posted May 13, 2014 12:29 PM            

I've been working on a creative project since last spring which is very important to me.
2 really good friends of mine were very supportive at first, kept telling me that I am talented in doing this, encouraged me, etc. but since a while...no, since I started my project they grew uneasy, complaining that I have no time for them whenever I reject to meet them, remind me precociously that I mustn't end up being stucked "in my own world", etc.
This stresses me. Actually I talk to them at least once a day and no, we don't meet less since I started the project. I suspect them to be envious since they either don't know what to do with their lives or they haven't started yet, resp. are not successfull in what they do. They also want to do a creative project, they want to become artists.
I must confess that I am not a very sociable person and that my head is always up in the clouds...
Sure, I don't need to give a f about what they say but they are close friends and it's not a nice thing to accuse friends to be jealous and I think that they are maybe right? And this stresses me to an extent that I almost can't enjoy my creative project anymore.

Could anyone pls. give me a reading on this? I could exchange with Tarot (but I am not doing well when it comes to interpretations), birth Chart/synastry interpretation and past life readings.

posted May 16, 2014 02:08 AM            

But this time I've asked that someone pulls some cards re. my very first post in this thread. I have some tensions with 2 of my friends and would love to hear another point of view.

posted May 16, 2014 02:31 AM            

if you wouldn't mind giving me one on anything significant that might be coming up for me or any changes that might be coming up for me?

if that's a general then if you wouldn't mind seeing what's coming out for me in terms of romance maybe when are with you Exedra

posted May 16, 2014 02:49 AM            

okay I feel that they want you to be blocked. I don't think they're out right jealous I think subconsciously they don't want you to succeed before they do or they don't want you to have greater attention then they do.... but this is coming more strongly from one of them and not the other. the positiveness that they have given you is correct that is how they feel... I don't think they believed that you would be more of a success before they had gotten to that point it's almost as if they expected you to be a few steps behind them always. therefore they are having a hard time adjusting.... I have a feeling this is how its always been in your guyses dynamics.

you should do nothing absolutely nothing. you cannot explain or stand up for your viewpoint any longer it's exhausting.

in time they will realize how unfair and petty they were.... and I do feel they will feel very badly about it, it will as almost hurt themselves (we'll 1 of them)... and I'm feeling most likely at least one of them will tell you that it was their own insecurities that got the better of them, like the devil is acting out. the other person seems to be more friends with this other person than you which is why I feel they are aligned with them and not aligned with you. the perpetrator of it all is one its going to feel the worst.... and I believe this perpetrator is the one that you're close to that correct?

you know you're coming into your own shoes and you've got the spotlight on you its raw talent and you're going to go places and garner attention and great feedback verses them receiving any of this.

the part that hurts is that they didn't believe this would ever happened to you. they are shocked that it is happening to you and in panic mode questioning their own skills. out of maturity they are recognizing the emotional strength that it is causing you but they do not believe that your break away from them.... but I really feel during this time you have to work your project is not going to turn out as good as it off to. and I cannot stress that enough that you need to break from them during this time. if you don't I see this going down another way. and that is they won't apologize they won't believe what they did was wrong or that they tried to take you away from your stuff. Theyll pull you back in. and you will be working at their level...aka, none is succeeding. so therefore they can catch up and possibly surpass you. this would make them so happy and On a high. your relationship with them will be great but it's a false relationship because as long as you are not above them, everything will be fine but if you should ever surpass them again it's going to start the same ******** over and eventually they won't be able to take it and they'll be the ones to walk away. They'll look for conflict from you so there's no guilt when they do walk away.

posted May 16, 2014 03:56 AM            

You did not hurt me, actually you've helped me a lot. Thank you again

posted May 16, 2014 04:13 AM            

It's the shift in dynamics which have revved up the tensions. 1 od them was always on top, always the 'leader' of the gang with regards to money/opportunities/choice. She is not anymore, and that's causing her some distress (I'm assuming the person is female).

As cherful said, it's not full on jealousy at all. Just sadness and she's contemplating what on earth she's doing in life and weather it's correct and if she'll get anywhere doing what she does. I think this is a process most people go through.

Tension will be there- but you need to move past it. Best if you do not hold on to it and remind yourself that they are your best friends, but they are human too. Keep in touch with them- but know how much you can take of the tension- you don't want it leaching into your concentration and determination because if you overthink it it will have that effect.

I want to tell you to plug on. I still see them being around you, but not as close as before for the time being. Amends will be made as I see you on a trip (shopping) with them- almost reminds me of how my close friends would be with me.They are nice people- don't forget that. This friendship is precious, but should not be treated as priority at the moment.

posted May 16, 2014 05:12 AM            

It's less harsh. (I use words differently to most- so I do hope you understand where this is coming from).

posted May 16, 2014 06:50 AM            

Ironically all of my closest friends want to become artists and they are anything but successful in trying so. Some kind members have already analyzed their charts (thank you again!) but more point of views won't hurt AND/BUT do you guys see creative talents in their charts?

Of course I would exchange (tarot, astro, past life reading)

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