posted February 24, 2014 03:45 PM            

I know you are highly requested right now so if you are unable to give feedback I understand completely

LostTaurus and poochycat have both been so kind in helping me with a new gentleman I'm dating. They have both said this will be a positive relationship however LostTaurus pointed out that I should really be aware of my choice to eventually present him to my son. He has met him, my son is 1 and won't remember but my question is do you feel he will be trustworthy in the long run?

I have put energy into relationships with a few fickle men the last two years (including my sons dad) and I would really like to know if this man will be steady. I am mentally tired of games and the frustrations.

I am also working on myself and focusing on me and my boy too which has helped me get to a more positive state of mind but I do struggle with insecurities and wondering if I will find the right guy for not only me but my boy also.

My birth day is 7/16/87 and the guy I am seeing is 11/21/86
My son's bday is 1/16/13

posted February 24, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Hello! I've been reading the other threads and I am so intrigued and would be honored to have your insight on a budding relationship

I know you are highly requested right now so if you are unable to give feedback I understand completely

LostTaurus and poochycat have both been so kind in helping me with a new gentleman I'm dating. They have both said this will be a positive relationship however LostTaurus pointed out that I should really be aware of my choice to eventually present him to my son. He has met him, my son is 1 and won't remember but my question is do you feel he will be trustworthy in the long run?

I have put energy into relationships with a few fickle men the last two years (including my sons dad) and I would really like to know if this man will be steady. I am mentally tired of games and the frustrations.

I am also working on myself and focusing on me and my boy too which has helped me get to a more positive state of mind but I do struggle with insecurities and wondering if I will find the right guy for not only me but my boy also.

My birth day is 7/16/87 and the guy I am seeing is 11/21/86
My son's bday is 1/16/13

Thank you so much

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Hi moonstruck87,

Thank you, it's nice of you to say.

I'll be happy to look for you and see what I get, unfortunately I am too tired right now. I'll try to tomorrow, if that's ok with you.

Please keep all those positive things everyone's said to you in mind, (I too feel positive energy, but am too tired to really look)... so have a great evening and I'll be back as soon as I can to do that for you.

Love and Light!

posted February 24, 2014 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Bumping up please

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Ok, so you want to know the funniest thing?... take a look at the time stamp of when I replied to you and when you 'bumped' up your message.

posted February 24, 2014 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
haha thank you! look forward to hearing from you. rest well crimson! xx

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Cool, huh?

Just writing this to bump... had to finish what I promised for those I promised for today that's why I'm here again.

Ok... until tomorrow then.

posted February 24, 2014 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Cool, huh?

Just writing this to bump... had to finish what I promised for those I promised for today that's why I'm here again.

Ok... until tomorrow then.

Love and Light!

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thanks for the bump! I'm always browsing around here myself

posted February 24, 2014 11:03 PM            

Well I collected some energy and am going to reply to you.

Sat and meditated a while on your situation and your guy, your son and everything.

I thoroughly understand how you feel, not being 100% certain and wanting to make the right decision. I totally feel for you. Honestly, I so much want to be able to give you a solid answer. One that you can take and make a solid decision on. That's why I even meditated for you.. knowing that it's not only a romance but your child is involved.

What I get is that there is a good connection and compatibility with you and 11-21. Communication needs to increase between the two of you some more though. I feel that you might be holding back a little, out of hesitation/uncertainty. But there is a very lovely connecting between you and he. He, I feel would also be good with your son.

Unfortunately I can't feel your situation crystal clear, like I usually do. As I explained to a few ppl on here, it's only in the past few days that I've ever given a reading through the computer. If you read things I've written on here, then you know that I've been doing this for a looooong time, but it's always talking to someone... their voice... taking time and feeling them, talking with them... as they talk their voice brings in my flashes and solid answers.

BECAUSE you have a child and this isn't just romance but a serious moving-in type question, and I'm not feeling your situation as clear as I usually do, I, in all good conscience cannot say what you'd like to hear.... that this is solid and will last a lifetime. It might, but I'm not sure.

Let me tell you what I do feel. 11-21 is serious about you. I don't feel he's playing you or isn't sure about what he's expressing to you. He feels sure about what he's expressing to you. He is as honest as he can be, I feel. Yet I'm not 100% sure that it might not alter, possibly, at some point down the road. I'm not saying that it will. I'm just not sure that it won't. I can't feel it clear enough.

What I feel is that he's done that before. Felt that he was really sure, only to see later that he wasn't, and backed out. Has he shared any of that with you? I'm sorry that that's what I feel, but it is. But it's not too sad, coz...

I also feel that at some point that changes for him. That he no longer 'changes his mind later'... it's a maturity that takes place for him. I'm not sure if that's happened yet. I can't put my finger on the here and now... when is it that I'm feeling his 'maturation'. I don't feel time and therefore I can't tell. But at one point that DOES change and he is totally, fully reliable, knowing his own mind to the point where he doesn't change what he set out to do. Maybe he is there by now (?). You would know that by knowing him... knowing his past... seeing his present actions.

Your situation is one that would take me a little time w/a client. But since I'm not on here for that purpose and cannot do 'my regular thing', all I can say is that...

he's a good guy... he's serious about you and please take your time to make sure all the i's are dotted and all the t's are crossed before you make a major move into anything with your son (which you don't need an intuitive to tell you, it's logic).

Please accept my appologies... I truly wanted to give you more than I have been able to. I hope that what I did get will be of help to you. Please let me know what you think.

Thank you and wishing you a wonderful evening.

Love and Light!

posted February 25, 2014 10:51 AM            

I am glad to know he is serious. I have sensed that myself, too. I do know he has been hurt (cheated on) in the past & he is very reserved.

I think he's holding back but I am sure that time, as it always does, will reveal all things

Being a mom has most definitely made me cautious but I was done very dirty by my sons dad and I am still working through that emotional mess also

I am certainly not a flawless spirit

I want to thank you again for putting your time and energy into my question - it is truly very kind of you

posted February 25, 2014 11:32 AM            

I am glad to know he is serious. I have sensed that myself, too. I do know he has been hurt (cheated on) in the past & he is very reserved.

I think he's holding back but I am sure that time, as it always does, will reveal all things

Being a mom has most definitely made me cautious but I was done very dirty by my sons dad and I am still working through that emotional mess also

I am certainly not a flawless spirit

I want to thank you again for putting your time and energy into my question - it is truly very kind of you

posted February 25, 2014 01:00 PM            

You're very welcome, and thank you for the kind words.

Ah... so he's been hurt/betrayed before. Well I'm sorry to hear that... I hate to see anyone in emotional pain, but that's good. Actually great! Then he has been given the opportunity already to learn. He's a smart, insightful, good guy, so by having been given his opportunity for growth, him being the type of guy he is, he would have learned. Yeay!

Thank you for telling me that, because it immediately transported my intuition into a better timeframe, so I'm not wondering if I'm feeling him now or years ago or when. So, naturally, more flashes for you...

btw, that reservedness that you see in him, that, I feel, is part of his personality, not just acquired by his painful experience...

When he's close to someone and trusts, he's open and more Sag like, rather than Scorpio in sharing of himself... but these things I didn't bother telling you... meaning I didn't tell you how is he with those he's close to.. his personality and such things, because I'm used to giving readings for paying customers, (and I charge a pretty penny), and I don't waste their time telling them what they can see w/their own eyes... I watch out for their pocketbooks as if it were mine... therefore I didn't share any of that with you since you know him in person *smile*

So.. back to the flash...

It was basically what I already felt, but expanded... that yes, he's serious about you and in his heart very much wants and hopes that the relationship with you will be a 'forever' thing. He thinks of you very often. Has he told you that?

You know how you said he's 'holding back'... that resonates with my 'feeling'... I don't know how long you've been seeing him, but I not only feel, but stronger than feel.. KNOW that with time he will open up and share his past and heart's experiences with you.

It's around the time that he's open and sharing, showing you his scars and sharing with you the pain he went through to receive those scars, it's at that time that he's fully comitted to you -with his heart and emotions... in a way that you too will feel it in your heart as you are in his presence and he's talking to you... I clearly see that (clairvoyantly)... it's an animated scene for me, in color, not even a static photo.

You'll FEEL it! You might second guess yourself after you feel it, (which you do because you don't want to make a mistake) but don't. Allow yourself to know that it's the indication to you that he's fully sharing himself and trusts you . For him trust is big (not only as for anyone who has been hurt), but it's also in his inate personality.

I feel that in the relatioship that he's been cheated on, he forced himself to trust, only to be betrayed. He wasn't really 100% sure, you know... but he truly wanted and wants real love and so he ignored the tiny doub and forced himself.

You will probably hear this from the horse's mouth when he tells you. So when he shares those things, it's at that time that you will be able to trust him fully and not wonder and question if what you experienced in the past will repeat itself with this guy. ( clarification: when I said you will be able to fully trust him... it's not me telling you that at that time you can... but it'll be you feeling it and knowing that. In other words your scared, doubtful little heart will be appeased.) You will not feel the need to get readings to clarify and ask to make sure if he's feeling like that. You'll get readings, but they will all confirm for you (what you will already know and feel) and you will think "Yeah, I knew it... Cool, it's just confirming for me".

Ahhh.. so this is why I felt that communication needs to expand. This is why I felt for you to take your time with him. This is why others have said to you to make sure before you decide and do (I've read a little last night of what others said to you.) Not only that but the fact that you're still working through your own issues regarding your ex and what he did to you. So you're both healing... through each other also, obviously (which is a nice thing to do for and with each other when couples come together - on the spiritual level it's a BEAUTIFUL thing, actually, but that's another subject all together).

NOBODY is perfect, sweetie... if/when we reach close to that, we're gone. We no longer walk the earth. We are all here to learn and grow and become better... that's what life is about.

So, just as I would for a client of mine... I'll say to you: If you'd like to know what I would suggest... I'd suggest for you to go forward with an unafraid heart, open communication and a caring patience towards this guy.. I'd suggest taking your time, allowing the two of you to get very close (which I feel you will) and allowing it to blossom and unfold in it's good time. I feel it will. I feel you will be living with this guy and I see more than one child around. Does he have a child? or if not, then you two will.

Enjoy this relationship and may you be blessed with great love!

Hugs to you too, sweetie.

Love and Light!

posted February 25, 2014 06:22 PM            

But my goodness! Thank you for your in depth response. When you said you pictured us in full color like a movie I got chills!!

He hasn't told me that he thinks of me often or really given me any "verbal" clues that he really admires me yet. He is, however consistent in communication by texting and he asks to see me very often also so I think actions are better than pretty words anyhow but I wouldn't mind him opening up more eventually to express his feelings into words

He doesn't have a child so what you said made me smile because I already pictured that in my head but felt like it was just a fantasy thing, so that is SO cool ~ I'm thinking a sweet little girl

I appreciate your insight so much and please know that I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart

posted February 26, 2014 11:39 AM            

Thank you for your feedback and I genuinely wish all the best with him for you

Sorry for the short note... I had a relapse.. expending too much energy I guess.

Btw... do you do readings also? What do you do?

posted February 26, 2014 01:11 PM            

I had actually meditated before and a man quite like the one we have been discussing came to me - a vision of us standing by water under a full moon, him just holding me

It didn't hit me until the third or fourth time I was with him that the energy I felt from him and the physical appearance matched to this man but again I doubted myself, wondering if it's just something I made up

Either way, I am continually trying to open my third eye more and more. I want to help people in the same fabulous fashion that you do!

I saw an angel therapist a few weeks back and she told me she saw a pink glow near my uterus and told me is have a baby girl before 30 (I'll be 27 in July) and I was shocked... I was kinda thinking I'm done with kiddos bc I'm a single mom and it's overwhelming sometimes!!

But she also told me that I would become better at better at manifesting my desires so with my desire to be more clairvoyant I do hope that overtime I can help people

posted February 26, 2014 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I do tarot readings. I am a rookie! I am working on clairvoyance also. I've been doing lots of meditating and yoga. Any tips are welcome.

I had actually meditated before and a man quite like the one we have been discussing came to me - a vision of us standing by water under a full moon, him just holding me

It didn't hit me until the third or fourth time I was with him that the energy I felt from him and the physical appearance matched to this man but again I doubted myself, wondering if it's just something I made up

Either way, I am continually trying to open my third eye more and more. I want to help people in the same fabulous fashion that you do!

I saw an angel therapist a few weeks back and she told me she saw a pink glow near my uterus and told me is have a baby girl before 30 (I'll be 27 in July) and I was shocked... I was kinda thinking I'm done with kiddos bc I'm a single mom and it's overwhelming sometimes!!

But she also told me that I would become better at better at manifesting my desires so with my desire to be more clairvoyant I do hope that overtime I can help people

I love crystal / gemstones too and love to recommend those friends and family along with different types of essential oils

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Hi moonstruck87,

Oh you're so cute!.. lol Thank you, I'm flattered.

Well, I'll tell you what I do and it works for me. I'll also tell you how to increase your intuition... at

least the way I show my clients, and it always has seemed to work for them. Besides, it's so simple

you'll laugh.

Naturally in my field I've had many come to me who sought what you are seeking. I don't

specifically teach that, - opening the third eye and all, - actually I believe it can be quite dangerous.

You see, imho it shouldn't be taught... only the metaphysical sciences should be taught, or other

spiritual things towards our Good Creator, and then the persons' own abilities blossom. I'm very

opinionated about many things... lol... just so you should know

What has happened most of the time is that when I've spoken to clients, just by taking readings with

me they've magically, somehow increased their intuition. Don't ask me how that's happened... but to

my own (happy) surprise it has. Maybe that can happen over the computer too, not only the

phone... I have no idea. But let me explain something please...

Usually it's those ppl who have intuitive abilities, even dormant intuitive abilities who usually seek

out psychics, metaphysical subjects and the paranormal. Therefore they have a nice dose of intuition

in them already. It's just a matter of having it come out to play and teaching it a little. So maybe by

melding w/my energy a little (coz that happens during phone readings) that it did something for

them? I don't know. But they always feel better is all I know, which is what I intend to do anyway.

So, before I write another novel here... lol.

1) To get more information from your intuition... to have more intuitive thoughts and visions and

feelings... you must reward your intuition when it talks to you. whenever you have a

thought/intuitive idea, even an intuitive dream... and then you see later that you were right, you

MUST stop and pat it on the back, reward it by eagerly, happily, excitedly saying something like

'good job. you are so good. yeay.' ... as if you were complimenting a smaller child about how good

they did. Sounds silly, I know... but try it. You keep doing this and your intuition is going to speak

to you more and more and more.

then,

2) to read for other and know more... to be able to tell more... to feel and see more... what I do is, I

become more curious. I have a totally genuine interest about that person, almost as if it was myself,

I care that much and I ask. I throw the question out there (just thinking it my mind as if I was

asking someone)... and the answer comes. (Honestly, and I'm not trying to get into anything

religious... but I think it's the Holy Spirit.). But anyway... one thing to remember is not to get too

emotionally involved with the person you're reading for. When you do, your emotions (desire or

fear) can muddy up the information that comes and you can get incorrect information. Feel like a

doctor... care, but don't get 'peronally' involved, so that you can be objective and not IN the box with

the person you're trying to read, but outside/above the box, looking in and helping them.

Just a side note... I, personally can't read for myself... don't know too many who can, but some can,

so you never know.

So that's it.

Re: gems, crystals, oils, herbs... these are all tools, equipment, outerwear. I believe in first learn

how to swim with one or two bathingsuits, and THEN you can get a whole wardrobe of bathingsuits

along with all other gadgets for swimming, when you're a constant swimmer. This is one of my

lamer analogies (for which I'm famous for... lol), but I hope it gets the message I'm trying to convey

across... I hope it makes sense.

I hope this helps.

So... question for you... would you like to do a reading for me? That would be fun Let me know

if you would and what you need. Thank you in advance if your answer is yes.

Love and Light!

posted February 27, 2014 06:12 PM            

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Crimson I would be honored although I must admit I feel intimidated! Haha

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You're so cute... lol... but don't EVER be intimidated by me... it's just lil ol me...

I popped on here just to reply and then I'll be gone for the weekend, minimum.

I've decided not to get any readings at all right now. Has nothing to do w/you at all. If you want, you can read some conversations I had today and yesterday to know more.

So no worries

I hope you have a great weekend.

Love and Light!

posted February 27, 2014 08:21 PM            

Communication with me and the man we have spoken about seems to be diminishing. I don't know if he needs me to reach out? I know you said that communication between us needed to increase

I am so old fashioned in waiting for him to seek me out/ initiate

I am also coming from a place of hurt so I am just really weary of being the initiator. I'm not comfortable with that but he is shy and hasn't expressed what he feels.

I just wonder if it's my own insecurities that make me this way and I am interpreting his every message too much or if in fact he is pulling away? I've always been told when a man pulls away to allow that time

He hasn't really ever gone anywhere, he still contacts me - it's just less than usual and more vague