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Topic: Synastry insight? I finally have a TOB
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eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 03:52 PM
The cards have been dealt and I'm ready to play: http://i1329.photobucket.com/albums/w552/eliotray/Mobile%20Uploads/photo_zps2f520825.jpg threw in a few asteroids. his rising sign is correct, the TOB is off plus/minus 20 mins. I am the outside circle. Any insight? Comments? IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 03:56 PM
Not a synastry reading, sorry... But I had to ask: how did you get his TOB??? IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 04:08 PM
Read all the ascendant descriptions, narrowed it down to three, read the descriptions again with a few aspects, calculated a possible time, and boom. lol So it's like not knowing a birth time at all, but at least now I have an idea. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 28, 2013 04:13 PM
I will but tomorrow. At the moment I am very tired. Sorry.IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 04:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by eliotray: Read all the ascendant descriptions, narrowed it down to three, read the descriptions again with a few aspects, calculated a possible time, and boom. lol So it's like not knowing a birth time at all, but at least now I have an idea.
Haha, I've tried that, but now I just think it's less time consuming to just come out and say I've taken an interest in astrology and that I'm gathering birth info from people I know. I even throw into the mix a quick natal reading, so I can get accurate TOB. IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 09:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: I will but tomorrow. At the moment I am very tired. Sorry.
That's fine Rosalind, you're readings are very informative. I'll be waiting patiently, thank you IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 09:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Haha, I've tried that, but now I just think it's less time consuming to just come out and say I've taken an interest in astrology and that I'm gathering birth info from people I know. I even throw into the mix a quick natal reading, so I can get accurate TOB.
He knows why I need it, he just doesn't know his own birth time. But I remember that the rising sign (in regards to your own) is always what you least expect and the initial response is always "Oh that's SO not me/him/her/them!" lol So I figured he was a Leo, Libra, Aries rising, because he cared a tad about his look, but his concern wasn't as intense as a Leo would express their need to "look nice". Sticking with just those two was not good enough for me. Then I studied signs that I really don't "know". Sag was close, but Cap hit the button hard. I've never met a cap rising but I know many Capricorn. I shouldve noticed it right away, as I know few Caps who get pretty intense when it comes to apperances. Taurus Sun and Mercury in Aries I recognized right away, as I have family members with this same combo. IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 09:44 PM
That and his inappropriate sexual commentary is so my style. That only points to more Capricorn for me. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 08:07 AM
Well, don't say you've never met a Cappy Ascendant... I'm one myself. I think what you described is actually closer to Scorpio Ascendant or even Libra... I'm an Earth Sun too and I know someone who's Cap Asc and Sun, and there is no inappropriate sexual commentary unless we've known this person really well or for a really long time. I think you should look what Sun-Ascendant combinations are like, because from experience, I can tell you that he does not sound like a Cap Ascendant. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 02:57 PM
At first sight I cannot say the synastry looks great. His Sun, Venus, Mercury and Pluto are over your 10th house. Are you two sharing the same career? Work together? Because that Pluto seems to me that he's in control over your career and his advices matters to you greatly. You have NN over 1st house but Saturn and Neptune are also here. You see a projection of him that seems ideal but you know that its only a projection. Its karma. If you two end up in a relationship that Saturn might make you quite unable to let go. What you feel for him its more friendship than love. Juno over 11th. HE is more into you than you are into him and you are gonna change him through this connection you have with him. You have Uranus, Saturn, Neptune, NN, Juno over his 4th house. Asteroid Destinn over 7th and Mercury, Sun over 8th house. He likes you but he fear that you might not like him back and he is hidding his feeling for you, though their are deep ones.IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: At first sight I cannot say the synastry looks great. His Sun, Venus, Mercury and Pluto are over your 10th house. Are you two sharing the same career? Work together? Because that Pluto seems to me that he's in control over your career and his advices matters to you greatly.
It's my Sun/Venus/Merc/Pluto that's over HIS tenth house, we don't share the same career per se, but we are both writers in our fields. He hasn't asked me for any advice... yet. quote: You have NN over 1st house but Saturn and Neptune are also here. You see a projection of him that seems ideal but you know that its only a projection. Its karma. If you two end up in a relationship that Saturn might make you quite unable to let go. What you feel for him its more friendship than love.
Yes! This is true. Things flow. I feel that this def has some karmic influence. I knew it the moment I saw him - I am reliving something. There's more weight (so to speak) in this connection than what has been displayed thus far. It's friendship but it's heavy in love... like a sibling let's say. This was not by choice, me liking this man. I couldn't say NO. quote: Juno over 11th. HE is more into you than you are into him and you are gonna change him through this connection you have with him.
He can't be more into me than I am into him. That... Rosalind... is impossible. He's doing quite well at hiding it! quote: You have Uranus, Saturn, Neptune, NN, Juno over his 4th house.
His Uranus/Saturn/Neptune/NN/Juno are over my 4th house. quote: Asteroid Destinn over 7th and Mercury, Sun over 8th house. He likes you but he fear that you might not like him back and he is hidding his feeling for you, though their are deep ones.
His Destinn and Mercury are in Aries, my 7th, and his Sun in Taurus my 8th. Is he the one hiding or am I? Because this could apply to either of us. I feel pretty much myself (I don't "filter" any behaviors, I'm quite raw around him) but we don't speak a word of what our friendship is/could/might (should lol) turn into. Thanks Rosalind!
------------------ --- Libra Rising Taurus Moon Stellium Sun, Venus, Mercury, Pluto in Scorpio IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Well, don't say you've never met a Cappy Ascendant... I'm one myself. I think what you described is actually closer to Scorpio Ascendant or even Libra... I'm an Earth Sun too and I know someone who's Cap Asc and Sun, and there is no inappropriate sexual commentary unless we've known this person really well or for a really long time. I think you should look what Sun-Ascendant combinations are like, because from experience, I can tell you that he does not sound like a Cap Ascendant.
Me and Caps get along quite well, and this is a strangely comfortable "new" friendship - and I encourage scandalous conversation and innuendo. So the fact that he was so receptive and actually would respond with even funnier commentary was a shock to me. And he was blunt. The caps I know vary from decorating (Cap Sun/Libra Rising), to being quite sharp (Cap Sun/Cancer Moon) in conversation. lol I have capricorn in my family and they behave nothing alike. Caps are one of those signs I don't understand, just like Aries.
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 04:28 PM
Its says MALE OUTSIDE (RED CIRCLE). Therefore HIS PLANETS go over YOURS. In the INNER CIRCLE your Sun is over his 8th house. I may be tired but I know what I am reading.IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Its says MALE OUTSIDE (RED CIRCLE). Therefore HIS PLANETS go over YOURS. In the INNER CIRCLE your Sun is over his 8th house. I may be tired but I know what I am reading.
If I'm not mistaken, they're both males. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 04:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: If I'm not mistaken, they're both males.
You joking. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by eliotray: Me and Caps get along quite well, and this is a strangely comfortable "new" friendship - and I encourage scandalous conversation and innuendo. So the fact that he was so receptive and actually would respond with even funnier commentary was a shock to me. And he was blunt. The caps I know vary from decorating (Cap Sun/Libra Rising), to being quite sharp (Cap Sun/Cancer Moon) in conversation. lol I have capricorn in my family and they behave nothing alike. Caps are one of those signs I don't understand, just like Aries.
Well, you're the one that interacts with him, so you should know best. I just thought I should throw in that Cap Ascendant energy sounds like nothing you described. At least no one's ever been able to coax out of me (or the other Cap Asc I know) this type of "sexual" verbal response. The energy of Cap Asc makes us appear serious and focused at a first (or earlier months) glance. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: You joking.
Being serious here. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 04:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Being serious here.
WOW! I just got the chance to do a relatioship reading for two people of the same gender and proudly FAILED. I'm so PROUD of myself. *sarcasm* IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 04:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: WOW! I just got the chance to do a relatioship reading for two people of the same gender and proudly FAILED. I'm so PROUD of myself. *sarcasm*
I don't think you failed, you know... From what he said, it resonated to him. And let eliotray come around to confirm he's a male. Btw, I'm not sure feedback is something that you like, but I left you some in my own thread. IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 05:18 PM
Ros,Haha, no one failed here. I just misunderstood your interpretation and since I have you here, I'm not going to speculate when I can ask you to clear up my misunderstanding. The outside circle male is Me, and He is the inside circle. I'm not familiar with the use of the term "over" in regards to synastry. This is just how I come to understand it when you say "over" - "in the inner circle Your sun over his 8th house" - That would make me the Taurus, I am not the Taurus. Is there something I'm missing here? Or was something lost in translation? Fille, You were right. He was very serious when we met, now he's lightened up and quite quickly lol Does same-sex matter in synastry?
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 05:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by eliotray: Fille, You were right. He was very serious when we met, now he's lightened up and quite quickly lol
That's very... uncanny for a Cap Ascendant, LOL. This might be his Aries Merc and Scorpio Moon playing out. Btw, when Rosalind says 'his Sun over your 8th house', she means that the his Sun falls in your 8H. Simple as that. IP: Logged |
eliotray Knowflake Posts: 84 From: New York Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 09:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Btw, when Rosalind says 'his Sun over your 8th house', she means that the his Sun falls in your 8H. Simple as that.
Yes! Okay, so I understood, I normally read 'falls into A's X house' as opposed to 'over' but thanks for clearing that up.
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2922 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 30, 2013 12:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: That's very... uncanny for a Cap Ascendant, LOL. This might be his Aries Merc and Scorpio Moon playing out.Btw, when Rosalind says 'his Sun over your 8th house', she means that the his Sun falls in your 8H. Simple as that.
I'm gonna name you my assistant.
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 30, 2013 07:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: I'm gonna name you my assistant.
Haha. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 30, 2013 07:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by eliotray: Yes! Okay, so I understood, I normally read 'falls into A's X house' as opposed to 'over' but thanks for clearing that up.
You're welcomed, hon. IP: Logged |