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From: ballwin, mo 63021
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posted May 06, 2014 06:14 PM            

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I have been seeing a Pisces since last July. We did break up once because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but connected again last Dec. and became exclusive a couple months ago. He tells me he loves me every once in a while, has mentioned living together and talks about our future but I just can't shake the feeling that he is still pining after his ex. They broke up 5 years ago but are still friends and I have even met her. She has a boyfriend and I know her and my bf would never work out, he even said that but I think he still thinks about her a lot. She is absolutely beautiful and he only has nice things to say about her. Everything with us is great, we get along, have a blast together, have met all our families and everyone says we are great together, including his ex. She says I am the best thing for him. But our sex life isn't the best, he seems really closed off sexually, doesn't passionately kiss me unless I ask and we only have sex about once a week. He is loving, caring and very affectionate any other time but doesn't really make love to me, more like just has sex with me if that makes sense. He hasn't had a gf in 5 years, was really scared to get involved with me and he says I am breaking down his walls but the sex thing bothers me. It isn't passionate at all. Makes me wonder if it is because he still thinks of his ex. Can anyone shed some light on this for me? I am a Sag and he is a Pisces.

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posted May 06, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted May 06, 2014 06:57 PM            

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Maybe the is just the way he is...you are a fire sign..passionate..he is a Pisces..they are not known to be overly sexual unless there is lots of fire in his chart.

Post his chart and it will help

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From: ballwin, mo 63021
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posted May 06, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Not sure what his chart is or how to get it. He was born March 17th, 1980

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posted May 06, 2014 07:32 PM            

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Oh well.. Pisces guys can be a bit of a pain! I broke up with one a few days ago and I am leo.. Of course knowing his ascendant, venus and mars signs or even his whole chart would help a lot. But from your explanations, he seems like a typical Pisces guy.. They always stick to their past love lives and think about their exes (my ex was also like that) and they are not soo passionate (of course I am judging just from his Sun sign). They can be quite affectionate and lovey-dovey but be careful. They are fishy and from my observations; they are not direct people. You have to be able to read his mind and sense what he's thinking to be able to understand him better. Otherwise he won't directly tell you if something's wrong etc. Same with the sex life.. They are very spiritual and sensual people.

I read lots of stuff about Pisces guys and they were mostly negative and my ex was also in this category unfortunately.. He hid some stuff from me, he was quite fishy in that sense, he just 'swam away' when he thought that the relationship wouldn't go on and he did this without telling me. So that's why I am telling you to get to know him better, try to connect to him in a spiritual level, otherwise you will get disappointed. Don't try to force him as forcing him will even stress him out more.. Try to give him his space, they love their spaces and if he really cares for you regardless of the ex-gf issue, he will definitely come back..

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posted May 06, 2014 07:45 PM            

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Hey,

It seems that there will be progression in your relationship, another invitation to live together etc but his Ex will still be in the picture as well...

It's not that I can see something happening between him and his ex (not in the current spread) but you need to know that if you continue your relationship with him she'll still be in the background...

Edit: I just reread your question - sorry nothing came up with regards to sex or an explanation to that..

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From: ballwin, mo 63021
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posted May 07, 2014 10:43 AM            

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Thanks for your replies. Hmmmm.... I am not sure what to do. He says he loves me, talks about moving away out of state in the future and me coming with him, talks of moving in my place when his lease is up. He says he has never got along with someone this well before and as a Pisces, has never disappeared on me and wants to be together all the time. But.... I still wonder if I will ever compare to his ex. I don't think she would ever be with him again. I think she is over him, still cares for him but that is as far as it goes. But I still get this feeling he would go back with her if he could. The next time he brings up moving in together maybe I will just ask him straight up if I am number one in his eyes. Meaning that he WANTS to be with me and doesn't have the hope of getting back together with her. I just can't believe after 5 years he isn't over her. He says he woke up one morning and realized he was over her but I am not sure I believe that. I guess only time will tell and that I should get to know him better before we live together. I just hope I am that girl that helped him get over her. The one he wants to be with. I am the first girl he commited to in 5 years so that has to mean something, right?

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From: ballwin, mo 63021
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posted May 07, 2014 10:59 AM            

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Oh and how do I get his chart and how do I even understand it? LOL I am into astrology and believe in it but have no idea about charts. Thanks

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