posted May 19, 2014 12:06 PM            

Happy Monday! I have a date this evening with a guy from an online dating app I use (Tinder). We've been communicating via text and phone calls since last week.

So! What is he like? Will it go well? What are his intentions in the long run? Anything that the cards show!

I can exchange. I work for 3 more hours and when I get home I will pull cards so please leave your question

posted May 19, 2014 03:39 PM            

How exciting for you to meet someone new!!

posted May 19, 2014 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I never heard of tinder before. But downloaded the app and now have become addicated and have dates! All within a few hours!

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Tinder is advantageous in that there has to be a mutual like for communication to begin

posted May 19, 2014 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by lotus_flower:

Hi, I can pull some cards for you!

How exciting for you to meet someone new!!

:-)

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posted May 19, 2014 04:18 PM            

Is this your first time using Tinder?

Anyway, onto the tarot! (By the way, I always ask: “What does ____ have to know about _____” and approach the card reading in this manner!)

This guy you are meeting, may have some walls up—this is not against you in any way, so if he does act a bit stand-offish at first, don’t take this personally! He is very strong, but also in a very self-protective mode right now due to a recent hurt or pain that he has just gone through. This seems to me also a defense against getting hurt again. I asked if this was recent and received the 6 of swords, so this tells me that he is definitely looking to push past his recent disappointment and move on from it completely….which is why he is on a date with you! :-)

When I asked about his long term intention, the pain he has experience is also reflected there as well. As far as the long run, he is again, holding onto himself, or may be holding back slightly. It may take a while before you feel like you are getting to the core of this person or get the complete energy surrounding this person. He has gone through a lot of pain and he may have lost some faith in himself or others and may feel as if this pain is holding him back from connecting with people.

I know this is early, but have you picked up on anything like this from him?

Long term, he is looking for love, absolutely, a real romance, and as the Ace of Cups, I am also sensing that this is also about healing as well. He really would like that, whether he expresses that directly or indirectly, I’m sure you’ll be able to pick up on that! Basically, he want’s LOVE. :-)

Taking the reading as an advice, I would say to really appear positive, encourage him and by expressing your enthusiasm—that happiness will be contagious! He definitely seems like he needs some healing and positive energy!
Regarding information on how the date will go, make sure to express things clearly and approach this is a learning experience. Give and take your experiences and share this openly. Doing this will lead to a forward progress and understanding, leaving you both feeling like the date was a success! The advice from the cards is to be open, honest and truthful about expectations or past relationships, etc.

posted May 19, 2014 04:21 PM            

I don't have a question for now, just thought I would answer your question!

posted May 19, 2014 05:05 PM            

We are meeting at a restaurant so I'm looking forward to some conversation

I feel like some of my energy was picked up, lol I am trying to move past an extremely recent hurt
But if he is too, that's totally okay

Thank you again and I will definitely post back on how it went

posted May 19, 2014 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Hey Moonstruck, just wanted to wish you luck and have a great time! Hope all goes well and that you will post how it went afterwards

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Thank you FD! I am a little nervous - he seems kinda high energy for me based on our phone conversations, but I'm willing to give him a chance in person

posted May 19, 2014 10:45 PM            

He was too much for me. He tried to kiss me, twice! The first time was at a stop light and by having me look in a particular direction then when I didn't see what he was trying to point out, I turned back around and he tried to grab my face

I pushed him off me

Then when he walked me to my car he tried to kiss me again and he was so pouty that I wouldn't.. Exclaiming "you're not going to kiss me?!" And I said "no!" Ugh whoa

posted May 19, 2014 11:47 PM            

:-(

How forward!! The cards showed he was a bit too emotional too....seemed a little broken to me.

Welp, when I said he was looking for love, I guess he really was looking for LOVE!

Guess he really was trying to move on....but didn't think it meant moving in literally too quick!

Did you sense otherwise that he had any problems or issues?

posted May 20, 2014 05:35 AM            

1- holding hands
2- a white swan ballerina (i.e. a lone woman)
3- a split heart

posted May 20, 2014 05:54 AM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
I hope you don't mind me butting in. I saw this question yesterday when you asked but didn't have my cards with me so I decided against posting. When thinking of it I saw 3 images,

1- holding hands
2- a white swan ballerina (i.e. a lone woman)
3- a split heart

I was wondering if you could make sense of the images based on the date last night (especially the ballerina). I'm still learning how to use my clairvoyance, so any input to piece together the puzzle would be amazing!

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Mincey- hello

I think the ballerina is interesting. I wondering if she is symbolic for me? I've loved swan lake since I was a child. I draw some of my fashion inspiration from ballerinas - soft colors, wearing flats etc.
But I love that this came in because I have loved ballerinas since as long as I could remember
I am also trying to navigate through this dating world gracefully, with dignity and to keep in control

There is a man I'm in love with and who I have been in love with probably since the first time I laid eyes on him. The split heart could also be from the situation with him. We still communicate but things went awry more than once now and sometimes it feels irrevocable. My heart has been breaking because he is who I want. The more I try, the worse things seem sometimes. So I've really had to release him and the situation between us to the universe not once, but multiple times because I know what's meant to be will be. I am not giving up. I still feel like it's not over between he and I. But my heart does ache a lot and I break down randomly when I think about how I wish things would stabilize.

posted May 20, 2014 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
That is interesting, so rather than actually looking into the date, I seemed to have seen your mental state before the date. The images I see don't come with explanations, so thank you for clarifying them.

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posted May 20, 2014 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
yeah. it's okay. I guess we have to take the bad with the good! lol

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Yup... that's part of the drill! LOL
Now I'm a bit worried about my date on Thursday. We do go into these things with optimism but online communication really is so difficult and even deceiving some times.

posted May 20, 2014 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yup... that's part of the drill! LOL
Now I'm a bit worried about my date on Thursday. We do go into these things with optimism but online communication really is so difficult and even deceiving some times.

I've also hear the lots of guys use Tinder for hook ups. Be careful!

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Yes the hook ups stereotype is there for a reason! I would say that most of the guys I chat to will tell you if you ask them straight out. I almost always ask, unless they ask me first.

posted May 21, 2014 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:

Yes the hook ups stereotype is there for a reason! I would say that most of the guys I chat to will tell you if you ask them straight out. I almost always ask, unless they ask me first.

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Ok Good!
We have tinder here now. but I live in a smallllll place.

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I just wish I could run into a nice, stable, kind guy like at the grocery or something LOL

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He just sounded like a jerk. I know right! It's the holy freaking grail! lol.

I have blind date on Thursday and now I'm worried.

posted May 21, 2014 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Really? Well let me know how it goes! I am sure it will be fine

Do you know his placements?

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Aqua sun, Merc, Venus, Leo moon, Pisces Mars. My Venus squares his everything. (Well, I exaggerate. it squares the first 4 and his Venus squares my Mars) He might well get on my nerves pretty quickly... Don't know. I like him on email/text though. But as you know... that means nothing! I hope even if it goes nowhere, we at least have a nice date.