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Topic: Need a reading for a friendship of mine (preferably someone experienced)
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littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 04:48 PM
  
This is about the friendship between a friend and I. There is no romance here or hope of romance just wondering how our friendship will evolve from here on out, if I need to end our friendship or if it's worth salvaging. Her initials are MZ. Depending on how the reader would like to work I can give more detail about the situation. I would offer an exchange but in all honesty I'm a bit bogged down with school and it will take me some time to get back you (whoever reads for me). Thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted May 05, 2014 04:54 PM
Hi littlecloud--If you want, I can give a reading.....I've given readings around lately....you can read some and see if that's the kind of reading style you'd want...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/011384.html Blessings! IP: Logged |
crys
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posted May 05, 2014 04:58 PM
Hi,If you want please post a horary chart regarding your question. All the best! IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by crys:
Hi,If you want please post a horary chart regarding your question. All the best!
edit: Asked what is going with MZ and I right now? Why the silence? 
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littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Hi littlecloud--If you want, I can give a reading.....I've given readings around lately....you can read some and see if that's the kind of reading style you'd want...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/011384.html Blessings!
Ok you're on. I prefer a tarot reading, one with detail, a Celtic Cross perhaps, up ultimately up to you and what you feel will allow you to read better. Is there any other detail you would like to know? IP: Logged |
crys
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posted May 05, 2014 06:36 PM
Hi,You are venus
Friend is sun Indeed at this moment there is no major aspect between the 2 of you.
You are in the 6th house of daily routine, work.
Sun is in your 7th house, this friend has something to do with contacts and partnership like business partners or something?
She is in her 9th house, is she thinking about taking a long trip or needs to conect to her spiritual side?
You are in her 12th house, so you are like somehow hidden...
Venus in aries in in exile as i said you are in her 12th house, she is keeping you in the shadow.
Sun in taurus is peregrine, in an earth sign.
Sun likes venus but now has to resolve the problems with her own person.
AS i can see is not about you is about her she has to find herself. Hope that helped.
All the best!  IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted May 05, 2014 09:18 PM
Little,Just pulled cards, writing interpretation, will post it in a few! ____________________________________ IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted May 05, 2014 10:30 PM
Hi Little,
First I want to say that there is definitely a sense of familiarity, friendship and affection that is present in the friendship—goodwill in a sense. I almost want to ask—was there an instant connection, or a sense of real sisterhood there? The purity of the friendship and that energy is definitely present. Still, there is an element of restriction also, could be internal or external—someone is holding something back. Was something “taken” in a literal or symbolic sense? The King of Pents showed up—not sure if this is a person, but whoever they are, they are VERY strong. Again, there’s that sense of something being restricted—stopped, or not accepted is there. I feel a push, pull. I feel the King represents dominance in the friendship—or the presence of an outsider with input. Someone feels a need for self protection.In terms of the development of the friendship—absolutely there is potential!! I feel from the cards gathered that this is very much a creative, talkative and adventurous friendship, that spirit can continue if you would like it to. New ideas, adventures, opportunities and experiences. However, Little, I feel like you think MZ is a bit too much. This is what I got in the reading intuitively, as if you feel you have to either compete with MZ, or MZ is very confident and sometimes just charges at situations and things. And maybe you are thinking: “Umm…you’re cool, but is this what I signed up for?” In fact, do you feel that you have to be responsible or carry MZ? Or are you worried that MZ may try to overwhelm you with her personality? (or actions?)
The advice I get for you, in terms of the energy needed to continue on in the friendship is one of caution, you may feel defensive, there may even be words that go on (nothing major, but little spats here and there) but generally, there is a loyalty there so those situations and that cautious feeling can or will be replaced with patience, loyalty and rationality. As a final card of the energy present in the situation, the 7 of pentacles arrives—this means you are taking stock of the progress (or energy) invested so far in the relationship, take some times to stand back and assess the value of the time spent together. Additionally, I feel this means, you will view the friendship in a new light aided with the mental shrewdness of the Page of Swords. Do you have any other questions or need anything else clarified? Hope this resonates for you! IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 10:58 PM
The story is this, she is getting married in about 2 weeks and is a close friend of 10 years. Unfortunately she didn't ask me to be her maid of honor which I didn't realize upset me to the extent that it did until recently. I texted her telling her how I felt and I've not received a response, not even an acknowledgment of reading the message (it's iphone so I see it was delivered.) I'm not asking her or expecting her to change her arrangements at all, I just wanted her to know how I felt. I've always been a good friend to her, why she is acting like this I don't know. So yes there definitely is a familiarity and closeness here. The one thing I love about her is that despite our differences we never try to change each other and do our best to accept one another for who we are. The King may represent her husband to be although I'm not sure why...I don't have any issues with him. If anything I was the only one that has always been supportive of her relationship. And yes she can be a bit much at times. For example she was really excited about something and seemed to expect the same excitement from me when it had nothing to do with me. Other times she overwhelms the conversation with things she wants to say and I often feel like it was a one-way conversation. She's not always the best listener and her different up-bringing makes it harder for her to understand my troubles. It's funny that the 7 of pents and page of swords showed up as I am literally waiting for a response. It has been almost a week now. It just makes me feel disrespected and unappreciated. At this point I wonder if there is anything left to salvage. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 05, 2014 11:02 PM
l I don't see any point in this friendship for you. however with that being said I see you sticking it out possibly do to guilt..... I think this person is going to try to keep you and you will stayIP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
l I don't see any point in this friendship for you. however with that being said I see you sticking it out possibly do to guilt..... I think this person is going to try to keep you and you will stay
I can totally see that happening. Thank you cherful. I appreciate it. A part of me no longer wants to go to her wedding but I do feel guilty at the thought of not going. But I don't feel like it will be before...her actions, or lack thereof cut deep and a part of me is already gone. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2014 11:27 PM
Where do I go from here? Do I send another text? I have no idea...IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 12:17 AM
no don't send anymore messages. I would not want to go either.however I do think that you should go to the wedding and slowly let relationship die. if you don't go I see nothing but fire so I'm guessing she'll take it all out on you and say nothing but bad and nasty things..... and it's not worth the fight its not worth defending yourself you're going to lose a lot of energy over it. ... it'll be a graceful exit out of this relationship. personally I see that the best way to go IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted May 06, 2014 12:18 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
l I don't see any point in this friendship for you. however with that being said I see you sticking it out possibly do to guilt..... I think this person is going to try to keep you and you will stay
That's the 10 of Wands!!! I was thinking Little would have to "carry" her in some way....guilt..... IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 12:26 AM
Lotus, I did see the reading post on there. I was wondering if you can tell me anything since the update of this new position happenedTY! IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted May 06, 2014 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Lotus, I did see the reading post on there. I was wondering if you can tell me anything since the update of this new position happenedTY!
Hi Cherful.....sure I can....did you want me to post in the thread I created, or contact you through email? let me know.... IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 12:36 AM
you know what little I don't want to sound like a ***** but your friend is being a ***** .... and a fake one at thatI just read your long poSt. I didn't see that when I originally Posted my answer. but to offer you some insight on why your friends being a ***** , here goes: she feels better than you now, now that she's getting married..... it's almost as if she feels she Cinderella and you're her servants cleaning up after her on ur hands on and knees. you're not married right cuz I get a sense that she loves being up on you she loves having this new life, and now by having a husband and being married she thinks she's better than you. I feel that you two have struggled in many things together which is why you have that camaraderie...... but now she's having a whole shift in life. God I get a SEnse like you're almost the dirty rag in this but what she's feeling is a fleeting moment, she won't have this ***** stance for much longer..... but for once in your friendship she feels that she upped you, got better and she is better than you I seriously hope I'm wrong!! IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 12:43 AM
TY!you can post it on the thread quote:
Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Hi Cherful.....sure I can....did you want me to post in the thread I created, or contact you through email? let me know....
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littlecloud
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posted May 06, 2014 12:50 AM
Is that your opinion or intuition/psychic ability? If it's the latter I'm not surprised to be honest. She has this attitude about a lot of people I think although she's never said it in quite those words before, but it has been a gut feeling in certain instances that she feels that way. A part of it may be just her being defensive about things which I understand but when it's aimed at me who has always been supportive, it's become rather exhausting. But there was a time when I showed her a picture of an ex and she was like, "wow he's hot, like really hot" and the look she gave me...she obviously was surprised that I got him. Another time when I asked her what she thought a guys attractiveness was in comparison to mine and she said equal. He was not good looking at all. So yea, the actions speak for themselves. Thinking about it makes me angry, then sad. The sucky part is that I've actually become good friends with her brother and I fear that as a result that relationship will suffer, in which case I can see me sticking around out of guilt or duty. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 12:54 AM
no its definitely not my opinion because I don't know her and l wouldn't know these things are true..... that's what my intuition is telling me
QUOTE]Originally posted by littlecloud:
Is that your opinion or intuition/psychic ability?
If it's the latter I'm not surprised to be honest. She has this attitude about a lot of people I think although she's never said it in quite those words before, but it has been a gut feeling in certain instances that she feels that way. A part of it may be just her being defensive about things which I understand but when it's aimed at me who has always been supportive, it's become rather exhausting. But there was a time when I showed her a picture of an ex and she was like, "wow he's hot, like really hot" and the look she gave me...she obviously was surprised that I got him. Another time when I asked her what she thought a guys attractiveness was in comparison to mine and she said equal. He was not good looking at all. So yea, the actions speak for themselves. Thinking about it makes me angry, then sad. The sucky part is that I've actually become good friends with her brother and I fear that as a result that relationship will suffer, in which case I can see me sticking around out of guilt or duty. [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 06, 2014 01:35 AM
Thank you for your insight cherful, I really appreciate it. You know what the weird thing is? I would constantly have dreams of her being miserable in the end. Something would go wrong with her marriage or wedding in my dreams and she would always end up being miserable. These dreams confuse me (sometimes my dreams come to pass) because her relationship is so hollywood perfect. One of those few couples where everything just clicks and they're in total sync and truly happy with one another with few to no conflicts. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted May 06, 2014 02:12 AM
I get the message that the grass isn't always greener on the other sideShe's going to be in for a rude awakening and I think that's when she's going to pull you in
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Thank you for your insight cherful, I really appreciate it. You know what the weird thing is? I would constantly have dreams of her being miserable in the end. Something would go wrong with her marriage or wedding in my dreams and she would always end up being miserable. These dreams confuse me (sometimes my dreams come to pass) because her relationship is so hollywood perfect. One of those few couples where everything just clicks and they're in total sync and truly happy with one another with few to no conflicts.
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littlecloud
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posted May 06, 2014 02:35 AM
I will take this as a warning and try not to pulled in then. There's a limit as to how much I can handle and how far I will go for someone. I tend to give a lot of myself and have had to recognize this and recognize when it's too much and detrimental to my well-being. For me her life is perfect for her. I don't want it. It's nice that she's found someone to be happy with but that type of relationship is not what works for me. So yes, I'm envious that her life seems to working out well at the moment but in no way am I jealous. I have my own path. IP: Logged |
crys
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posted May 06, 2014 08:11 AM
Hi what I said was right? A little feed-backIP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 07, 2014 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by crys:
Hi what I said was right? A little feed-back
In all honesty you didn't give me too much to work with. Maybe it was my fault and I phrased the question wrong but I do know that horary can give you quite a bit of information. What you said just reflected the stuff that was currently going on. The planets not making an aspect to begin with is on par with the silence. The 9th house stuff you mentioned I believe is her getting married. She's not finding herself, just focused on what she wants which is the higher institution of marriage. She's not a business partner, just a friend of 10 years. IP: Logged |
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