posted January 02, 2014 01:59 PM            

Composite:
Since we don't have his birth time, the Moon might vary in 3ēdegrees maximum; and we can't see where the relationship is focused since we don't have the house placements.
You have Sun/Venus conjunction oppose Mars/Mercury. This shows romantic attraction, very affectionate feelings together.
On the other hand, you have Moon square Pluto. This can show hurt and emotional cruelty or manipulation, emotional selfishness between you. Their midpoint falls on Sun/Venus and Mars/Mercury opposition, which can show that these emotional issues can affect the love and attraction you share together.
Also, Saturn is opposed to Chiron, so that if any of you get too critical or cold to each other, you might reopen some inner wounds. Avoid being cold critical to each other, try to use your Saturine sense of structure and responsibility to help and guide each other instead of being cold. Trying to achieve balance and be positive and compassionate is important here. Opposition is not necessarily bad, it's complementary as long as there's balance. Only when it's not balanced that it gets negative.
Also, Saturn and Chiron are square North Node, which means that this is part of the lessons you have to learn together as a couple, if you become a couple (or have a relationship in other kinds, like friendship).
Also, Moon might fall on Venus/Jupiter midpoint, which can also point of warmth and joy together.
I didn't check too in depth, but this is what I can see in your composite chart.

posted January 02, 2014 02:37 PM            

The good things that I see in our synastry are:
- Double whammy sun/moon aspects
- A good amount of mercury aspects on both sides:
- sun/mercury DW
- his mercury trine my moon
- his mercury opposite my venus
- his mercury trine my jupiter
- his mercury conjunct my saturn
- his mercury sextile my uranus
- his mercury trine my pluto
- his mercury conjunct my midheaven
- his mercury opposite my chiron
- his mars biquintile my mercury
- his saturn trine my mercury
- his uranus square my mercury
- his neptune square my mercury
(^last 2 are natal aspects in my chart)
- His moon is conjunct my IC (from the 3rd house though)
- Mars trine Mars
- Venus opposite Venus (Just needs adjustments right?)
- Double whammy Venus/Jupiter (trine and a tight semi-sextile)
- His Venus trine my Moon
- My Desc is in Capricorn (traditional ruler of 10th house) and he has his Sun, Venus, and Mercury in my 10th house

And as far as compliments that I can see so far:

- He has an Aries sun
- I have Leo Moon in 1st house and Moon square Mars

- I have a Virgo sun
- He has Virgo Moon and Moon opposite Mercury

- I have Uranus and Neptune in my 7th house
- He has Venus square Uranus and Neptune

- I have Sun trine Uranus and Neptune
- He has Sun square Uranus and Neptune

- I have moon opposite uranus
- He has moon trine uranus

- I have moon square mars
- He possibly has moon opposite mars

- I have scorpio mars
- He possibly has mars trine pluto

- I have moon trine pluto
- He has moon sextile pluto

- Libra mercury
- He possibly has mercury conjunct venus

and that's all I got lol

Now for the aspects that concern me/ I have no idea how to interpret them:

posted January 02, 2014 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
[b]Synastry:
His Sun is on your South Node, which can give some sense of immediate familiarity, as if you knew each other for some time. If one believes in past lives then you might have known him before.
Your Sun is compatible with his Moon (if you saying that he is born before 12:00 then his Moon is in Virgo), and your Moon is also compatible with his Sun.
With your Uranus/Neptune square his Sun, you might idealize him and not see the real you at first. You might end up not being quite of what he expected, so you two might have to learn to deal with that and adjust reality and expectations.
Your Mars is quincunx his Venus, so his way of affection might sometimes not match your physical passion; thought your Venus and his Venus are compatible (opposition means different traits that can be complementary) and your Mars are in compatible signs.
Your Moon is tighly conjunct his Chiron, so he might act like a mentor to you, while you might trigger his inner pain. This is not necessarily bad, your Venus is also sextile his Chiron, so if you are sensitive and affectionate towards his vulnerability, you can help him heal. Your Mars is widely squaring his Chiron, so make sure you don't be harsh on him with your temper or passion, if he ever is vulnerable.
Also, he has 3 planets on your 10th house so he can help you on your career path or public image. He might also remind you of social responsibilities.

Composite:
Since we don't have his birth time, the Moon might vary in 3ēdegrees maximum; and we can't see where the relationship is focused since we don't have the house placements.
You have Sun/Venus conjunction oppose Mars/Mercury. This shows romantic attraction, very affectionate feelings together.
On the other hand, you have Moon square Pluto. This can show hurt and emotional cruelty or manipulation, emotional selfishness between you. Their midpoint falls on Sun/Venus and Mars/Mercury opposition, which can show that these emotional issues can affect the love and attraction you share together.
Also, Saturn is opposed to Chiron, so that if any of you get too critical or cold to each other, you might reopen some inner wounds. Avoid being cold critical to each other, try to use your Saturine sense of structure and responsibility to help and guide each other instead of being cold. Trying to achieve balance and be positive and compassionate is important here. Opposition is not necessarily bad, it's complementary as long as there's balance. Only when it's not balanced that it gets negative.
Also, Saturn and Chiron are square North Node, which means that this is part of the lessons you have to learn together as a couple, if you become a couple (or have a relationship in other kinds, like friendship).
Also, Moon might fall on Venus/Jupiter midpoint, which can also point of warmth and joy together.
I didn't check too in depth, but this is what I can see in your composite chart.

I'm still learning how to interpret charts of others, since I've been reading my own charts and only started to do this for others recently. So please do let me know how accurate it is.[/B]

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Thank you! I'm still learning myself lol, so any other perspectives and opinions are a huge help.

Now I do see that the moon/chrion conjunction is definitely something that is going to play out as one of the "themes" or most felt in our relationship since it is 0'10 degrees. We also have Venus/Jupiter trine at 0'10 degrees so with those two being our tightest major aspects, maybe the Venus/Jupiter aspect helps alleviate some of the Moon/Chiron?

We've already just recently had a minor fall out and re-group because of a misunderstanding in which he told me he didn't want to hurt me and I thought that he meant that he wanted to break up. And being mars I did end things impulsively after he said that, so what you said about my mars in aspect to his chiron is true lol. When I apologized and we talked things over he explained that he wasn't asking for a break up or to end things at all. For now, we're just taking it slow as friends and seeing where it goes.

I can see how the moon/pluto in composite can play out too if not careful . I'm hoping the Sun/Venus/Mercury Love stellium helps though.

posted January 02, 2014 06:48 PM            

Your Moon can also learn from his Chiron. Chiron is a mentor after all, and Moon can need a guide every now and then, even if it's in the proud Leo.

posted January 02, 2014 07:25 PM            

My parents have this, I have this with my best friend, my boyfriend, my sister, my sister and her boyfriend had it, her and her best friend.. the list goes on forever