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Topic: OHHHH NOOO!! I think I really messed up!!
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blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 07:55 PM
  
I need for someone to look into this for me PLEASE!! I am friends with my ex. We have been friends for years. He is going out or town and I sent him a text saying, "0have a safe flight. I want to hear the deets upon your return tiger booty." I call him that because he literally has stripes on his but from something that happened to him as a children. It's a little innocent term of endearment. In any case, I realized I sent the text to my boyfriend!! Lord help me!!! Smh. I had to lie. Lol. I told him I was sending it to my cousin. I know... I know.... I feel terrible. I need to know is he suspicious or mad? This is awful. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 07:57 PM
Sorry for the typos. I am currently typing from my cell.IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:00 PM
I just spoke to him on the phone very briefly about something unrelated. I did not bring it up, because I did not want to harp on it and look guilty of cheating or something. We got off the phone because he was on his way to the gym. I HATE i lied to him. I just dont think the truth would have flown over too well. GRRRRR!!! I surely wouldn't want him to lose trust in me over someone I have absolutely NO romantic feelings/interest in. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted February 28, 2014 08:06 PM
I hate Mercury RetrogradeBe back with some Tarot ------------------
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blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I hate Mercury RetrogradeBe back with some Tarot
YES!! Thank you!!!!
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poochycat
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posted February 28, 2014 08:18 PM
Sorry I laughed so hard. The best question ever! Sorry honey! O.K. this s what I got...6 of swords, ace of wands, 10 of swords Well the 6 of swords shows travelling and I feel that it's your boyfriend not your relationship ending. Ace of wands is a good omen. I feel he will understand that it was just a mistake however with the 10 of swords you need to be honest with him. Tell him in other words. If you tell one lie he will start to lose trust in you. 10 of swords signifies that. Poochy IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by poochycat:
Sorry I laughed so hard. The best question ever! Sorry honey! O.K. this s what I got...6 of swords, ace of wands, 10 of swords Well the 6 of swords shows travelling and I feel that it's your boyfriend not your relationship ending. Ace of wands is a good omen. I feel he will understand that it was just a mistake however with the 10 of swords you need to be honest with him. Tell him in other words. If you tell one lie he will start to lose trust in you. 10 of swords signifies that. Poochy
I already told him it was intended for my cousin. I should tell him I lied???? YIKES!!! One more question. What do you mean about traveling? IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:24 PM
This really is not good. Lol. Seriously... It's so stupid because it was innocent and I know him. He will not take it as innocent. He gets a little jealous and he's a sensitive Pisces. He even has Pisces in Venus.... Ugh! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:30 PM
..... I thought this dam retrograde ended today! I have had the WORSE luck with this bloody thing! IP: Logged |
imeanj
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posted February 28, 2014 08:47 PM
Sorry to be laughing at your expense, but this had to be the cutest post ever! I think just tell him about it even by letting him read this post or something. Honestly, it would be hard not to forgive you!  IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 08:56 PM
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Originally posted by imeanj:
Sorry to be laughing at your expense, but this had to be the cutest post ever! I think just tell him about it even by letting him read this post or something. Honestly, it would be hard not to forgive you!
Lol!!! But Ive already lied!!!! :-( lord help me! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 09:34 PM
Man....! This is really bothering me. I wonder if he has even thought twice about it. I am sure he has... Like i said, he thinks a lot and is sensitive. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 10:48 PM
......he's texted me a little bit but has not called.... YIKES! . Smh. I am such a dummy. Lol. I mean seriously... Who does that?!?!? Tiger booty??? Smh. I could kick my own ass right now.IP: Logged |
KingofCups
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posted February 28, 2014 11:16 PM
Please try to relax a little even though it's hard, and think about this. If he loves you, he'll understand. If he can't understand, if he's so possessive of you that he will get jealous because of an innocent mistake, then is the relationship going to last? Can a relationship last if there is no trust between the two people involved? Tbh, I don't think so.You said you were still friends with your ex. Would you keep that from your current boyfriend forever? What if you, your ex, and your boyfriend somehow ended up all being involved in a conversation and your ex started joking around and things were said? Would your current boyfriend get angry? This is a test, as are all of life's struggles. Poochy's Tarot reading said he'd understand, and if it's an innocent mistake, he should. Don't worry about it. Just let him know how you were feeling, that you were confused and afraid of his reaction at knowing the truth, so in that instant you said what you said to him. Making a mistake is human. Acknowledging that mistake is a step in the right direction. Owning up to the mistake takes courage. And someone understanding that you aren't infallible and trusting that what you're saying to him is the truth is part of love. Hope this helps GL! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 11:21 PM
Damn.... You and poochy make sense. I'll suck it up and own up to my mistake. When he calls I'll tell him.  IP: Logged |
SandyShore
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posted February 28, 2014 11:32 PM
tell him in person so he can see how contrite you are and you can see how he reactsIP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted February 28, 2014 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by SandyShore:
tell him in person so he can see how contrite you are and you can see how he reacts
I am not going to see him until next weekend.... IP: Logged |
Julz87
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posted March 01, 2014 12:32 AM
Lmao Blessed XD ok ok serious now.Um yea does he know you are friends with your ex? Calling him "tiger booty" implies you've seen your ex naked since you know he has stripes on his butt. And I just dont think its right to joke like that with an EX when you have a boyfriend :/ not judging just how I see it. So while I know that ppl are saying to tell him, I think you should refrain from telling him, also really cut back on the chatting with the ex bf there's a reason why he is your EX..nice EXperience so on with the present. Like you said it was a meaningless fliendly text to you but your bf may not see it like that. And since it was meaningless and nothing is going on then there's no reason to tell him plus you could save him from being hurt and or getting deeply upset with you/breaking trust you know etc.. Come on guys Merc Retro wasn't that bad I quite benefitted from it :P but mainly because I wanted to confuse ppl :P IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted March 01, 2014 12:47 AM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Lmao Blessed XD ok ok serious now.Um yea does he know you are friends with your ex? Calling him "tiger booty" implies you've seen your ex naked since you know he has stripes on his butt. And I just dont think its right to joke like that with an EX when you have a boyfriend :/ not judging just how I see it. So while I know that ppl are saying to tell him, I think you should refrain from telling him, also really cut back on the chatting with the ex bf there's a reason why he is your EX..nice EXperience so on with the present. Like you said it was a meaningless fliendly text to you but your bf may not see it like that. And since it was meaningless and nothing is going on then there's no reason to tell him plus you could save him from being hurt and or getting deeply upset with you/breaking trust you know etc.. Come on guys Merc Retro wasn't that bad I quite benefitted from it :P but mainly because I wanted to confuse ppl :P
I did see him naked when we were dating. Lol. We were together for three years. I have not seen him naked since our break up which was over two years ago and I have not seen him at all in almost a year. We just talk on the phone once every other week or so, if that. Yea... This did make me re-evalaute my contact with my ex. While I know I have not disrespected my boyfriend, not intentionally at least, maybe this happened for a reason. A wake up call. And yes, the retrograde has been terrible for me! All hell has broken lose for me. My grandmother passed away, I have had random miscommunications with people, and my money hit the fritz in an unexpectedly real way. Its been a rough month. IP: Logged |
Julz87
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posted March 01, 2014 01:10 AM
Sorry to hear about your grandma can I recommend a book I read it after losing my dad.
Journey of Souls--
http://worldtracker.org/media/library/Metaphysics%20&%20Spirituality/Michael%20Newton%20JOURNEY%20OF%20SOULS.pdf eased the pain abit. Yea girl just keep on with the present. Plus you mentioned an engagement/proposal coming up in another thread, welcome it with open arms baby!  IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted March 01, 2014 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Sorry to hear about your grandma can I recommend a book I read it after losing my dad.
Journey of Souls--
http://worldtracker.org/media/library/Metaphysics%20&%20Spirit uality/Michael%20Newton%20JOURNEY%20OF%20SOULS.pdf eased the pain abit. Yea girl just keep on with the present. Plus you mentioned an engagement/proposal coming up in another thread, welcome it with open arms baby!
Thank you for the read! I really appreciate it. I love books that are helpful during these kinds of times. Thank you for the support. And yes, fingers crossed for a proposal if I can refrain from making bone head mistakes. Lol. IP: Logged |
SandyShore
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posted March 01, 2014 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Lmao Blessed XD ok ok serious now.Um yea does he know you are friends with your ex? Calling him "tiger booty" implies you've seen your ex naked since you know he has stripes on his butt. And I just dont think its right to joke like that with an EX when you have a boyfriend :/ not judging just how I see it. So while I know that ppl are saying to tell him, I think you should refrain from telling him, also really cut back on the chatting with the ex bf there's a reason why he is your EX..nice EXperience so on with the present. Like you said it was a meaningless fliendly text to you but your bf may not see it like that. And since it was meaningless and nothing is going on then there's no reason to tell him plus you could save him from being hurt and or getting deeply upset with you/breaking trust you know etc.. Come on guys Merc Retro wasn't that bad I quite benefitted from it :P but mainly because I wanted to confuse ppl :P
I meant tell him in person if he raises it up, but don't bring it up yourself over phone or text. However Julz has a good point here. The more you talk about it the bigger the issue becomes. And talking about exes never helps a relationship. Just 'forget' about the text and move to more meaningful exchanges with your boyfriend, and don't act like you've done something suspicious. I also think you should avoid such contacts with your ex. you can remain friendly if you meet socially but other than that... my 2 pence
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blessed39
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posted March 01, 2014 09:53 AM
Thank you Sandy! You are right. Actually, thank you everyone! I spoke with him for some time last night and had a good conversation. I did not bring it up because I think we can all agree that discussing that over the phone is NOT the way to go. Lol. Again, I truly appreciate everyone's effort ad and input. Poochy I appreciate you pulling cards for me. I know we are all so busy and you all could be doing a number of other things. So, I appreciate you taking the time out to help me with my silly issue. Lol. Have an amazing day! IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 01, 2014 10:40 AM
I'm late coming back to the party.
My cards say he knows you lied and he was a lil lethargic 4 of cups, but Hierophant and Strength say he'll get over it. I HATE Mercury Retrograde!! ------------------
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blessed39
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posted March 01, 2014 10:49 AM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I'm late coming back to the party.
My cards say he knows you lied and he was a lil lethargic 4 of cups, but Hierophant and Strength say he'll get over it. I HATE Mercury Retrograde!!
Smh. This hasgone from bad to worse.... If he knows that I lied without me telling him why, that is not a good thing at all. :-/ Thanks for getting back to me! :0 IP: Logged |
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