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posted August 23, 2014 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol who next ?

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posted August 23, 2014 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lidia

Obviously I mean there is a rejection and fear he is just going to want to be just freinds again which you dont feel you can handle so lets get in to his head to see I do feel that the main problem was he didn't want to move things forward because he did appreacate the "friendship" you and him had it is like he didnt want to risk it or mess with it and as a result he felt that it was best to just pretend that nothing happened and contruine with the friendship you are pretty instinctive and your fear of him wanting to go back to the friendship as well, is correct at least this is his hope but it is not set in stone mainly this meeting up for coffee is in HOPES to be about to go back but if this is not an option he is also able to go forward as well like he is wanting more It is also not you he doubts or a doubt in his feelings but his own ability to make a relaiotnship work and you have been the only real and lasting thing in his life this is why he is not wanting to mess with it He protects and blocks his feelings out of fear of losing you but if he is going to lose you because of lack of action he is going to take that chance and this break has shown him that that he needs to see his options and then go forward But this is when you need to get firm with him that is not fair for you to sette just because he has these fear and he will get that He is al lot more attentive now that he understands the situation I feel that is the only obstacle is the fact he is scared of losing you completely and that is fine if he was not blocking you from moving on to someone else he cant be selfish he needs to take the step or let you goWell it doeseven if you are not meaning for it to 05:56PM
Lidia because the truth is that you do get distracted and it does causes isses like when your heart belongs to someone and there is a hope that something might be there it is hard to deny it and I know you have been so cautious not wanting to push him because he does pull back but now that you have pulled back
Lidia he is seeing he is losing youand know is going to be going forward But I feel with this most recent seperation You got his attention much more that he is seeing that going backwards to just being freinds is not going to work anymore I do feel you should meet up with him be stright with him and put him in that all the nothingwhile I am seeing he will not respond right away because he just doesnt work that way but overall he is going to come through by the end of august and he is more aware that he needs to be there more then friends as well He wants more just getting over this hump for sureThats why you need to meet up t is hard enough to trasition without him being so resistant but the meeting will help I just feel that at this point he is reaching out to you because he knows friends are not going to work and while I am seeing that he will still try to resist things can go forward if you give him that lack of option I feel he is actually going to be moving forward as a reuslt you will have to meet with him eventually so I would not delay because his intentions are there for sure To relationship just dont take friendship as an option and it will be good for him to move forward it is silly to be acting like this

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posted August 23, 2014 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


this is rachel marries most recent reading,
she nailed some stuff
but she said meet in a few days and i was busy or he backed off or i was out of town so we still havnt met and its been two weeks, and i have managed so far to completely cut off aside from this meeting, and am doing pretty good.
I don't knowshe does get stuff but everything she predicted so far hasn't happened at least in time frame this meeting was predicted like 2 months ago or something daft and to go more positive than this.

Ok ill leave it at these for now but I'm interested to know if they are spookily similar to other pals readings.

Now honestly the reason it took so long, is becuase HIS emotions are out of control - It took me a bit to pin point his emotions, what he is giong through, and what it is that he wants. Now...based on what I am seeing.... you followed your intuition to a T Right now, you are meant to be 'teaching" him he is very much your student - He is a very stubborn student.... but, you are teaching him, that not working on his issues, means he may lose people (the person) that he loves.

Yes.... I would have encouraged you as well.... I am seeing that it will be at least a couple of days though, becuase I do see that he does want to prepare, and he also wants to give it a bit of time, so that he can show up without having SO much emotion behind him… This is tough, because he is in need of the healing teaching you can provide, and at least this is one of the times it pays off.

I do find it interesting however, as I see when you were "grieving" you seem to have let go of a lot of the past with him, which I see as being really good and a postive step for the two of you moving forwards. Now.... I am seeing him however explaining that he cannot let you go, taht he does have feelings for you, and him explaining most things he already said, but just that it comes down to fear. BUT - I am seeing it being like a "therapy session" for the two of you. Now on my end. I am not seeing the being the end. I am honestly seeing it being just the beginning. He will talk a little bit about feelings, yes... but, in all honesty you are going to get more "feelings" from his expressions, his face, eyes ect.... yes.... exactly.... and the healing began for him as well... with him being jolted. Like him thinking la di da... life is good.... lol - then jolted, because he was not doing much work on himself.... and he was just thinking everything was ok... when clearly it is and was not.

So, even though you ahve progressed farther with you healing, that is a good thing, because in a lot of ways, when you meet int he next few days, it is going to be like him reaching out for help... so, you will begin more of your teaching with him, but you will also ahve to decide if you want to be in his life and teach him for a while, withiout him guaranteeing a relationship. yes.... I agree with you.... Now.... this is difficult, as I am picking up that you and him are extremely connected, the energy is amazing... and so much does lead me to believe taht you are meant to be together... and not often do I see peole faced with a choice.... but, I am seeing that you are faced with a choice if you want to wait and healing him, or if you want to move on and let him do it on his own and come back to you later.


He is, he is just broken, and since friendships always came easy to him, he accepted that, rather than making effort. No... he wont.... If you were to move on from him and wait for him to come to you, he would still make sure he was in your life and due to the energy, hard for you to resist and seriously close that door.

Yes.... that is the difficult part right now... is that I do see him asking for time, but at the same time he doesn't "guarantee" the relationship. So, it is tough. Very tough. At first at least he does. I mean this is not going to drag on for 5 years thankfully. But, it is going to take him at least a month - 2 months before he can admit that he is ready for relatioship/talk about the relationship.... BUt the strange part is, that after this meeting, it does show up you are in a relationship on my end.... lol - which that I cannot explain what is holding him back is honestly just his fears... everything he explained, abondonment issues, fear of rejection, fear of change oh yes sorry.... Honestly, even though it is stressful, it would cause you more emotional mysery to move away at the moment.

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posted August 23, 2014 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for happyaskings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I am wondering did this guy friend zone you or were you dating before or what?

I've had readings with Rachel pretty similar to that.

She's hit or miss like I said. My most recent reading with her he was telling me that the girl this guy I like is seeing is not the one for him and that him being with her is going to bring me and him closer but he's still going to be back and forth for a few months....uhhh no. They just love telling your story like a movie. I know guys, it takes a really strong one to be a better person after a break up (I don't believe this guy is) , most of them just use it as a tool to manipulate girls. I have no doubt mine will be different if their relationship does end.

Oh! I also went on a blind date once with this guy and so I asked Rachel how it would go and she had all these amazing things to tell me saying I was a game-changer and we would end up together. My own cards kept giving me the Tower and I couldn't figure it out. Well we did go on one date and he even locked down a second date.....then I never heard from him again, he completely stood me up! Boom! I was hurt for like a whole 24 hours. Goddess Serenity was another one that went on and on about how great we were going to be. Honestly, I'm glad it didn't work out because when I think about it now this dude and I had nothing in common and there was zero chemistry....he was the worst kisser!

A few things Rachel did get right about the blind date: she predicted that it would take two times of trying to see each other before we actually got together, true. I got lost the first time because he gave me the wrong address and we rescheduled. She knew about his appearance right down to the way he dressed and that he hadn't shaved. Her timing for the date was right. There were a few other things but I'm havign trouble recalling...that was a LONG time ago

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posted August 23, 2014 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i mean I'm not going to lie it was accurate its just if its accurate to other ppl too and told to other ppl lol
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so glad to hear!!!

True.. There is a difference between a psychic and noticing trends among people's situations and providing feedback accordingly.

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posted August 23, 2014 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
So I am wondering did this guy friend zone you or were you dating before or what?

I've had readings with Rachel pretty similar to that.

She's hit or miss like I said. My most recent reading with her he was telling me that the girl this guy I like is seeing is not the one for him and that him being with her is going to bring me and him closer but he's still going to be back and forth for a few months....uhhh no. They just love telling your story like a movie. I know guys, it takes a really strong one to be a better person after a break up (I don't believe this guy is) , most of them just use it as a tool to manipulate girls. I have no doubt mine will be different if their relationship does end.

Oh! I also went on a blind date once with this guy and so I asked Rachel how it would go and she had all these amazing things to tell me saying I was a game-changer and we would end up together. My own cards kept giving me the Tower and I couldn't figure it out. Well we did go on one date and he even locked down a second date.....then I never heard from him again, he completely stood me up! Boom! I was hurt for like a whole 24 hours. Goddess Serenity was another one that went on and on about how great we were going to be. Honestly, I'm glad it didn't work out because when I think about it now this dude and I had nothing in common and there was zero chemistry....he was the worst kisser!


we have never dated we met a few months ago and he was in the middle of a nervous breakdown and messy relationship ending we sort of became friends but it was always more like he would call daily, for 7 hours and we both said we had never had conversations like that on the phone ever. He would ask if we were twin souls, discuss the special connection, ask to see me all the time talk about travelling together, intro me to all his friends, meet my friends,
it was basically like having a husband with no intimacy
so i finally told him i had feelings after months of resisting and resisting from fear. The night i did it i was shaking and panic attacks as it was my biggest fear to express and put myself up for rejection i can be really cold and closed off honestly, he asked to meet me and talk about it face to face saying it was not the right energy to text about this. So i met him and he touched my arm a lot but that was it he just blanked the topic so i messaged and said that i couldn't stay in his life right now as i needed to move forwards with my own and couldn't do that with the friendship and needed a break he was heart broken and is trying to arrange to see me and we havnt met yet.
so i guess i will know when we do as he's not a liar that i know.

we did almost meet 5 years ago he kept asking me to meet and saying i was realyl beautiful and into all the same things as him he tried for like a year
i avoided back then as i had bad vibes and back then i was right i believe.
he admitted too back then he was probably not a good time of his life and was basically a player!!!
so i guess he fancied me 5 years ago but this is a lot of heartbreak later and i guess I've aged 5 years lol! so i have no idea if he likes me or not beyond friends,
but if he thinks he will loose me he becomes OBSESSIVE. which i secretly like.

I am really posting them to see if they are identical or overly similar to other pals readings beyond normal tone of a reader!

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posted August 23, 2014 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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True.. There is a difference between a psychic and noticing trends among people's situations and providing feedback accordingly.

YES so I'm trying to establish who's doing that as i feel a few might be
and the truth is good advice would make some of those predictions come to pass at least 60 percent i guess
i feel terri delights does that 100 percent she just goes for the ignore tactic as lets face it most men come round if you ignore them
i read with her ages ago she's always same lol

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posted August 23, 2014 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for happyaskings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does Terri Delights still exist? Good grief. That woman is awful! I don't think she is psychic at all, its like she read a self help book and just ***** it out to her clients.

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posted August 23, 2014 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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YES so I'm trying to establish who's doing that as i feel a few might be
and the truth is good advice would make some of those predictions come to pass at least 60 percent i guess
i feel terri delights does that 100 percent she just goes for the ignore tactic as lets face it most men come round if you ignore them
i read with her ages ago she's always same lol

TD is absolutely terrible. I do not believe she has any psychic ability. But that is my personal opinion.

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posted August 23, 2014 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Intituitive J - Should I post the charts on a diff thread or this one?

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posted August 23, 2014 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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TD is absolutely terrible. I do not believe she has any psychic ability. But that is my personal opinion.

omg i agree totally she just tells every one to ignore men
as i guess in most cases it works
lol
i had her years ago.

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posted August 23, 2014 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
So I am wondering did this guy friend zone you or were you dating before or what?

I've had readings with Rachel pretty similar to that.

She's hit or miss like I said. My most recent reading with her he was telling me that the girl this guy I like is seeing is not the one for him and that him being with her is going to bring me and him closer but he's still going to be back and forth for a few months....uhhh no. They just love telling your story like a movie. I know guys, it takes a really strong one to be a better person after a break up (I don't believe this guy is) , most of them just use it as a tool to manipulate girls. I have no doubt mine will be different if their relationship does end.

Oh! I also went on a blind date once with this guy and so I asked Rachel how it would go and she had all these amazing things to tell me saying I was a game-changer and we would end up together. My own cards kept giving me the Tower and I couldn't figure it out. Well we did go on one date and he even locked down a second date.....then I never heard from him again, he completely stood me up! Boom! I was hurt for like a whole 24 hours. Goddess Serenity was another one that went on and on about how great we were going to be. Honestly, I'm glad it didn't work out because when I think about it now this dude and I had nothing in common and there was zero chemistry....he was the worst kisser!

A few things Rachel did get right about the blind date: she predicted that it would take two times of trying to see each other before we actually got together, true. I got lost the first time because he gave me the wrong address and we rescheduled. She knew about his appearance right down to the way he dressed and that he hadn't shaved. Her timing for the date was right. There were a few other things but I'm havign trouble recalling...that was a LONG time ago



wow interesting story!
lol I've only rly asked about soul connections should ask more simple questions so i can actually test them out rly in the short term predictions

yeah i guess at least the ones that empower have some value even if they rant psychics lol

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posted August 23, 2014 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hate to say it but my cards are more accurate for me and others than the majority of bitwine
I would like to think some are genuine even if not 100 percent accurate

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posted August 23, 2014 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Intituitive J - Should I post the charts on a diff thread or this one?


Post it in interpersonal forum!

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posted August 23, 2014 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Psyche-
My reading with Rachel was diff. Touched on a few of the same points but overall diff (which is good)

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posted August 23, 2014 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Post it in interpersonal forum!

I did. Thanks!

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posted August 23, 2014 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Psyche-
My reading with Rachel was diff. Touched on a few of the same points but overall diff (which is good)

thats good i would like to at least know they are unique even if wrong

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posted August 23, 2014 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
psyche, the reading is kinda in line with mine (w other psychics)


But, our situation is similar- met him when he went through a tough period of his life, i healed him sorta, he talked a lot to me about his stuff which he never done with many women (the type that keep his problems to himself). He often find himself upset because he felt almost involuntarily share his problems to me, he couldn't help it, somehow wanting comfort but unsure why he needed it from me, it confused him (usually I just held his hand & lean my head against his shoulder to make him relax)-

We also instinctively know how we feel at the time without saying anything (like bad day etc), often just need glances across the room/pub and we just knew. So, strong verbal & non verbal communication.
We have known each other for a year this year.

------------after this, is more like a rant/recollection of important events for me OK, so feel free to skip it lol..., I think it's cathartic... besides I dont wanna get any readings anymore so it's ok.-

At some point I think he wanted me/to become closer, but due to some stuff he didn't end up going for me, thinking I didn't see him that way? plus age gap. Anyway he found out I had feelings for him later and reacted badly- he kept underestimating it and wanted me to get over it so we can be friends...

We ended up with a huge fight/argument in a bar because he was still in this toxic relationship and i was concerned for his health - & he was concerned with mine (had bad diagnosis from hospital, he consoled me while I cried) - also hated the fact he treated me like a child (telling me to get over my infatuation etc so we can be friends again) - EVERY problems was out in the air.

He told me he's ****** up he didn't want to hurt me etc etc and he's old, I told him ******** - his ex was younger than me by a year, he said that was different. He told me, "if it makes it easier just think I see you as a sister" I got angry and said THEN WHY YOU WERE VAGUE ALL THESE TIMES? and i told him I had enough of his patronizing, and I told him that he was being a coward- because he's too afraid being alone yet cant commit so he used all these unavailable girls to appease his loneliness without having to do more. That hit him hard I guess.

Since I was shorter than him I had to stand up and 'pushed' him while saying few of these stuff- at some point he locked me back to my seat w. my back against the window, angry too (asking me to shut up for a min so he can talk). ....But honestly? SECRETLY I found that- was hot. (what a ******* mess I was LOL)

People were like WOW never seen him so fierce as he was generally a jolly, semi private and a nice guy, it was the first time they ever seen him very 'loose', even the employees commented lol as he was a regular.

Anyway we ended up arguing a bit more- to the point he suddenly looked very vulnerable and told me quietly he loves me- but that got me ANGRIER ("**** OFF!") because it was confusing (maybe he meant he loves me as a sister) then he left me alone and I went home w friends.

He told a mutual friend that I was a lovely woman (right after I left) lol

We talked about the incident months later when he wanted to meet up, he was like "Yeah the girls told me I pushed you, we were pretty angry at each other." I was like Oh, I didn't mind. He looked at me, smirking SO COCKY "I know you didn't." I can only guess he felt it was kinda something too.. I guess...

but then he introduced me to his new gf. so I cut off after that haha.

then we met up months later- he wanted to meet again, was the eager one, went as far as taking off work very early, but his gf somehow also came... we spent 5-6 hrs 3 of us together, and we can only talk about us when the gf is in the washroom. I was very encouraging in hs relationship, he was very physically affectionate with her also.

By the end of the meet up, while his gf in the grocery store, he told me he should give the relationship a serious chance. he said this is his first adult relationship ever since his divorce. she likes mountain climbing, they talk a lot also, share things and they both travel + do sports and similar age + intelligence. he likes her, though he was very somber about it...
Though he told me, "... communication is important, right? When you can communicate well, other things don't matter as much" (felt like he was talking about me for some reason but maybe I was delusional.)

Then he told me to say hi once in a while, I asked "are we not going to meet again?" he didnt reply. I extended an invitation to drink in the future, since I owe him some. He didnt reply also. I ended up sending him a -long- email clarifying our unclarified problems.. just pouring my heart out, but more like 'this is how i feel and stuff, want u to be happy hope u happy thanks, dont reply' but he replied- said hes always thought of me as a woman in its full sense of word. He's humbled by my openness, and "As you can see I am happy with [gf], she is someone sepecial for me"

Then he told me im a very interesting person with interesting perspectives, he hope to see me soon sometime, etc. I reacted a bit sadly since he replied- told him "It's kind of painful because I KNEW all these affected me deeper than it is to you- and I guess i still have a bit of pride left. I will deal with it though, I'll be fine.. I will talk to you soon."

He somehow felt concerned- between hours sent me text, then ended with 'Goodnight [me], i value you as friend, hope we can meet from time to time.' I never replied- which makes him sent me a text the next day talking about an art exhibit he saw. I replied curtly. Last interaction we had was when my country had some riot near his place because of election, just sent him txt hope he stay safe (since I was near and in the courthouse where the dispute took place), he was concerned and hoped I was fine, told me he came home early so he was fine. That was the last of our interaction.

So I think the message is clear. He made his choice I have to move on. DLD told me he will be back, but I doubt it. He made his decision.

Thanks if anyone read through this. I guess I really needed to get this off my chest. Thanks..

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posted August 23, 2014 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PSYCHE     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
psyche, the reading is kinda in line with mine (w other psychics)


But, our situation is similar- met him when he went through a tough period of his life, i healed him sorta, he talked a lot to me about his stuff which he never done with many women (the type that keep his problems to himself). He often find himself upset because he felt almost involuntarily share his problems to me, he couldn't help it, somehow wanting comfort but unsure why he needed it from me, it confused him (usually I just held his hand & lean my head against his shoulder to make him relax)-

We also instinctively know how we feel at the time without saying anything (like bad day etc), often just need glances across the room/pub and we just knew. So, strong verbal & non verbal communication.
We have known each other for a year this year.

------------after this, is more like a rant/recollection of important events for me OK, so feel free to skip it lol..., I think it's cathartic... besides I dont wanna get any readings anymore so it's ok.-

At some point I think he wanted me/to become closer, but due to some stuff he didn't end up going for me, thinking I didn't see him that way? plus age gap. Anyway he found out I had feelings for him later and reacted badly- he kept underestimating it and wanted me to get over it so we can be friends...

We ended up with a huge fight in a bar because he was still in this toxic relationship and i was concerned for his health - & he was concerned with mine (had bad diagnosis from hospital, he consoled me while I cried) - also hated the fact he treated me like a child (telling me to get over my infatuation etc so we can be friends again) - EVERY problems was out in the air.

He told me he's ****** up he didn't want to hurt me etc etc and he's old, I told him ******** - his ex was younger than me by a year, he said that was different. He told me, "if it makes it easier just think I see you as a sister" I got angry and said THEN WHY YOU WERE VAGUE ALL THESE TIMES? and i told him I had enough of his patronizing, and I told him that he was being a coward- because he's too afraid being alone yet cant commit so he used all these unavailable girls to appease his loneliness without having to do more. That hit him hard I guess.

Since I was shorter than him I had to stand up and 'pushed' him while saying few of these stuff- at some point he locked me back to my seat w. my back against the window, angry too (asking me to shut up for a min so he can talk). ....But honestly? SECRETLY I found that- was hot. (what a ******* mess I was LOL)

People were like WOW never seen him so fierce as he was generally a jolly, semi private and a nice guy, it was the first time they ever seen him very 'loose', even the employees commented lol as he was a regular.

Anyway we ended up fighting a bit more- to the point he suddenly looked very vulnerable and told me quietly he loves me- but that got me ANGRIER ("**** OFF!") because it was confusing (maybe he meant he loves me as a sister) then he left me alone and I went home w friends.

He told a mutual friend that I was a lovely woman (right after I left) lol

We talked about the incident months later when he wanted to meet up, he was like "Yeah the girls told me I pushed you, we were pretty angry at each other." I was like Oh, I didn't mind. He looked at me, smirking SO COCKY "I know you didn't." I can only guess he felt it was kinda something too.. I guess...

but then he introduced me to his new gf. so I cut off after that haha.

then we met up months later- he wanted to meet again, was the eager one, went as far as taking off work very early, but his gf somehow also came... we spent 5-6 hrs 3 of us together, and we can only talk about us when the gf is in the washroom. I was very encouraging in hs relationship, he was very physically affectionate with her also.

By the end of the meet up, while his gf in the grocery store, he told me he should give the relationship a serious chance. he said this is his first adult relationship ever since his divorce. she likes mountain climbing, they talk a lot also, share things and they both travel + do sports and similar age + intelligence. he likes her, though he was very somber about it...
Though he told me, "... communication is important, right? When you can communicate well, other things don't matter as much" (felt like he was talking about me for some reason but maybe I was delusional.)

Then he told me to say hi once in a while, I asked "are we not going to meet again?" he didnt reply. I extended an invitation to drink in the future, since I owe him some. He didnt reply also. I ended up sending him a -long- email clarifying our unclarified problems.. just pouring my heart out, but more like 'this is how i feel and stuff, want u to be happy hope u happy thanks, dont reply' but he replied- said hes always thought of me as a woman in its full sense of word. He's humbled by my openness, and "As you can see I am happy with [gf], she is someone sepecial for me"

Then he told me im a very interesting person with interesting perspectives, he hope to see me soon sometime, etc. I reacted a bit sadly since he replied- told him "It's kind of painful because I KNEW all these affected me deeper than it is to you- and I guess i still have a bit of pride left. I will deal with it though, I'll be fine.. I will talk to you soon."

He somehow felt concerned- between hours sent me text, then ended with 'Goodnight [me], i value you as friend, hope we can meet from time to time.' I never replied- which makes him sent me a text the next day talking about an art exhibit he saw. I replied curtly. Last interaction we had was when my country had some riot near his place because of election, just sent him txt hope he stay safe (since I was near and in the courthouse where the dispute took place), he was concerned and hoped I was fine, told me he came home early so he was fine. That was the last of our interaction.

So I think the message is clear. He made his choice I have to move on. DLD told me he will be back, but I doubt it. He made his decision.

Thanks if anyone read through this. I guess I really needed to get this off my chest. Thanks..



wow reading through already even in first paragraph mine is also age gap, 14 years older than me and yeah we both go through same feelings on same days lol coincidence hey x

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
psyche, the reading is kinda in line with mine (w other psychics)


But, our situation is similar- met him when he went through a tough period of his life, i healed him sorta, he talked a lot to me about his stuff which he never done with many women (the type that keep his problems to himself). He often find himself upset because he felt almost involuntarily share his problems to me, he couldn't help it, somehow wanting comfort but unsure why he needed it from me, it confused him (usually I just held his hand & lean my head against his shoulder to make him relax)-

We also instinctively know how we feel at the time without saying anything (like bad day etc), often just need glances across the room/pub and we just knew. So, strong verbal & non verbal communication.
We have known each other for a year this year.

------------after this, is more like a rant/recollection of important events for me OK, so feel free to skip it lol..., I think it's cathartic... besides I dont wanna get any readings anymore so it's ok.-
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wow intense story,
and exactly why i cut my friendship off you can't have intense friendships when you have feelings its painful if he steps up great if not maybe when i meet another strong connection we can be friends,
i can't go through that story you pasted above i just don't want to.
i would rather loose the friendship than be living in hope.

we actually havent ever really fought he can be super selfish tho and I let too much go to begin with due to the depression but i totally call him up now and he changes his behaviour 360 he's just always so afraid to loose me to be honest, which is probably not helping me let go!


I feel for you it does for sure sound like he had something more,
what advice did people give you?

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posted August 23, 2014 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The psychics told me he will return on his own- DLD nailed the situation right (unsure about her explanation as to why or how is right or not)

here are some of her explanation

divine_love_destiny mam i am indicated he didnt invited her
divine_love_destiny she happen to come by chance
divine_love_destiny but he has to act the way he was
divine_love_destiny i am indcated it was not love or affection it was pretending
divine_love_destiny she texted him and he has to tell her
divine_love_destiny i am indicated he is trying to make him understand that its perfect but relation ships are not made like this
divine_love_destiny u cant make them perfect
ivine_love_destiny and what ever u said abt age interest etc does not make u in relation ship
divine_love_destiny u can be good friends but love is different
divine_love_destiny he want to find out of someone else is more perfect for him
divine_love_destiny his mind is wandering about his perfect soulmate
divine_love_destiny im indicated that he feel perfect match for him will be someone of his age
divine_love_destiny he has feelings for u which he is controlling to find out if someone else is his
perfect partner
divine_love_destiny its desperate attempt by him to try with her
divine_love_destiny but he cant since he dont love her really
divine_love_destiny its only due to being confused
divine_love_destiny im indicated that he dont see u as last resort just
divine_love_destiny he want to be very sure u r the one for him
divine_love_destiny im honest abt his coming back in a relation
divine_love_destiny but he need time
divine_love_destiny its not abt age he need to learn that
divine_love_destiny he is pushing u back and trying to move for sole reason he feel the age gap is
there
divine_love_destiny im indicated that he is thinking its not adult relation
divine_love_destiny he is scared
divine_love_destiny im indicated that u give him space
divine_love_destiny he will come back to u himself
divine_love_destiny connection is love
divine_love_destiny just give him space

either way, i think I should just take care of myself and wish him luck. He looked hapy, they looked happy, now I have to take care of myself.

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posted August 23, 2014 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Damali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol I think my cards are more accurate to. I just get confused interpreting...and also I get confused when they change.

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posted August 23, 2014 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peaceful-
Just want to say I'm sorry for what you've gone thru....
I do understand. It's very very hard...

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posted August 23, 2014 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you, I think writing it out and have others read it actually helps, kinda helps toning down the mystery quality to it- and normalize the experience (no more 'secret') so hopefully it will help me to move on. thank you so much for the care <3

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Does Terri Delights still exist? Good grief. That woman is awful! I don't think she is psychic at all, its like she read a self help book and just ***** it out to her clients.

TERRI DELIGHTS IS THE WORSE PSYCHIC ON BITWINE! Do not get me started on that B****...She is scum of the EARTH!!!!!! She is the only person on BITWINE I will BASH. She is a horrible, horrible human. She told me that if I didn't pay x amount of dollars I would never be with "M" she is the true definition of a SCAM ARTIST!

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