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Topic: Really sad tonight
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FairyDust75
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posted March 08, 2014 07:10 PM
  
So I discovered the guy is back on the dating site we met on. I had my profile hidden b/c I just didn't want to be on it anymore. But I discovered he put his back and with all new pics and everything  I'm so sad! I guess I had the hope I still had a chance for this to work out at some point. If anyone would be willing to look at it for me and tell me if it's truly done or if he'll be back I'd greatly appreciate it. I know I'm crazy for still wanting him in my life but I struggle with letting it go. Help!IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 08, 2014 08:02 PM
Had he been stubborn/defensive in the past? I see him guarding himself w/ 7 of wands. High Priestess in the crown and Wheel of Fortune environment. I don't like this chaos. Too much uncertainty with him. I think he was feeling that, too, and got restless causing him to look for someone else. Knight of Cups in near future says you will reconnect, but Final outcome is Knight of Swords reversed. Now. I do not read reversals. This was an "accident" and I do not believe in accidents.  Knight of Swords upright to me is a mean ******* . To reverse him means he's confused and lashing out. If you do receive a reconnection, he will be unstable. With 5 of cups in hopes and fears, I'd say he was disappointed, too. I asked explicitly if he would contact you. Again the Knight of Cups. Again the 5 of Cups. Don't think you're gonna like that conversation much. ------------------
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FairyDust75
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posted March 08, 2014 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Had he been stubborn/defensive in the past? I see him guarding himself w/ 7 of wands. High Priestess in the crown and Wheel of Fortune environment. I don't like this chaos. Too much uncertainty with him. I think he was feeling that, too, and got restless causing him to look for someone else. Knight of Cups in near future says you will reconnect, but Final outcome is Knight of Swords reversed. Now. I do not read reversals. This was an "accident" and I do not believe in accidents. Knight of Swords upright to me is a mean ******* . To reverse him means he's confused and lashing out. If you do receive a reconnection, he will be unstable. With 5 of cups in hopes and fears, I'd say he was disappointed, too. I asked explicitly if he would contact you. Again the Knight of Cups. Again the 5 of Cups. Don't think you're gonna like that conversation much.
Thanks LP for answering. Yes he has been defensive and stubborn in the past. But everytime we would get close he would disappear so to speak. I always thought maybe he was fearful of having something serious. So you feel he will reconnect but it won't be good? I just don't even know how to handle him or what to say should he talk to me again. Does he even want to do that? Thank you again I truly appreciate it. I wish I had something to offer you but I unfortunately cannot read cards and have no intuition. All I can do is be thankful to you and send you positive energy.
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LoadedPistil
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 08, 2014 08:37 PM
Thankfulness is plenty, but if you could cheer up for me, that's be GREEEEEAAAT  I think she should let this fish go for reasons beyond him being back on this site. Knight of Swords reversed is just not good. Can't even be my friend. ------------------
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FairyDust75
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posted March 08, 2014 08:42 PM
I agree with you totally. I just fell really hard and really fast for this guy! I feel so foolish! Thank you again!IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 08, 2014 09:04 PM
Hmm wanna post the composite? Hopefully i can help somewhatIP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted March 08, 2014 09:21 PM
I'm sorry I don't have a composite RASIP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 09, 2014 07:49 AM
Your natal?------------------
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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 08:02 AM
How do I create a chart? I've seen them posted here but not sure how to do itIP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 09, 2014 09:55 AM
Go to www.lindagoodman.com
Instructions are there somewhere. ------------------
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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 10:01 AM
Thanks LP but that link says its under construction. I appreciate your efforts. Do you know of any other place I can try?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 09, 2014 11:24 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ubbmisc.cgi?action=getannounce&ForumNumber=11&Start=2455736.99&End=2459389&Session= ------------------
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Haplesschild*
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posted May 07, 2014 06:01 AM
Hey is this the guy another member did a reading on and said he was a jerk that only wanted the physical with you, and if he were to come back it would be to satisfy his urges and ego? =S
I know, I've been in a situation where the guy I was in love with was a horrible person. But when you're attached it's hard to break away.
But eventually you'll see the reality of things. You'll know you deserve much more than that. Hope you stay strong and don't get tangled with this guy again. It's a waste of your time, your energy and your emotions. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 07, 2014 06:22 AM
Yes it's the same guy. Quite honestly, I would be completely shocked to ever hear from him again. It's been 5 months and I can't see any reason why he would even contact me again after so long. I'm working on letting it go. I have good days and not so good days. What can I say, I'm only human. I guess I stupidly really fell for this guy so it hasn't been easy. But I'm trying, that's all I can say. And like I said, I would be shocke if he ever talked to me again much less wanted a fwb situation. I'm not saying anyone's reading was wrong I just don't know why he would contact me again is all. Matter of fact, every reader has said the same thing that he would come back mainly just looking for fwb. I could see him being brazen enough to ask for fwb IF he did contact me again. But I try not to think of that and just push myself forward. I could see him popping up out of the blue but I would be shocked as all heck!IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted May 07, 2014 06:59 AM
When I was 20 (so four years ago) I was in love with a guy who used my feelings for him against me. I understand how absolutely enthralled you can get when you fall and it IS going to be hard. But keep looking forwards <3 you'll get pass this!IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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From: USA
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posted May 07, 2014 11:49 AM
Well I'm a bit older than you lol and I thought I would be past this sort of thing. I guess I had thought by now I would have been settled with someone and have a family. But I guess not. That's just the way it goes I suppose. I'm really beginning to believe I'm not meant to have a long term relationship or children. I just have no luck when it comes to love. IP: Logged |
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