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Topic: NO CHILDREN in the future, extremely bad synastry =doomed??
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Rainbow88
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Hungary
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 02:01 PM
  
Hey Guys!
I would like to know your opinion about my synastry chart with my beloved one.Basically everyone says this is the worst they have ever seen, although I don't sense the problems which is depicted in the chart. The only bigger problem is that I'm very spiritual and he is much more grounded and rational... Some days ago an astrologer warned me, that because of the position of the saturn (both falls in each other's 5th house), we won't have children at all, plus he will be aggressive towards me and domestic violence can be seen here... and this relationship is just simply doomed... What do you think about this chart? Thank you!!  IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37421
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 13, 2014 03:20 PM
The other one got closed during transfer. Whenever that happens, let me know, so I can reopen it.IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted February 13, 2014 11:03 PM
In all honesty this is rather terrible synastry. I've had worse with one particular guy, it was long distance so nothing ever became official but it did tip-toe the line of mental abuse. He would say things purposely to hurt me after I had accidentally hurt him, or if it was something he didn't agree with and was hurt by it. Fairly immature behavior but I was much younger at the time. Anyway...this chart...how long have you been together because I don't understand how this relationship could last. IP: Logged |
Rainbow88
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Hungary
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 06:06 AM
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
In all honesty this is rather terrible synastry. I've had worse with one particular guy, it was long distance so nothing ever became official but it did tip-toe the line of mental abuse. He would say things purposely to hurt me after I had accidentally hurt him, or if it was something he didn't agree with and was hurt by it. Fairly immature behavior but I was much younger at the time. Anyway...this chart...how long have you been together because I don't understand how this relationship could last.
We are together since August 2012...And actually it is pretty nice and smooth. No fights, he is gentle, mature, sweet...It is a long distance relationship, but we are moving closer to each other next month...Actually Im moving to him...So that's why I am surprised cause the things described in the synastry dont even appear...
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Kibriana
Knowflake Posts: 40
From: Zagreb, Croatia
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 14, 2014 08:50 AM
Nothing is set in stone, and the same applies to synastry. As for the 5th house Saturn, Saturn does not necessarily mean that you won't have children, but that children might come later. Saturn postpones, it doesn't deny, and Saturn is something one has to work on.
Don't let astrology run your life. There is a little something called free will and that's where you should start. But, of course, be mindful of the possible setbacks and problems which may arise, but don't let them destroy your life. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 593
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 10:00 AM
I agree with Kibriana, but would add that even if astrology can show signs of lack of children, thing is, we currently simply don't have enough knowledge in astrology to predict it or anything with 100% accuracy.So don't be discouraged, for what is worth Saturn in the 5th can mean many things, ranging from children to creative expression of self. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 12:50 PM
the synastry is not that bad - it's not marriage/soulmate stuff, but it's ok. I don't know who is red/blue, but there is a mars aries sitting opposite a stellium (which could mean heated fights/disagreements), but you also have some rather strong points. someone has their venus conjunct to the others' ASC, so they would find the partner fairly ideal in terms of appearance and be drawn to them physically, which is (my guess) why it's lasting. that same person (in red) also has that mars in the person's 8th house, which adds to the physical component. you have a venus/pluto conjunction which is VERY dynamic and hard to resist; when you meet the other person you are just magnetically drawn to them. you also have someone's node with a (fairly) close conjunction to the DSC sign; that would indicate some type of growth/karma and a reason for being in each others' lives. the reciprocal 5th house Saturn placements are not great though. Saturn restricts things, so placed in the 5th house (of both partners) it'll 'restrict' romance in some way; that could be no marriage, that could be no kids, or that could just be not having fun with one another. it might make one, or both partners, feel guarded around the other. Saturn can be very binding for couples, but that is when it's well-placed and in harmonious aspect to one another - this isn't. it's not terrible, but would I marry this person? no. would I date this person? yes.IP: Logged |
Rainbow88
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Hungary
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 01:46 PM
Thank you all of you...
We'll see what life brings...
He is a very good guy and I love him very much... <3IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1053
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by Rainbow88:
Thank you all of you...
We'll see what life brings...
He is a very good guy and I love him very much... <3
rainbow, for my own studies are you red or blue in this wheel? IP: Logged |
Rainbow88
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Hungary
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 02:16 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
rainbow, for my own studies are you red or blue in this wheel?
I am the red one...
with that stupid mars in aires...  
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starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1053
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 02:22 PM
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Originally posted by Rainbow88:
I am the red one...
with that stupid mars in aires...
thanks. I like mars in aries a lot! you know, the one thing in the chart I don't like for you is the venus (yours) so close to this ASC. it's sooooo flattering for the guy to have a woman's venus sitting close to his ASC like that; it makes the guy darn near perfect to the female (in looks). good luck with your move and relationship :-) IP: Logged |
Rainbow88
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Hungary
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
thanks. I like mars in aries a lot! you know, the one thing in the chart I don't like for you is the venus (yours) so close to this ASC. it's sooooo flattering for the guy to have a woman's venus sitting close to his ASC like that; it makes the guy darn near perfect to the female (in looks). good luck with your move and relationship :-)
I should thank YOU!! Really...Thank you for your kindness... Is it possible that we marry later? Or just because it doesnt show some marriage aspects, wont work out?? IP: Logged |
starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 15, 2014 12:27 PM
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Originally posted by Rainbow88:
I should thank YOU!! Really...Thank you for your kindness...Is it possible that we marry later? Or just because it doesnt show some marriage aspects, wont work out??
astrology is just a guide and a tool. trust your own feelings and instincts and not a chart. if you love him and he loves you that is what matters :-) IP: Logged |
littlecloud
Moderator Posts: 2551
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2014 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by Rainbow88:
We are together since August 2012...And actually it is pretty nice and smooth. No fights, he is gentle, mature, sweet...It is a long distance relationship, but we are moving closer to each other next month...Actually Im moving to him...So that's why I am surprised cause the things described in the synastry dont even appear...
Things change when the physical distance between two people changes as well. If your relationship started in distance I suggest putting a hold on all the baby thoughts until you spend time together in the same zip code for more than just a 'visit'. To quote a knowflake (can't credit them bc it's been a long time and I can't remember their sn), "in order for a couple to be together they actually need to be together. Personally no, I do not like this synastry. Whether he would be physically abusive depends on his natal. But this is all heresay until you are actually together.
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