they brought confort for me... do you have more questions? I love to exchenge with you... [/B]

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posted December 24, 2013 07:24 AM            

weight loss

Star
4 of Wands
8 of Swords
Justice
World
Wheel of fortune

Great card for you. Well, you will keep on going to this weight loss, don't loose your faith in yourself, you can do it. Then, when you finally do it, rest. Rest your body too, don't over exercise or don't eat too little. Give your body a rest, and in the same time gather will for go on. Cards are telling you are too worried (for sure, obesity is bad for a good life health too), but stop this, it can bring the results you don't want. All of you are doing is good and fair to yourself, this is the process of healing you need. Sucess is in your future with the weight loss \o/... and things will start to turn in your favor too, not because your body will be ok, but your self esteem will be higher

How people will perceive you

Sun
Queen of Cups
Tower
5 of Pentacles
6 of Pentacles
Judgement

People will see your light again. As you are on the process of loose weight, your light will be shown without too much effort. I see you being lovely to other people. As you discover this part of yourself. Yes, you are hearty. But cards remind you that things will not be always 100% good. Some incidents will occur, just for you to see the cycles of life: losing and gaining. If you take a look very close to this aspect, you will learn many things during this year. Take notes in a notepad of what you learn, and in the end of 2014 you will see how much you learnt...

Well, my 2 questions now...

1 - Will I loose weight with the diet I plan to go through? It is not too agressive, but I'd like to know...

posted December 24, 2013 04:37 PM            

but overall I see that you will have lost weight more so than gaining it back.... so it will be a win for you!... but just don't expect too much of a weight loss from a years perspective.... unless you can bite really hard and not gain much of the back throughout the year!

I can just see that your children will be fairly pleasant and they will have a good life still have what they need... when will have a learning disability in so you'll have to take care of him up a little bit more than the others I just mean he's a slow to catch on. I feel like you're going to be having boys and so when I get to the later teenager husband is going to have to take over the discipline area because.... they will do little boys do and will become little misfits... its annoying as though nothing terrible nothing ever get them into serious trouble.

they will be fine I don't see the natural progression that they would take as far as here in the US such as going to college right after high school that's not to say that they won't go to college I just can see they will be fine in life I don't exactly know what avenue thet will take but I get a strong sense that college not be part of it..... I sended the one will be me and man made and perhaps the others will work for him

take that with a grain of salt because that's well over 25 years away and you come from a different cultures so I can't begin to imagine what your culture would be like in 25 years

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Ah, I'm fighting with my weight too... one of my questions is this... but I'll make yours first:

[b] weight loss

Star
4 of Wands
8 of Swords
Justice
World
Wheel of fortune

Great card for you. Well, you will keep on going to this weight loss, don't loose your faith in yourself, you can do it. Then, when you finally do it, rest. Rest your body too, don't over exercise or don't eat too little. Give your body a rest, and in the same time gather will for go on. Cards are telling you are too worried (for sure, obesity is bad for a good life health too), but stop this, it can bring the results you don't want. All of you are doing is good and fair to yourself, this is the process of healing you need. Sucess is in your future with the weight loss \o/... and things will start to turn in your favor too, not because your body will be ok, but your self esteem will be higher

How people will perceive you

Sun
Queen of Cups
Tower
5 of Pentacles
6 of Pentacles
Judgement

People will see your light again. As you are on the process of loose weight, your light will be shown without too much effort. I see you being lovely to other people. As you discover this part of yourself. Yes, you are hearty. But cards remind you that things will not be always 100% good. Some incidents will occur, just for you to see the cycles of life: losing and gaining. If you take a look very close to this aspect, you will learn many things during this year. Take notes in a notepad of what you learn, and in the end of 2014 you will see how much you learnt...

Well, my 2 questions now...

1 - Will I loose weight with the diet I plan to go through? It is not too agressive, but I'd like to know...

2 - it is going to be lonnng time ahead, but do you see me getting older, my kids will have a good life? If you can't see it, no problem for me... just.. starting to believe in my future in these days... [/B]

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posted December 24, 2013 04:50 PM            

Do you have another question?

posted December 24, 2013 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
okay I know this is going to sound really strange don't know if your parents are together..... I'm not sure if it was you that told me your plans were separated

is she having affair or is your dad seeing someone.... that came up very strongly. Even if they are separated it might not be considered an affair but I feel like something's going on........ this message just came out very powerful for me so I wanted to put it out there I will do the rest of your reading a little bit later today

and it could be this winter because I'm talking to a guy I am supposed to meet up with him after the new year

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Hello cherful!

posted December 24, 2013 05:44 PM            

The first thing that imaged of your husband when I was like I thought hed be having a mustache but who the hell is a mustache ....... a couple of readings go......I had a feeling it was an American man I had no idea that you were from Brazil. so I cannot see if he is foreign. He seems American to me that's not foreign for me and so he could be an American or he could be from Brazil. it could even be that he was living in Brazil for so long but his parents are from a different country...... so I Cannot accurately detect what he is but I just see you living in Brazil so whatever he is he lives in Brazil.

so my question is that this guy that I'm meeting after the holiday..... what's going to happen, well we like each other will we date..... I can already tell that this isn't going to be a long lasting because I think he's too old and he already has two kids. So he's not what I was looking for but it'd be great if I could spend my time with him

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Thanks cherful24!! Somehow I feel that Brazil will be broken after the FIFA World Cup, but ok, if they will be ok.. for me good...

Do you have another question?

I have one, don't know if it is hard... do my husband is from the same city/country as me? Many people said I'll marry a foreign...

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posted December 24, 2013 06:03 PM            

Ok, for your reading I picked my Lenormand ones...

Letter
House
Heart
Fox
Mountain

I sense you will get a invite to be in his house, to visit it and share some times with him there. I see that he has good feelings for you (you told me, but i was shown by Heart card), things will be fine for you in the beginning, but Fox here is telling about some event you will not like.... And you will have to overcome something to stay with this guy. I pulled one more to clarify: Man. Hum... maybe some bad habbits this man have... and you will not like when you discover them...

Dear, I know I'm asking about too much about my marriage life, but I forgot the main thing for me now: how are my parents be after my marriage? How will they see this new phase of my life...

posted December 24, 2013 06:04 PM            

but in short no nothings going to change ur mom. him if you can move, out move. it won't do any good to explain it how you feel and talk to her....it wouldn't do any good to talk back..... it wouldn't do any good to talk to explain your position.... she is a one sided track mind person right now but I just wanted to tell you its not you.... can't do anything wrong and you're not the problem. she the realest and understands how life situation happen....how you got in the position that you're she doesn't realize or care really how it's making you fee. she just got a lot of things going on she's taking it out on you. It gives her a sense of power and control life..... but I will say by the end of the year for her, it get much better so if that helps you any.... she will lay off and won't be as hard on you.

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:

Hello cherful!

Were or are you able to get this reading done? The shrewdness of course of mother towards me is still going on from yesterday...I feel trapped like I can't escape not allowed told well heard her talking about me behind my back in regards to the car.

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posted December 24, 2013 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Ah no problem, cherful, I hope that being from Brazil don't change the situations you told me

Ok, for your reading I picked my Lenormand ones...

Letter
House
Heart
Fox
Mountain

I sense you will get a invite to be in his house, to visit it and share some times with him there. I see that he has good feelings for you (you told me, but i was shown by Heart card), things will be fine for you in the beginning, but Fox here is telling about some event you will not like.... And you will have to overcome something to stay with this guy. I pulled one more to clarify: Man. Hum... maybe some bad habbits this man have... and you will not like when you discover them...

Dear, I know I'm asking about too much about my marriage life, but I forgot the main thing for me now: how are my parents be after my marriage? How will they see this new phase of my life...

If you have more questions, feel free to ask... promise to be the last I ask

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posted December 24, 2013 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:

no it doesn't change it.... feeling that this man is more American than anything else but again it could be that he's been living there his whole life

what kind of bad habits....... I don't mean to sound inappropriate but sexual chemistry is very important to me can you pick up anything with that on us?

and then I have a question about JF...... that's the one of my ex who still might have feelings for me and the one im still friends,with..... we talled today and I talked to him yesterday does his fiance know how much he contacts me..... and that he does.... and does she know who I am that I'm his axe

I still get a sense that your mom is going to be put in some home some care facility and that is right with the time you meet him..... so she will meet him I just can't say that should be attending your weddIng.... she might not be physically able to.

I see you being extremely happy but I cannot sense your father around.... to be honest and of course I could be wrong but when you actually marry this man and don't think you're going to be here, sorry.... again take it with a grain of salt it is more than several years away

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posted December 24, 2013 06:47 PM            

Ok for your fisrt question, sexual chemistry:

Garden
Scythe
Mountain
Sun
Stars

At the beggining of thie relationship, seems that you will have a difficult time to get the sexual connnection, you both need to work on this. But after that, sense you will get a satisfing sexual life. Don't loose your hope, starts here says everything will be ok, and you will have a good time with this man. So don't worry, first tensions are normal at the beginning...

For your second question:

Flowers
Child
Woman
Tower
Mountain

No, sense from cards seh doesn't know nothing about this talks you both have. If she has some distrust, seems like just a friendship. But once she discovers it, she will try to distance you both, as she will feel endangered. And for you twocome back as friends, many things will be needed to overcome, first is her jealousy...