posted March 18, 2014 10:52 PM            

You are asking me for recommendations. Hmm, well, you are saying he is harmless, but you over analyze but then again you are not giving up on him. You were saying he is a Scorpio and his moon is in cancer. You are a cancer. So two water signs which are good but as I was saying before with his cancer moon he will become moody as yourself, I suspect. Ask yourself if you can tolerate this even if you were to become closer. Being in a relationship is tolerating each other's little quirts. After all of the readings I have given you I feel that you two are a good match however it still rides with you. YOU are the one who must decide.

I mentioned in a previous e-mail about having him over to dinner. Remember? Well anytime the two of you can be alone.
As I see it you have choices...

1. Come right out and ask him how he feels and if he thinks the two of you have a future.

2. Do nothing and let things continue.

3. Tell him you are going to be dating other men and he is free to date as well.

4. Break up.

posted March 19, 2014 02:49 PM            

I think I have a plan for things with J. I told a friend I want to get drinks tomorrow after work so we'll go to his bar. But before that, I'm going to text him and say that it seems like he's been very busy but if he's still interested I'm able to hang out Thurs. night. (I don't have to work on Friday) and basically that this is "Last call."

That way I won't have to put him on the spot when I go to the bar, and if he doesn't reply I'll just be friendly and get drinks but not really try to interact much. Then at least he gets a last look at what he's missing out on.

posted March 19, 2014 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Moonstruck,

I think I have a plan for things with J. I told a friend I want to get drinks tomorrow after work so we'll go to his bar. But before that, I'm going to text him and say that it seems like he's been very busy but if he's still interested I'm able to hang out Thurs. night. (I don't have to work on Friday) and basically that this is "Last call."

That way I won't have to put him on the spot when I go to the bar, and if he doesn't reply I'll just be friendly and get drinks but not really try to interact much. Then at least he gets a last look at what he's missing out on.

What do you think??

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Good plan!! I think that's a very good approach

posted March 19, 2014 04:52 PM            

I'm so ready for springtime!

posted March 19, 2014 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Yes, I am feeling better! Thanks for asking. I'm still a little grumpy that this whole being sick thing was such a damper, but I'll get over it.

I'm so ready for springtime!

How are you today? Any more from CB?

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I'm glad you're feeling better. I get grumpy too and I know how it can just consume you so to speak...it SUCKS!
I've noticed a lot of females on the board with guy issues. It's a plague lately apparently! haha

And Venus RX ended a while ago but I heard the effects would last a few months
And now Mars RX and I think there's another planet RX too... :-S

posted March 19, 2014 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hello dear one,

You are asking me for recommendations. Hmm, well, you are saying he is harmless, but you over analyze but then again you are not giving up on him. You were saying he is a Scorpio and his moon is in cancer. You are a cancer. So two water signs which are good but as I was saying before with his cancer moon he will become moody as yourself, I suspect. Ask yourself if you can tolerate this even if you were to become closer. Being in a relationship is tolerating each other's little quirts. After all of the readings I have given you I feel that you two are a good match however it still rides with you. YOU are the one who must decide.

I mentioned in a previous e-mail about having him over to dinner. Remember? Well anytime the two of you can be alone.
As I see it you have choices...

1. Come right out and ask him how he feels and if he thinks the two of you have a future.

2. Do nothing and let things continue.

3. Tell him you are going to be dating other men and he is free to date as well.

4. Break up.

There you have it in a nutshell. Sorry to be so blunt and honestly I don't mean to hurt you but do you think asking and asking for more readings will help you sweetie? My last reading was about using your intuition but also about making choices. The answer to your dilemma is in your heart. No more second guessing and letting insecurity getting in the way. I did pull a strength card for you I remember. It's in you honey.
I will pray for you and put a positive light around you. You can chat with me anytime and I wish you nothing but happiness. Love poochy XX

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You're so right and I am overthinking everything.

I've been hurt really badly so I am trying to micromanage everything and dissect everything but I do realize I need to enjoy the ride so to speak

posted March 19, 2014 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I'm glad you're feeling better. I get grumpy too and I know how it can just consume you so to speak...it SUCKS!
I've noticed a lot of females on the board with guy issues. It's a plague lately apparently! haha

And Venus RX ended a while ago but I heard the effects would last a few months
And now Mars RX and I think there's another planet RX too... :-S

Yes, CB and I have been "chit chatting" - no plans made to see each other. He did ask what I had planned yesterday but I already had plans with some friends so that's what he gets for always waiting til the last minute! (pet peeve!!!) Idk how much longer I'll let things go on this way. I won't stop talking to him anymore but the interest is definitely starting to slip away. I need a man who will make an effort!!

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Yep, and that planet is Saturn! Woohoo! I really wanna chalk all of this up to Mars RX because I had a similar situation one of the last times Mars was RX.

I hate to say it but CB's last minute-ness reminds me so much of my ex. I remember doing everything I could to try and work with his "in the moment"-ness and it was exasperating. I'm a fairly structured person and this just was a lot for me to deal with. I did try to learn more about being spontaneous though.

posted March 19, 2014 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Yep, and that planet is Saturn! Woohoo! I really wanna chalk all of this up to Mars RX because I had a similar situation one of the last times Mars was RX.

I hate to say it but CB's last minute-ness reminds me so much of my ex. I remember doing everything I could to try and work with his "in the moment"-ness and it was exasperating. I'm a fairly structured person and this just was a lot for me to deal with. I did try to learn more about being spontaneous though.

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it's ANNOYING!!!! lol and these crazy planets are, too

but yeah I am a planner! especially bc I have a 14 mon old so I have to make arrangements for family to keep him

posted March 19, 2014 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
it's ANNOYING!!!! lol and these crazy planets are, too

but yeah I am a planner! especially bc I have a 14 mon old so I have to make arrangements for family to keep him

men!!

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Right, you're a mom. You don't have that luxury.

posted March 19, 2014 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by kaianna:
I did a 3 card spread. For past got ten of pentacles, present the devil and future the hierophant.hmm

I guess this is saying in the beginning you didn't really notice each other or your interaction was superficial. I think the devil underscores this. Is this love or really just lust? Or you taking this seriously? The hierophant is about rules and regulations and maybe going against set structures to do what is right. I think this is a warning to take the relationship seriously, maybe not from your end but from his. Does this resonate because I new to this.

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