posted March 26, 2014 12:25 AM            

I created this bc I didn't want to chat too much on poochy's thread lol, I felt like I was taking away from her post

When I mentioned your vision of CB and I and that I still have faith in it, i meant that I'm still hopeful he will eventually want me to move in and that we will have our little domestic life and potentially a child together

posted March 26, 2014 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Hello

I created this bc I didn't want to chat too much on poochy's thread lol, I felt like I was taking away from her post

When I mentioned your vision of CB and I and that I still have faith in it, i meant that I'm still hopeful he will eventually want me to move in and that we will have our little domestic life and potentially a child together

I hope that clarifies the confusion

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You're absolutely right... shouldn't hijack poochy's thread. Thanks for opening this.

Thank you for telling me. So I said that to you? Really? Coz I dodn't remember (although like I said I don't always remember everything), and so I went back to read what I did for you (I have it saved) and I don't see anything in there about that. Hmmm.. wonder when I said that. I feel so silly when that happens... lol.

You know what?... I'll copy/paste it for you here, but I'll put it in a few posts since it's two of them.. the reading and then the follow up. So it's long and I've realized that very long posts won't go through for me.

posted March 26, 2014 12:36 AM            

Well I collected some energy and am going to reply to you.

Sat and meditated a while on your situation and your guy, your son and everything.

I thoroughly understand how you feel, not being 100% certain and wanting to make the right decision. I totally feel for you. Honestly, I so much want to be able to give you a solid answer. One that you can take and make a solid decision on. That's why I even meditated for you.. knowing that it's not only a romance but your child is involved.

What I get is that there is a good connection and compatibility with you and 11-21. Communication needs to increase between the two of you some more though. I feel that you might be holding back a little, out of hesitation/uncertainty. But there is a very lovely connecting between you and he. He, I feel would also be good with your son.

Unfortunately I can't feel your situation crystal clear, like I usually do. As I explained to a few ppl on here, it's only in the past few days that I've ever given a reading through the computer. If you read things I've written on here, then you know that I've been doing this for a looooong time, but it's always talking to someone... their voice... taking time and feeling them, talking with them... as they talk their voice brings in my flashes and solid answers. BECAUSE you have a child and this isn't just romance but a serious moving-in type question, and I'm not feeling your situation as clear as I usually do, I, in all good conscience cannot say what you'd like to hear.... that this is solid and will last a lifetime. It might, but I'm not sure.

Let me tell you what I do feel. 11-21 is serious about you. I don't feel he's playing you or isn't sure about what he's expressing to you. He feels sure about what he's expressing to you. He is as honest as he can be, I feel. Yet I'm not 100% sure that it might not alter, possibly, at some point down the road. I'm not saying that it will. I'm just not sure that it won't. I can't feel it clear enough.

What I feel is that he's done that before. Felt that he was really sure, only to see later that he wasn't, and backed out. Has he shared any of that with you? I'm sorry that that's what I feel, but it is. But it's not too sad, coz...

I also feel that at some point that changes for him. That he no longer 'changes his mind later'... it's a maturity that takes place for him. I'm not sure if that's happened yet. I can't put my finger on the here and now... when I'm feeling his 'maturation'. I don't feel time and therefore I can't tell. But at one point that DOES change and he is totally, fully reliable, knowing his own mind to the point where he doesn't change what he set out to do. Maybe he is there by now (?). You would know that by knowing him... knowing his past... seeing his present actions.

Your situation is one that would take me a little time w/a client. But since I'm not on here for that purpose and cannot do 'my regular thing', all I can say is that...

he's a good guy... he's serious about you and please take your time to make sure all the i's are dotted and all the t's are crossed before you make a major move into anything with your son (which you don't need an intuitive to tell you, it's logic).

Please accept my appologies... I truly wanted to give you more than I have been able to. I hope that what I did get will be of help to you. Please let me know what you think.

Thank you and wishing you a wonderful evening.

Love and Light!

posted March 26, 2014 12:37 AM            

You're very welcome, and thank you for the kind words.

Ah... so he's been hurt/betrayed before. Well I'm sorry to hear that... I hate to see anyone in emotional pain, but that's good. Actually great! Then he has been given the opportunity already to learn. He's a smart, insightful, good guy, so by having been given his opportunity for growth, him being the type of guy he is, he would have learned. Yeay!

Thank you for telling me that, because it immediately transported my intuition into a better timeframe, so I'm not wondering if I'm feeling him now or years ago. So, naturally, more flashes for you...

btw, that reservedness that you see in him, that, I feel, is part of his personality, not just acquired by his painful experience...

When he's close to someone and trusts, he's open and more Sag like, rather than Scorpio... but these things I didn't bother telling you... meaning I didn't tell you how is he with those he's close to.. his personality and such, because I'm used to giving readings for paying customers, (and I charge a pretty penny), and I don't waste their time telling them what they can see w/their own eyes... I watch out for their pocketbooks as if it were mine... therefore I didn't share any of that with you since you know him in person *smile*

So.. back to the flash...

It was basically what I already felt, but expanded... that yes, he's serious about you and in his heart very much wants and hopes that the relationship with you will be a 'forever' thing. He thinks of you very often. Has he told you that?

You know how you said he's 'holding back'... that resonates with my 'feeling'... I don't know how long you've been seeing him, but I not only feel, but stronger than feel.. KNOW that with time he will open up and share more with you.

It's around the time that he's open and sharing, showing you his scars and sharing with you the pain he went through to receive those scars, it's at that time that he's fully comitted to you -with his heart and emotions... in a way that you too will feel it in your heart as you are in his presence and he's talking to you... I clearly see that (clairvoyantly)... it's an animated scene for me, in color, not even a static photo.

You'll FEEL it! You might second guess yourself after you feel it, (which you do because you don't want to make a mistake) but don't. Allow yourself to know that it's the indication to you that he's fully sharing himself and trusts you . For him trust is big (not only as for anyone who has been hurt), but it's also in his inate personality.

I feel that in the relatioship that he's been cheated on, he forced himself to trust, only to be betrayed. He wasn't really 100% sure, you know... but he truly wanted and wants real love and so he ignored the tiny doub and forced himself.

You will probably hear this from the horse's mouth when he tells you. So when he shares those things, it's at that time that you will be able to trust him fully and not wonder and question if what you experienced in the past will repeat itself with this guy. ( clarification: when I said you will be able to fully trust him... it's not me telling you that at that time you can... it'll be you feeling it and knowing that, in other words your scared, doubtful little heart will be appeased.) You will not feel the need to get readings to clarify and ask to make sure if he's feeling like that. You'll get readings, but they will all confirm for you (what you already know and feel) and you will feel "Yeah, I knew it... Cool, it's just confirming for me".

Ahhh.. so this is why I felt that communication needs to expand. This is why I felt for you to take your time with him. This is why others have said to you to make sure before you decide and do (I've read a little last night of what others said to you.) Not only that but the fact that you're still working through your own issues regarding your ex and what he did to you. So you're both healing... through each other also, obviously (which is a nice thing to do for and with each other when couples come together - on the spiritual level it's a BEAUTIFUL thing, actually, but that's another subject all together).

NOBODY is perfect, sweetie... if/when we reach close to that, we're gone. We no longer walk the earth. We are all here to learn and grow and become better... that's what life is about.

So, just as I would for a client of mine... I'll say to you: If you'd like to know what I would suggest... I'd suggest for you to go forward with an unafraid heart, open communication and a caring patience towards this guy.. I'd suggest taking your time, allowing the two of you to get very close (which I feel you will) and allowing it to blossom and unfold in it's good time. I feel it will. I feel you will be living with this guy and I see more than one child around. Does he have a child? or if not, then you two will.

Enjoy this relationship and may you be blessed with great love!

Hugs to you too, sweetie.

Love and Light!

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posted March 26, 2014 12:42 AM            

I do have a child so perhaps I misunderstood that.

I'm glad you sense he's serious. I think he's weighing it out. My intuition is soooo clouded when it comes to him.

He isn't affectionate with me yet either. He's kissed me twice but not consistently and not the last two times we have spent together.

It makes me question if he just wants a friendship with me... So talking to you about this helps a lot

posted March 26, 2014 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
I feel you will be living with this guy and I see more than one child around. Does he have a child? or if not, then you two will.

Enjoy this relationship and may you be blessed with great love!

Hugs to you too, sweetie.

Love and Light!

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posted March 26, 2014 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Okay in the 2nd response you gave me you asked about a child being around and said if there's not then we will

I do have a child so perhaps I misunderstood that.

I'm glad you sense he's serious. I think he's weighing it out. My intuition is soooo clouded when it comes to him.

He isn't affectionate with me yet either. He's kissed me twice but not consistently and not the last two times we have spent together.

It makes me question if he just wants a friendship with me... So talking to you about this helps a lot

I appreciate you!!!! And your beautiful gift

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Hi again,

You're very welcome Sorry... I'm very short on time... pls forgive the short, if seemingly curt reply... don't want to give you that impression.

Re: child... I felt a little child... saw you and him and a little child with the two of you... just one. So if you have one, then that's probably the little child I saw. Didn't see more than one little child.

Sorry I can't look at anything right now... another time maybe. What I felt before was that he was serious and not playing you... I'm sure that isn't going to change... what I feel usually doesn't (well actually, it never does).

Wishing you a beautiful day!

Blessings, Love and Light!

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posted March 26, 2014 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
[b] I feel you will be living with this guy and I see more than one child around. Does he have a child? or if not, then you two will.

Enjoy this relationship and may you be blessed with great love!

Hugs to you too, sweetie.

Love and Light!

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^^ that part [/B][/QUOTE]

Hi again - thanks for peeking in

So I quoted this part again bc you did mention "more than one child"

So you don't feel that? That's okay I just got confused or perhaps misinterpreted

I'm glad he's serious about me

Well, thank you again very kindly for putting your energy into my inquiries

I appreciate you

posted March 26, 2014 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Hi again - thanks for peeking in

So I quoted this part again bc you did mention "more than one child"

So you don't feel that? That's okay I just got confused or perhaps misinterpreted

I'm glad he's serious about me

Well, thank you again very kindly for putting your energy into my inquiries

I appreciate you

Hugs

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Hiya,

Ah... I see what you're saying and you're right... if you have that then I said that.

It doesn't surprise me that I don't remember, because sometimes I don't. It's just what happes sometimes.

Actually I surprised myself by feeling a child at all. But I just say what I feel when I feel it. Usually I can't ever tell if a gal is pregnant, or if she has children. So guess we'll have to see. I don't mean to not give you an answer.

The thing I can say again is that I always felt that he was serious about you.

Oh, and you're very welcome. Anytime, moon. HUG!

Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but am glad to do what I can.

Hope you're having a great evening.

Blessings, Love and Light!