posted May 12, 2014 05:10 PM            

Whereas you're right about Libras and Aquarians technically getting along, that is too generalized an approach. Even though they are both Air signs, her Sun is at the end of Libra, and yours is at the beginning of Aquarius, which makes them Square each other (a hard aspect) instead of Trine (a harmonious one). Sun Square Sun means that your egos clash. You don't really like each other's personalities, often seeing the other's way as the wrong way.

The tighter aspect here is Her Neptune Square Your Sun. This is a major reason why she dislikes you. At first, she may have thought that you were on her side, there to help promote her personality, to let her be her own person, to understand her. What she found out later on was that the exact opposite was true. Instead of promoting her personality, she feels as though you actually restrict it. You don't let her express herself the way she wants to express herself. I'm not saying that the way she expresses herself is exactly the right way. Nevertheless, she feels as though it is, and you are adamant that yours is the better path for her. This feeling of restriction causes her to lash out.

Your Saturn is on Her IC, which again makes her feel as though you aren't letting her be herself.

Not to mention her own Pluto/Mars Conjunction is Square her Sun, which probably gives her intense anger issues, especially if she feels as though her self-expression or creativity is being hindered.

Your Mars is Quincunx Her Moon, so you may be hard on her emotionally.

Basically, she felt early on that you were someone she could trust, someone who would understand her. After a while, however, she started feeling as though you were restricting her self-expression and felt betrayed. You do seem to have a hard time understanding her from an emotional standpoint. Although she does have a bit of a temper and can hurt your emotions quite a bit, you may actually benefit from getting to know her better on an emotional level, since Your NN is on Her Moon. Try and keep an open mind, and be patient with her. Try to act as though you don't disapprove of what she's doing. Gain her trust, try to understand her viewpoints, show her you understand her, and then work from there to get rid of her habits. She doesn't trust you right now, so if you try to make her change right now, she'll feel as though you're just nagging her and are disapproving her and just get upset. You'll need to earn her trust before you can help her.

Hope this helps

Also, you probably shouldn't bump the thread every 20 mins.