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Topic: @Cherful
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LittleWing
Knowflake Posts: 78
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 12:52 AM
  
I'm down to exchange! Okay, my question is : when I get close to people they disappear or sver ties with me. I am trying to understand if it is about me or about the types of people I have chosen as friends? With the way my friendships have gone, I wonder if I will ever be able to have a love relationship.
Thanx Cher!
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1496
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 02:41 PM
Great!Ok mine is that I feel like a loser. My life six. Im 35, not dating, have a boring job, and im behind on my rent. When is this going to turn around? Both my exs have gotten married and are successful in life....whereas my life got really bad. And part of it, was because of them, one more so. So now im focused on me, but I keep getting one setback after another and I have no ideal why! IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1496
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 02:49 PM
U have to choose people more like u. I don't feel the people u choose are in ur click, like I feel u need to be friends with more artsy types. I also think they left because u might have too much moon going on with u either natally or from transits. They feel ur to emotional for them, also that u expect to much giving from them.I would counter act that with friends who have more Venus qualities. However I have to say that u don't need to make everyone a friend. Don't try to convert acquaintances into good friends. They will show u what level of friendship they want. I think it's going to be a when before u have those good 5 group of friends who understand u, like u and won't bail. But u need to change ur dynamics in finding those friends first ...like change hangout venue. IP: Logged |
LittleWing
Knowflake Posts: 78
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 05:18 PM
Thank you for that cherful, it makes a ton of sense- i never had artsy friends even though im very creative and artsy... i am not needy at all but very giving and i think when i get close to people i share some things from my past and afterthat they treat me different. they cant handle it i guess, but i have hope that i will meet people who love me for me and someone i can fall in llove with- i have a feeling that person will be oppsite from me but will like my soft artsy side....as for you-First- YOU ARE NOT A LOSER. You are a beautiful intuitive human who like most beautiful gentle souls, get hurt earlier on, i attest to this!
i pulled queen of swords, ace of wands, the moon, strength and 9 of cups. This shows that all of this icey firey confusing **** going on in your life is not without purpose. You are coming out of this stronger and once you fully fradp tour inner strength, is when you will reach a point where your happiness you wish for will be right there for you! QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
Great! Ok mine is that I feel like a loser. My life six. Im 35, not dating, have a boring job, and im behind on my rent. When is this going to turn around? Both my exs have gotten married and are successful in life....whereas my life got really bad. And part of it, was because of them, one more so. So now im focused on me, but I keep getting one setback after another and I have no ideal why![/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
LittleWing
Knowflake Posts: 78
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 02:50 AM
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1496
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:11 PM
TY!!! quote:
Originally posted by LittleWing:
Bumping for Cherful!
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