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posted April 29, 2014 08:25 PM            

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I'm in dire need of help... it's been a few months now and I can't get this guy out of my head. He's a very old schoolmate of mine and we 've been friendly all this time. He was away for some time but now he's found a permanent job in the area and he is going nowhere.
When it comes to family/love issues, he was brought up up by his grandparents cuz his dad was absent and his mum is an immature, narcissistic MILF. Girlfriends? I haven't got a clue, I only know he had a summer fling last year with some Dutch girl who apparently, he treated very nicely.
Overall, he is a fun but serious guy to be around.

Why why why why does my instinct tell me there is something here?

Him

Me

Synastry

If I were to make a more serious move, where should be the right time for it? April has been really ****** for me so far.

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posted April 30, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Please can anyone take a look at the charts or do a reading for me? Unfortunately, I have nothing in exchange, I only trust my own instinct. I think I am in love with this person and this is a truly rare occasion for me. Last year I lost my dad and I have been feeling more lost and insecure than ever about love life.

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posted April 30, 2014 06:04 PM            

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So, your H8/12/4 ruler isn't involved : I wanted to see what triggers that special feeling of yours, no planetary overlays as well, as far as these houses go.

Now, I am a great believer in Sun/Moon aspects.. What's the orb for the opposition? (can't see his chart)

Moon (H10 ruler) trine Mars (H12 ruler) - steamy in a emo-googly way : that's how the Water types roll Under 3° orb?

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posted April 30, 2014 07:24 PM            

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I edited my original post and reposted his chart

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posted April 30, 2014 10:33 PM            

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well, assuming you have his TOB correct it's good for something long-term. you have very nice house positions with all of your important personal planets hitting his 7th and 8th house; he'd see you as having qualities he'd want in a partner, and the sun and mars in his 8th would add sexual chemistry between you guys. the trouble spot might be you - you have your moon opposite his stellium in sag/cap and his planets don't fall into your houses as nicely. it could be a fit for you, initially, but you might find this person lacking in some of the qualities you would want. you also have venus and Saturn in a bad position. and keep in mind you have a ton of stuff in cancer and cancer people just cling and cling and won't move on, even when they need to; so consider if you're just clinging for nothing. overall it's more positive than negative though, especially for dating, not sure about forever...

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posted May 01, 2014 04:07 AM            

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How is my Venus/Saturn in a bad position? It would be bad for me or him?
If anything, my Gem Venus has been a lifesaver with all that water in my chart

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posted May 01, 2014 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
How is my Venus/Saturn in a bad position? It would be bad for me or him?
If anything, my Gem Venus has been a lifesaver with all that water in my chart

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your venus/saturn with him sits in an unfavorable position. just google that aspect for more info.

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posted May 01, 2014 06:46 PM            

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My Saturn semi-squares his Sun and squares his Jupiter and his Saturn quincunxes my Moon and opposes my Venus [wide orb]. I know there is some debate on whether the quincunx is a significant aspect but is the semi-square that important? I hardly ever "feel" it.

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posted May 01, 2014 06:52 PM            

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Apart from that. Can anyone do a reading for me? My mom can read coffee cups [I don't know if anyone is familiar with Greek/Turkish coffee fortune telling] and she has been "seeing" the numbers 5 and 7 alternately, plus this guy's initials [she doesn't know him, mind you].

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posted May 01, 2014 07:08 PM            

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Hi Choc

I can do a tarot reading for you if you like.....(or with saints archangel cards)

I'm not good with synastry though, I just speculate!

Let me know if you think, or what your specific question is.

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posted May 01, 2014 07:48 PM            

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Apart from my crappy personal life, the recent loss of my father which truly devastated me and made me reconsider so many things, my business has been doing great and my mom and I are in good health. So, since I can't really bring the dead back, I would like to know if this man, apart from being a friend [this is going to sound corny] if there is gonna be an affair between us. :/

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posted May 02, 2014 04:16 AM            

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His Sun at 8° Capricorn
Your Moon 4° Moon

I think it should be felt; I've singled out this aspect because I like to discover "ring leaders" and because I believe that our synastric foundations are far more simple.

It's an OK synastry, not something I'd particularly wish for love relationship.

However, I do love that opposition. The Sun/Moon aspects are about contention. It is the ultimate feel good and serene aspect (the only other aspect capable of competing is Venus/Moon). Moon feels protected. Sun feels flattered and moved.

I'd like to think that in these times when you miss your father so much (fathers are either Saturn or Sun) he'd be able to shift your line of thought somewhere more pleasant, fun and warm.

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posted May 03, 2014 07:45 AM            

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posted May 07, 2014 09:44 AM            

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