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Twirl
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posted June 17, 2014 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking for 1 exchange. Preferably someone who connects with me well.

My question: What to think if this/what are his intentions?

Thank you

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cherful24
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posted June 17, 2014 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you want to exchange?

If so I wanted to know about when or with you..what I can expect with my next romantic partner

quote:
Originally posted by Twirl:
Looking for 1 exchange. Preferably someone who connects with me well.

My question: What to think if this/what are his intentions?

Thank you


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Twirl
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posted June 17, 2014 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea, let's do.
I will look into it.
No 'whens'. I'll just ask what I can tell you about this.

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cherful24
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posted June 17, 2014 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well there is a couple of things. Number one I don’t see anything really happing. I say that because I he will sense you are too guarded and u will not let it down a bit….so he will move away from you

….with that said, it’s a good thing….

I don’t know who he is to u, an ex or someone u work with, but he’s like the player type. I do think u attracted him…like personality, friendly, etc…and he’s fishing around…..but I see he’ll flirt with other women and actually be with other girls.
So I cant say that he’ll he wants to date you…get to you know u, etc.

Im not a fan of his energy. I don’t think he has your best interest in mind. He seems to be all about himself. He seems to be a wanderer…I am not feeling stable energy

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Twirl
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posted June 17, 2014 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I asked what I can tell you about your next romantic partner. It looks bright, cheerful and passionate. But I'm not sure this next one will be very serious. More of a very physical/sensual connection. He would be focussed on himself more and I'm not sure he will be completely single and/or there's another also wanting his attention, like a jealoous ex.

If you are looking at 'past lovers' and hoping someone (one of 3?) is coming back, just let those thoughts go. It's not for you.

Are you actually wanting/wishing for children - the so-called family life?
If so, I think you will be able to in future (and be a 'soccer mum' if you wish...) But that feels 'not yet'. So just keep on dating and doing the self-work needed that you need to feel good & secure about yourself.

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Twirl
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posted June 17, 2014 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
Well there is a couple of things. Number one I don’t see anything really happing. I say that because I he will sense you are too guarded and u will not let it down a bit….so he will move away from you

….with that said, it’s a good thing….

I don’t know who he is to u, an ex or someone u work with, but he’s like the player type. I do think u attracted him…like personality, friendly, etc…and he’s fishing around…..but I see he’ll flirt with other women and actually be with other girls.
So I cant say that he’ll he wants to date you…get to you know u, etc.

Im not a fan of his energy. I don’t think he has your best interest in mind. He seems to be all about himself. He seems to be a wanderer…I am not feeling stable energy


Haha, oh okay, I do think he likes himself quite a lot.
I'm not sure I want something to happen actually and/or not quite sure what to think of him myself, but the flirting is nice enough... Hence the questions & the 'guarded energy'. I think along the lines what you just described, but I'll just see how it goes.

Thanks!

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cherful24
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posted June 17, 2014 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
TY

It's like Im never gonna be in a serious rel, ugh!!!

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Twirl
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posted June 17, 2014 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
TY

It's like Im never gonna be in a serious rel, ugh!!!


I think there are plenty around. Sometimes it's just hard to see what steps to take to find the right partner and/or to 'look past' the pile of non-fitting ones without getting discouraged.

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