posted March 13, 2014 06:21 PM            

Does anyone want to exchange? Just one, please
Question: What do I need to know/see about this situation with S.? And how can I be more firm and/or in control (or perhaps I shouldn't try this) and/or handle similar situations in future. (Found myself in a 'defending position' today which basically I do not want to be in at all.. But I know they will occur, so how to handle best (& be king! Lol)
Anything you can pick up will be great.

posted March 13, 2014 06:27 PM            

i m getting a very mixed energy from ur situation....the only thing i c is tat u no wats true in ur heart..but dnt wanna accept it...its tat u shud c the situation with reality glasses...

posted March 13, 2014 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
You want someone else or, should I do it?

I don't want to be a hog.

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posted March 13, 2014 06:27 PM            

i m getting a very mixed energy from ur situation....the only thing i c is tat u no wats true in ur heart..but dnt wanna accept it...its tat u shud c the situation with reality glasses...

posted March 14, 2014 01:34 AM            

1/2- Queen of Discs crossed by 9 of swords
below- 3 of discs
left- World
above- 6 of cups
right- page of swords

7 of swords-Queen of swords- 9 of discs- King of Rods

So it seems like you're stuck working with this person until this project is completed and I take it's still in the early stages? Which sucks cuz you are wanting it to be over as soon as possible!!! You literally dread having to wake up and face this.

This person is the Queen of Swords, sharp with their tongue, maybe more worried about being right and getting their point across than working with others. I think you have no choice but to be a bit sneaky here... Maybe bite your tongue every so often, choose your moments. I think less direct action would be better here, like setting a trap by letting them talk circles around themselves. And also listen better. I think this person I highly defensive, coming from an icky past so they may not always be aware of their actions so be patient as well.

posted March 14, 2014 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Every time I pull cards for you I always chuckle to myself.

1/2- Queen of Discs crossed by 9 of swords
below- 3 of discs
left- World
above- 6 of cups
right- page of swords

7 of swords-Queen of swords- 9 of discs- King of Rods

So it seems like you're stuck working with this person until this project is completed and I take it's still in the early stages? Which sucks cuz you are wanting it to be over as soon as possible!!! You literally dread having to wake up and face this.

This person is the Queen of Swords, sharp with their tongue, maybe more worried about being right and getting their point across than working with others. I think you have no choice but to be a bit sneaky here... Maybe bite your tongue every so often, choose your moments. I think less direct action would be better here, like setting a trap by letting them talk circles around themselves. And also listen better. I think this person I highly defensive, coming from an icky past so they may not always be aware of their actions so be patient as well.

Basically I think you need to learn to maneuver around them, only then will you be King, literally, you'll be the King of Rods.

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Thanks! Why did you have to chuckle this time?? Or was it the wands-suit & the king? And OMG that 9 of swords is chasing me!
Valuable advice, going around this & yep, I will have to be dealing with this cause it is just the beginning
I shall listen carefully & let them go around in circles. Like asking Socratic questions.
Gave me a hard time last night & I annoyed myself because I heard myself giving explanations. Which in all fairness: I don't think I should. But for diplomatic means etc. I thought it was wise. I actually felt very 8 swords...
But that does fit biting the tongue.

posted March 14, 2014 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by dreams:
hi twirl...

i m getting a very mixed energy from ur situation....the only thing i c is tat u no wats true in ur heart..but dnt wanna accept it...its tat u shud c the situation with reality glasses...

tats all i m getting now...hope it helped...i work on intution...

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Hi dreams,

Thanks for giving this a try But in all honesty this advice could apply to most situations, so it was a bit too common for me. I do appreciate your time though & if I have time I'll see what I can pick up for you.

posted March 15, 2014 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by dreams:
i would like a general reading on my love n work life for 3 months time frame

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