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Topic: Does someone feel like exchanging?
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Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:13 AM
  
Ok.so what I see for you & S...Ok, so yes, I do see you staying "Together". But it is going to move SLOW. I see you getting increasingly frusturated. The thing I keep seeing is that S REALLY likes you and is quite emotional about you, and he's emotional in general. He struggles with balancing his emotions. He's a little intimidated by his own feminine side. Not saying he acts like a woman, but he equates being too emotional with being a woman..LOL. I also feel that he does not always say/show the depth of his feelings, and this frusturates & confuses you.... I don't feel that you should continue to pass oppoertunites by until he comes to you and claims exclusivety. Right now, I see more of a sexual attraction & sexual tension. There needs to be more of a balance between you two.... make sense? IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:16 AM
Ok...may I ask what he would like to see happen, and if he is attracted to me?Sorry last one! LOL You can send another  IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:18 AM
SOOO much sense. I'm still CRAZY about this man, and I feel something like I've never felt before - EVER. Ahhh, patience... *sighhhh* How about the information on your last read? Does it resonate? Bring up any new questions? I'm iced in today, so am glad to help IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:22 AM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
SOOO much sense. I'm still CRAZY about this man, and I feel something like I've never felt before - EVER. Ahhh, patience... *sighhhh* How about the information on your last read? Does it resonate? Bring up any new questions? I'm iced in today, so am glad to help
Aw thanks Yes, I left you Q above
I will do the feedback in a few.
Send me more as well if you have IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:25 AM
Lol! No need to apologize at all.  YES he's attracted to you - physically and mentally...and he hopes to be, emotionally! The word "substance" flashes non-stop - that's a really GOOD thing! It seems he sees you as a whole woman, not an object - he thinks in terms of 'real life' relative to you. Again, it's far too early to really say, but this feels like a strong, real connection at this point Enlightened! YAY YOU!!! IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 416
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posted March 03, 2014 11:30 AM
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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Ok.so what I see for you & S...Ok, so yes, I do see you staying "Together". But it is going to move SLOW. I see you getting increasingly frustrated. The thing I keep seeing is that S REALLY likes you and is quite emotional about you, and he's emotional in general. He struggles with balancing his emotions. He's a little intimidated by his own feminine side. Not saying he acts like a woman, but he equates being too emotional with being a woman..LOL. I also feel that he does not always say/show the depth of his feelings, and this frustrates & confuses you.... I don't feel that you should continue to pass opportunities by until he comes to you and claims exclusivity. Right now, I see more of a sexual attraction & sexual tension. There needs to be more of a balance between you two.... make sense?
I truly believe we're all a delicate balance of masculine and feminine energies, so to piggyback off of this...should I utilize a level of my masculine to balance out his fragile feminine in moving this along? Or does that run the risk of intimidating his fragile feminine? Is all of this entirely too deep to begin with???  IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I truly believe we're all a delicate balance of masculine and feminine energies, so to piggyback off of this...should I utilize a level of my masculine to balance out his fragile feminine in moving this along? Or does that run the risk of intimidating his fragile feminine? Is all of this entirely too deep to begin with???
Sure, will do now... I just want to clarify: The guy you just read on is NOT the guy I asked about first...does that make a difference? The guy above is the guy I saw out. I would like to know..and don't think I'm crazy, I have reasons for asking...what he thinks of my body? LMAO Can you answer that? Doing yours now.... IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I truly believe we're all a delicate balance of masculine and feminine energies, so to piggyback off of this...should I utilize a level of my masculine to balance out his fragile feminine in moving this along? Or does that run the risk of intimidating his fragile feminine? Is all of this entirely too deep to begin with???
Ok, NO don't do anything as of yet...give it two more weeks. Something significant will happen in two weeks, and you will feel pleased & more secure within this connection. Strong need to not push at all at this time, or he will distance himself.
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LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:42 AM
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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Sure, will do now...I just want to clarify: The guy you just read on is NOT the guy I asked about first...does that make a difference? The guy above is the guy I saw out. I would like to know..and don't think I'm crazy, I have reasons for asking...what he thinks of my body? LMAO Can you answer that? Doing yours now....
No I got that VERY clearly - completely different energies between the two! LolIt came through clearly that he found you quite lovely in every way (physically too! ) - enough to have thought about you since running into you, to be sure.
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LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 416
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posted March 03, 2014 11:47 AM
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Originally posted by Enlightened:
...NO don't do anything as of yet...give it two more weeks. Something significant will happen in two weeks, and you will feel pleased & more secure within this connection. Strong need to not push at all at this time, or he will distance himself.
Funny, you have been saying "late March/early April" from the very first read for me, back in late December... I wish I knew what the heck was supposed to happen in this period!!! Will I even know it when it happens??? IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:50 AM
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Funny, you have been saying "late March/early April" from the very first read for me, back in late December... I wish I knew what the heck was supposed to happen in this period!!! Will I even know it when it happens???
At least it's consistent..LOL
Ok will look into it.... Did you get my last Q?
Just wanted to know what he thinks of my body..LOL! (I have a reason for asking this)! IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:51 AM
I should also ask: does he have your phone number? Facebook/social media info? Do you have friends in common perhaps? I feel like he's going to want to get in touch with you, but I get the sense he'll be trying to figure out how to do it...(?)IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:55 AM
Lol...yes, I replied above: he found you quite physically attractive - I think it's what compelled him to actually engage you to begin with, men being visual creatures and all. I keep seeing that there were a number of furtive glances and appraisals in your direction from him that you didn't even realize that evening.And yes, your consistency is impressive! Comforting too. IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 11:58 AM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I should also ask: does he have your phone number? Facebook/social media info? Do you have friends in common perhaps? I feel like he's going to want to get in touch with you, but I get the sense he'll be trying to figure out how to do it...(?)
We are facebook friends..so he could get in touch if he wants to....
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LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 11:59 AM
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We are facebook friends..so he could get in touch if he wants to....
Excellent. Just making sure IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 12:03 PM
Ok, so YES you will know when it happens. It will be a big step forward for him. taking things to a more meaningful level, for sure In the mood for more? LOL
If so......I'd like to know how he feels about this other girl, V? I know she likes him, I'm curious if he's into her more than he's into me...(I sound like a teenager) LOL I'm curious, but don't really care, if that makes sense? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 12:10 PM
I think he enjoys her company. He sees her as a way to pass the time, have companionship that doesn't (from his perception) "expect too much" from him. I do think she sees more in this relationship than he does. Or will. You, I feel like he sees quite differently (as I said earlier) - though he's still 'feeling his way' through that, yet. And you still have things to work through/past with the subject of your original query before I feel like this will go anywhere. To clarify, I don't think he's waiting on you to decide these things and sever ties or resolve - I don't get the feeling he's even aware of them in fact. Rather, I get the feeling that it's one of those 'steps that must be completed' for you and by you, as a part of your journey, before the next one can be taken, if that makes any sense at all... IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 416
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posted March 03, 2014 12:22 PM
I should further clarify and say that his perception of her is in no way malicious or dismissive - I get the sense that he just...feels like they're very much 'on the same page' as far as perception goes. Her masculine conveys more outwardly, while her feminine hopes for something else in private. IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I should further clarify and say that his perception of her is in no way malicious or dismissive - I get the sense that he just...feels like they're very much 'on the same page' as far as perception goes. Her masculine conveys more outwardly, while her feminine hopes for something else in private.
Ok LAST Q...LOL
And feel free to send more! Can you do a quick read like how he compares the two of us, if he does....... IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 416
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posted March 03, 2014 01:17 PM
LOL!! Though I don't sense that it's even occured in his mind to "compare" the two of you at all - to him it seems apples and oranges, I think - the two Queens I pulled earlier tell me a lot: the Queen of Diamonds and the Queen of Hearts. The Q/D is lovely, but on a surface level; not that V isn't lovely beyond that, I just simply don't think it's even occured to him to look beyond that surface with her. You, I saw as the Q/H: lovely on many levels, and some deeper part of him senses that, wants to get to know more. The best way I know to put it is that, with you there seem a real attraction; where V seems to....I hate to put it this way...be a 'placeholder' - companionship. Hmmm...another question...so do you see S going to my graduation in May (he asked a month ago if he could attend, but the last couple of weeks have been a bit cold, so I've wondered...)? And if so, how shall I introduce him to family and friends??? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted March 03, 2014 01:49 PM
Bumping for Enlightened IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 02:23 PM
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Bumping for Enlightened
I'm back sorry! Duty called....Doing these now. IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 02:37 PM
OK...will S go to your graduation in may.
I get this as a wild card right now....BUT I'm feeling like he will.If he does (which I think he will) I get a big YES as for introducing him to friends/family. I have the need to say "don't worry be happy" ....LOL Looks nice, Lost IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted March 03, 2014 02:47 PM
Lol...YAY ME!! I'm not sure if you remember, but when he asked if he could attend I was encouraged and flattered, but a little surprised too. My response was rather (unintentionally...) off-putting: "Why would you want to come?" ...LOL!! He stammered, "Well, I mean...you don't have to, like...introduce me in any particular way or anything I just..."I had to make that up a couple of days later by clarifying that I'd love to have him there, was just shocked that he'd care to go. So I've bought a lovely dress - understated, elegant, sophisticated - that I think he'll love. He says he loves my style; I hope this won't be an exception Did you have any further question(s) Enlightened? If some come up, just let me know. And as always, thank you SO MUCH for the time you've put in for me. I may have questions (or FEEDBACK *fingers crossed!!*) again in a couple of weeks if we happen not to speak before then - luck and good graces on us both! IP: Logged |
Enlightened
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posted March 03, 2014 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Lol...YAY ME!! I'm not sure if you remember, but when he asked if he could attend I was encouraged and flattered, but a little surprised too. My response was rather (unintentionally...) off-putting: "Why would you want to come?" ...LOL!! He stammered, "Well, I mean...you don't have to, like...introduce me in any particular way or anything I just..."I had to make that up a couple of days later by clarifying that I'd love to have him there, was just shocked that he'd care to go. So I've bought a lovely dress - understated, elegant, sophisticated - that I think he'll love. He says he loves my style; I hope this won't be an exception Did you have any further question(s) Enlightened? If some come up, just let me know. And as always, thank you SO MUCH for the time you've put in for me. I may have questions (or FEEDBACK *fingers crossed!!*) again in a couple of weeks if we happen not to speak before then - luck and good graces on us both!
Aw thanks! Yes keep me posted
I do have one more.... The first guy I asked about (G).
I'm not going to see him for awhile after today...how does he feel about that? Do you get anything from that? Your Q? IP: Logged |
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