posted May 30, 2014 07:18 PM            

This past month he has started flirting with me. It is very strange. He will stare in my eyes and it feels like he is attempting to take all of me in. Scary! I have told him before about his flirting but yesterday, I had a conversation with him and told him that he has to stop or we will no longer be able to communicate. This was not only because it is inappropriate professionally and disrespectful to my relationship, but also because I started feeling myself flattered and blushing.

Needless to say, I feel like crap. Mainly because there was a small part of me that enjoyed him flirting with me. I don't necessarily want a reading. If someone would like to provide one, great! LOL. But I just needed to vent and get this off my chest, because it has been weighing me down.

We should have NO connection. He is a Cap with Sag in Venus and Aries in Mars. I am a Scorpio with Sag in Venus and Virgo in Mars.

posted May 30, 2014 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
If you don't mind me saying so I think sometimes we connect with people in ways we never expect. Even if they aren't compatible to us. You haven't dont anything wrong so you shouldn't feel that way. It's always nice when someone makes us feel attractive or compliments us, whether we are single or not. But you haven't reciprocated and you told him how you felt about his advances. I think you did the right thing with that. If it continues and you don't feel comfortable with it then you should get yourself away from him.

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I think multiple things are going on. My boyfriend and I have both been under a tremendous amount of financial stress and we have not seen each other as much. This guy is showing me the attention I have not really received from my boyfriend.

posted May 30, 2014 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Id love 2 see a synastry or composite

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posted May 30, 2014 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
How can I do that????

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posted May 30, 2014 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by blessed39:
[b] How can I do that????

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Im all over it. Brb.

posted May 30, 2014 08:24 PM            

But remember this is about ego also....of course being a guy, he knows what he is doing and how to run game!!! He's already gotten into your head! He knows what he's doing. LOL. Got you on a message board talking about the flesh being weak!

I pulled some cards about it....."What does blessed need to know or understand about ___"

Temperance = Balance/moderation is needed to restore tranquility or "calm" yourself, or the situation--or his advances.

10 of Swords= I think this is advice to, if you want, not put anymore energy into it, end it, leave it alone, etc....or in a blunt way let this guy know....this may represent him when he find out--in other words--let him know what's up! LOL.

posted May 30, 2014 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
I think multiple things are going on. My boyfriend and I have both been under a tremendous amount of financial stress and we have not seen each other as much. This guy is showing me the attention I have not really received from my boyfriend.

Yes! I definitely need to make sure to not put myself in any sketchy situations with this young man. I absolutely need to tread lightly…. Smh.

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I would take this situation as - this guy is showing you what you are missing with your boyfriend... and therefore whatever you feel that is missing currently in your relationship this is what you should work on...

Since what you're really missing is your boyfriend perhaps look for ways to do something with your boyfriend, a romantic date, something special - nothing expensive, just a bottle of wine and the beach or something - and get intimate with him... I think that would make both of you feel much better especially as it hasn't been easy lately...

posted May 30, 2014 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I would take this situation as - this guy is showing you what you are missing with your boyfriend... and therefore whatever you feel that is missing currently in your relationship this is what you should work on...

Since what you're really missing is your boyfriend perhaps look for ways to do something with your boyfriend, a romantic date, something special - nothing expensive, just a bottle of wine and the beach or something - and get intimate with him... I think that would make both of you feel much better especially as it hasn't been easy lately...

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posted May 30, 2014 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Yea…. We need to rekindle our spark… Get some of the passion back. It feels like that is what we are missing a bit. Passion.

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Maybe you should even have a role play with your boyfriend - meet somewhere and pretend to be strangers... or is that too weird? Maybe.. lol

I think every relationship experiences that and it's not like if you have a boyfriend other men won't find you attractive - but as long as you understand that what you have with your boyfriend is so much deeper than whatever this new person will bring I think you'll be fine..

posted May 30, 2014 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Id love 2 see a synastry or composite

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Enabler. 😏
I will not be a party to this.

posted May 30, 2014 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Enabler. 😏
I will not be a party to this.

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posted May 30, 2014 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Enabler. 😏
I will not be a party to this.

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