posted May 04, 2014 07:22 PM            

To start, I'm attracted to a woman for the second time in my life (the first is another story which we can safe for the future), she is interesting, fun, talkative..all the qualities that makes me curious! She makes me feel very comfortable around her, sometimes like family, other times like sisters, and quite often like lover.

We got really close physically once, under her prompting, and from then on she has pulled away from me. I think I might have pushed her away because of me giving off this energy to get her to settle down with me. I think I pushed her away and I feel like it's my fault. I wanted to take responsibility for her and I think that throws her off. But again this might all be in my imagination right? So I tried contacting her and get to know what she thinks but she won't pick up the phone and answers my messages with a distance.. And I feel bad that I might have screwed up a possible great relationship (might it be love, or friendship, or even just acquaintance..I like her to be in my life)

Okay, so here comes the question:

What will happen between me and her? Is this the end for us in terms of our interaction? Is it time to let go?

If not cards, here is me and her chart:

#Edit: Thanks to KingOfCups for showing me the rope to photobucket!

Thank you anyone for your attention, I hope great times comes on your path.

posted May 07, 2014 02:35 AM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
Welcome! I'm not sure how to answer your questions about her. But this is how you upload charts:

HOW TO GET YOUR CHART
1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.
2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”
3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).
4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.
5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.
HOW TO UPLOAD YOUR CHART
1. Create a free account at www.photobucket.com .
2. Select “Upload Now” which will bring up “Select Photos and Videos.”
3. Navigate to your desktop and select.
4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”
5. When you hover the mouse pointer over the chart, you will see that a box appears with a few options. If you need to edit out your name or anything else you don’t feel comfortable sharing on the boards, “edit” is in the top band of options. Select “edit” which opens your chart and provides editing options. Go to the tab “Decorate,” and you will see a number of icons, one of which is an eraser. Erase what you need to, and click “Replace original.”
6. Saving should take you to a new screen where you can see your chart and to the right, a bank of options to “Share this photo.” Click on the IMG code, which will flash and let you know that you’ve copied the link.
7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.
8. Don’t move or delete your chart from Photobucket, because the link only goes to where the chart was saved!

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@KingOfCups

Thank you for helping with getting familiar with Charts! So below are the charts:

A) Mine
B) Partners
C) Synastry: Me Inner/ Her Outer
D) Synastry: Her Inner/ Me Outer

A)

[IMG]http://i1262.photobucket.com/albums/ii608/Phoebe_Mok _Hsin_Yen/5faca167-782b-4814-aa2c-c432aae60be5_zpsa201b888.gif[/IMG]

B)

[IMG]http://i1262.photobucket.com/albums/ii608/Phoebe_Mok _Hsin_Yen/0a883294-9152-4f87-beb1-05a048e54cf5_zpsbbc1d0a9.gif[/IMG]

C)

[IMG]http://i1262.photobucket.com/albums/ii608/Phoebe_Mok _Hsin_Yen/c6325f2e-16a5-4587-85d1-091e5983cb15_zps6c9c41e4.gif[/IMG]

D)

[IMG]http://i1262.photobucket.com/albums/ii608/Phoebe_Mok _Hsin_Yen/cbf68db9-e8df-48bd-a423-8a13f55a77ae_zps28e3d043.gif[/IMG]

posted May 07, 2014 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
just my opinion, but the synastry isn't very favorable for romance and a long-term partnership. you do have a nice sun-moon connection, but the house positions and angles don't support romance/marriage. your sun hits her 7th house of partnership so that is likely the reason there is a connection there on your end; and she might like some traits about you as well. but it isn't a strong synastry chart overall.

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Thanks for answering! This draws me to another question,

When hitting the 7th house of partnership, is it usually the planet person that feels it or the house person?

posted May 07, 2014 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by phsinyen:
Thanks for answering! This draws me to another question,

When hitting the 7th house of partnership, is it usually the planet person that feels it or the house person?

Initially I didn't really feel anything. It was her that made the move and I suddenly liked her.

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posted May 08, 2014 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!

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posted May 08, 2014 02:18 AM            

I was romantically involved with someone and he had a lot of planets in my first house, but I don't feel that much attraction to him. While with him I have a lot of planets in his 9th house, and he's always asking me to come travel with him. It's pretty interesting. Sometimes I don't know if he likes me because I'm well traveled or because he genuinely likes me as a person :/

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Originally posted by starmoon:
in most instances the house person; the 1st house is often an exception

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posted May 08, 2014 08:29 AM            

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Originally posted by phsinyen:
Ohh that might explains somethings.

I was romantically involved with someone and he had a lot of planets in my first house, but I don't feel that much attraction to him. While with him I have a lot of planets in his 9th house, and he's always asking me to come travel with him. It's pretty interesting. Sometimes I don't know if he likes me because I'm well traveled or because he genuinely likes me as a person :/

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posted May 10, 2014 11:40 PM            

Still thinks about the girl all the time though, I've told her I just want to be friends now and I truly value our friendship, now she's ignoring me...asked a fortune teller the other day and she says she has feelings for me.

Boy can life get EVEN MORE confusing right now? @.@

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Originally posted by starmoon:
probably both! :-)

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