posted March 25, 2014 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Hum, I don't think this will be the job for you... I actually see another woman taking it. However, I do see something else coming up that will push you more towards your creative side. Could be something artistic or related to the feminine business... Or even something that will require you to dress up a little more and be more put together... Somewhere where they use an uniform wouldn't be surprising either. Anyway, I see you leaving this option you're thinking about.

I hope it resonates.

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posted March 26, 2014 07:09 AM            

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Originally posted by crys:

Let's see
You are: venus
He is: mars

Mars trine venus, applying aspect-yes he care about you
Mars(he) is in your 1st house of libra. This also indicates that he likes you.
Mars is in exile but in angular house-1st house, maybe he feels a little intimidated by you or push away somehow.
Your 1st house is his 7th house of relationship, so he is involed in this relationship.

You-venus are in you 5th house of fun, hang-out, party, you want to feel good, to chill, have a good time.
Your 5th house is his 10th house of public recognition, hight status, does he sees you more then his equal? He likes to go out with you and to be seen by other people together?
Venus in aquarius is peregrine, sort of netural in this situation, you care but with moderation, brain and heart involved.

All the above indicates that he cares but sometimes he is "afaid" to show and let's not forget about a man's ego... lol.

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Yes hun, I do feel he cares, but I'm getting really frustrated about his attitudes at this point... It's just as you say, he cares but is afraid to show... I really don't understand what's on his mind and I'm not sure I want to anymore, actually. I have a tendency to be a bit "all or nothing" and I felt like I was making an effort, while he really wasn't, even though I'm almost certain he wanted to... The fact that he is acting agaisnt his feelings is getting to me and I just feel like shutting the door on his face. I'm really frustrated, can you tell? lol I may change my mind in the near future, who knows, it wouldn't be the first time... But right now, I don't feel like putting the effort in anymore. I'm tired. Oh, and what you say about him liking to be with me in a social environment makes sense too, as that's when we're together the most. Thanks for the reading hun, I can definitely resonate.

In regards to your reading, I just feel like you need to get out of your shell a little bit. You don't need to be in a rush though, just take your time... But you really need to work on putting your insecurities aside. He will like you for who you are, believe me. All the best to you hun!

posted March 26, 2014 07:48 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I will, if your still exchanging..what is your question.

Mine is…if I will get the admin psych coordinator job……and if I will get the offer in NY……..which one would be best for me overall to take?

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Hi cherful, sure, I'll look into that for you hun. Just give me a few moments to relax and then focus on your matter... I need to ground myself first.

posted March 26, 2014 08:20 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Mine is…if I will get the admin psych coordinator job……and if I will get the offer in NY……..which one would be best for me overall to take?

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The main idea I'm getting here is movement... Would taking the offer in NY require you to move and live there or are you already living there or in the surroundings? I see you moving, so I'd say you will probably take the NY offer...

Do you have a male friend or someone that you know in that admin psych coordinator job? I see a male there who would really like for you to take that offer, he's excited about the idea... And I see your heart pulling you more towards this one at the moment, is that correct? Somehow I feel it makes you feel more comfortable than the other option... But ultimately, I see you in NY. I believe there will be a male in NY, some kind of director or in a high position, who will be incredibly helpful for you in encouraging you to adapt to the circumstances and the new environment. I don't think you will get a good first impression of the job, maybe because your mind was a bit more focused on the other offer, and it will take a bit of work to make yourself receptive to this new job, but it will be very good for you financially, plus that strong male that I was talking about will be the key to make you feel at home.

Let me know if this resonates.

posted March 26, 2014 02:14 PM            

THe job here in chicago, its a female who is helping me get the role...she is masculine, and her boss is a male and he's hoping I take it. That job is at least 6 months (could be long term, but I wont know until later) however, it's great pay!

So, the fear is...yes i want to take the NY offer (because its more than a job, its going to be healing for me as its at a holistic retreat) but the pay is so bad I really wont have much saved, plus what will I do after the 7 months ( I plan on coming back to chicago, but ill have to find a job and apt) My other fear is, i just want stability and I want to be/find the guy I will spend my life with....if I go to NY, I feel like that's 7 months of me waiting for that to happen.

I am just not at a point to where I can make a mistake...again!

did u have a question?

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Originally posted by Adimi:
The main idea I'm getting here is movement... Would taking the offer in NY require you to move and live there or are you already living there or in the surroundings? I see you moving, so I'd say you will probably take the NY offer...

Do you have a male friend or someone that you know in that admin psych coordinator job? I see a male there who would really like for you to take that offer, he's excited about the idea... And I see your heart pulling you more towards this one at the moment, is that correct? Somehow I feel it makes you feel more comfortable than the other option... But ultimately, I see you in NY. I believe there will be a male in NY, some kind of director or in a high position, who will be incredibly helpful for you in encouraging you to adapt to the circumstances and the new environment. I don't think you will get a good first impression of the job, maybe because your mind was a bit more focused on the other offer, and it will take a bit of work to make yourself receptive to this new job, but it will be very good for you financially, plus that strong male that I was talking about will be the key to make you feel at home.

Let me know if this resonates.

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posted March 26, 2014 03:58 PM            

greatly said!!

I got that he'd like the chance to take you out....to like a resturant. I don't think its to talk...I think its to generally have a good time.

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Originally posted by Adimi:
I don't think it will be a mistake hun, although you may currently think so because of the comfort that the Chicago job offers in comparison to the NY one. I didn't see any financial problems with it... If you do go to NY, you'll be fine. I actually saw financial security, but it could also represent your sense of grounding... You feeling more stable and connected to your inner self by the end of it. But remember... Nothing is set in stone. This is your choice to make and you have to listen to your inner guidance... Meditate on this hun, you'll know what to do.

Yes, here's my question: What's on P.'s mind right now in regards to me?

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posted March 26, 2014 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Yes hun, I do feel he cares, but I'm getting really frustrated about his attitudes at this point... It's just as you say, he cares but is afraid to show... I really don't understand what's on his mind and I'm not sure I want to anymore, actually. I have a tendency to be a bit "all or nothing" and I felt like I was making an effort, while he really wasn't, even though I'm almost certain he wanted to... The fact that he is acting agaisnt his feelings is getting to me and I just feel like shutting the door on his face. I'm really frustrated, can you tell? lol I may change my mind in the near future, who knows, it wouldn't be the first time... But right now, I don't feel like putting the effort in anymore. I'm tired. Oh, and what you say about him liking to be with me in a social environment makes sense too, as that's when we're together the most. Thanks for the reading hun, I can definitely resonate.

In regards to your reading, I just feel like you need to get out of your shell a little bit. You don't need to be in a rush though, just take your time... But you really need to work on putting your insecurities aside. He will like you for who you are, believe me. All the best to you hun!

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Hello,

Thank you for feed-back. I hope everything works out for you.If i can help you please do tell.
Do you think he will try to tease...just to "see" my reaction?