posted July 10, 2014 07:45 AM            

I met one guy few months ago. We started to date but suddenly he disappeared. Last week he came back and said that he is very happy that he met me but we can be only friends. He is younger than me 6 years. I like him but I feel that he is affraid of something.

Can we be together more than just friends?

Any thoughts?

Here is our synastry and composite charts(me is blue, he is red):

Synastry:

Composite:
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posted July 10, 2014 07:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
So did he disappear for a few months? Eh... I personally wouldn't want somebody who does that sort of thing-he isnt worth being friends with either. Seems a coward imo. It's all about boundary setting..

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Thank you very much for your answer and opinion. Not for few months only few weeks. Sometimes we are spending time together and I feel that he wants something more from me but affraid to show what does he feel for me I don't know maybe I'm wrong.

posted July 10, 2014 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
If a guy's into you, generally they dont just disappear. You deserve more than that crap. Xx

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maybe you are right

posted July 10, 2014 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
He has Sun conjunct Neptune, oh brother. Don't even deal with that in a man.

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Really? Why? Is he a liar or alcoholic?

posted July 10, 2014 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by strongwoman:
Really? Why? Is he a liar or alcoholic?

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Well I assume since THE SUN is the ego and the consciousness and the father figure and *especially important in the male's chart for masculine identity and activeness conjunct NEPTUNE dissolves it and makes him into a more passive character.

posted July 10, 2014 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Well I assume since THE SUN is the ego and the consciousness and the father figure and *especially important in the male's chart for masculine identity and activeness conjunct NEPTUNE dissolves it and makes him into a more passive character.

I have to see more of the aspects tho

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posted July 10, 2014 08:23 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Post your natal chart too.

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Here is my natal chart:

posted July 10, 2014 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
He disappeared on you though. That doesn't scream fear...Just lack of interest. Hence why he wants to be friends?

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That's what I would like to know He said I am very beautiful smart woman who can you trust really good friend which he is adore.

posted July 10, 2014 08:34 AM            

Sun sq Neptune (oh geez) conjunct Nadir, father seemed to play the passive role in life or at least you notice you have to babysit a lot of men, you have a lot of insecurities and delusions about your character - feel like a failure even though you aren't

Uranus in 12h -- bizarre subconscious

Venus in Aquarius reinforces this "not wanting to have intimacy" thing
Mars rx in Libra shows attracting passive sexual male partners.. again

For him:
That Sun-Neptune is tight.. OUCH!
Neptune-Mercury, day dreaming, living in another dimension, not thinking clearly, cannot communicate properly, irrational

Sun-Neptune-Mercury in hard aspect to Moon-Jupiter
Odd moral set, perhaps there is a sense of overzealousness? Shows discomfort with women and attracting deceptive women.

posted July 10, 2014 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Moon-Mercury in Pisces.. well it seems you idealize his Sun-Neptune and see him as some kind of martyr to sympathize with.. you see his pains and you want to save him from it but you end up chasing a endless fantasy..
Mercury-Moon sq Uranus-ASC shows disassociative thought process and a bizarre imagination, as well as uncomfortableness with emotional intimacy in a physical sense yet longing for it in a spiritual or astral sense.

Sun sq Neptune (oh geez) conjunct Nadir, father seemed to play the passive role in life or at least you notice you have to babysit a lot of men, you have a lot of insecurities and delusions about your character - feel like a failure even though you aren't

Uranus in 12h -- bizarre subconscious

Venus in Aquarius reinforces this "not wanting to have intimacy" thing
Mars rx in Libra shows attracting passive sexual male partners.. again

For him:
That Sun-Neptune is tight.. OUCH!
Neptune-Mercury, day dreaming, living in another dimension, not thinking clearly, cannot communicate properly, irrational

Sun-Neptune-Mercury in hard aspect to Moon-Jupiter
Odd moral set, perhaps there is a sense of overzealousness? Shows discomfort with women and attracting deceptive women.

Uhh your charts are very mirrored. if you wanna live in a fantasy go for it

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Oooooo it's true now I feel overwhelmed. So we both don't see each other very clearly? We like each other but both affraid to show.

posted July 10, 2014 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I don't see any significant points in the astrology being made aside from the individual natal charts mirroring each other.

Add 3811, 1221, 1585, 6583, 306, 433, 16, 157, 7066, Vertex, 4227, 1170 to the synastry and the composite

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Here is synastry with the stars:

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Here is the composite with the stars:

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posted July 10, 2014 09:10 AM            

His Psyche-Pluto conjunct your Unitas-Jupiter.. wow that is interesting -- it shows a breathtaking connection and the merging of one's souls - especially his, he feels the more vulnerable in this relationship and feels he has to transform you through this union.

His Destin on your Vertex-NN (you have this like me, are you prone to distant relationships with people and very psychic inducing experiences?) - shows profound karmic connexion.

He has Dejanira-Chiron. Poor guy feels victimized by everyone and he is a true martyr in the fullest sense possible. Extremely vulnerable and easily hurt. His wounds run deep.
Unitas-Dejanira, he feels united and as one consciousness through this archetype of pain and sexual abuse.

His Eros-Neptune, eroticism converted into astral energy -- do you feel your sacral chakra activated a lot?

His Union on your Karma-Destin .. shows profound connection that feels universal.. wow..
You also have Kaali-Chiron like I do, it shows that your pain is deep like his and you two can relate to each other like this, you can heal his pain and he can heal yours by putting you both simultaneously in anguish for the greater sacrifice.

posted July 10, 2014 09:14 AM            

Really good soul connection..
I see you both being highly advanced spirits, I do admit though -- that in the practical world this makes you come off as scattered brain. While it's pretty good in a spiritual sense you need a grounding relationship to fully work it in your Earthly life.

He is Uranus, you are Sun
Uranus doesn't make much aspect aside from tr Mercury and Venus, appreciates distance and unstable relationships. In 11th house so this relationship will heightened his aspirations, its like its his muse.
Co-ruler Saturn, sq Sun -- shows difficulities maintaining the relationship and does have that grounding effect, but also feel limiting to have it materialize for the both of you. Needs to be middle if that makes sense.
There is also a Saturn-Neptune in the synastry too, blending of astral, psychic, dream world, and practical, earthly energies.
Pluto-Mars, magnificent sexual passion, sq Venus-Mercury-Sun so unfortunately can manifest into violence

Sun in 1, you are the main pursue and chaser in this relationship

posted July 10, 2014 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
He has Psyche-Pluto, very intense and indication of a highly evolved soul.

His Psyche-Pluto conjunct your Unitas-Jupiter.. wow that is interesting -- it shows a breathtaking connection and the merging of one's souls - especially his, he feels the more vulnerable in this relationship and feels he has to transform you through this union.

His Destin on your Vertex-NN (you have this like me, are you prone to distant relationships with people and very psychic inducing experiences?) - shows profound karmic connexion.

He has Dejanira-Chiron. Poor guy feels victimized by everyone and he is a true martyr in the fullest sense possible. Extremely vulnerable and easily hurt. His wounds run deep.
Unitas-Dejanira, he feels united and as one consciousness through this archetype of pain and sexual abuse.

His Eros-Neptune, eroticism converted into astral energy -- do you feel your sacral chakra activated a lot?

His Union on your Karma-Destin .. shows profound connection that feels universal.. wow..
You also have Kaali-Chiron like I do, it shows that your pain is deep like his and you two can relate to each other like this, you can heal his pain and he can heal yours by putting you both simultaneously in anguish for the greater sacrifice.

Not bad.. unfortunately these energies rarely convert into practical and mundane use- -better in the astral realm than anything.

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WOW! It's getting interesting I feel a very strong connection with him. He is younger 6 years tahn me but I feel like he is my age and we can talk and talk and talk forever. I feel very comfortable with him.

posted July 10, 2014 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Psyche-Eros in 8th house Composite.. WOW!

Really good soul connection..
I see you both being highly advanced spirits, I do admit though -- that in the practical world this makes you come off as scattered brain. While it's pretty good in a spiritual sense you need a grounding relationship to fully work it in your Earthly life.

He is Uranus, you are Sun
Uranus doesn't make much aspect aside from tr Mercury and Venus, appreciates distance and unstable relationships. In 11th house so this relationship will heightened his aspirations, its like its his muse.
Co-ruler Saturn, sq Sun -- shows difficulities maintaining the relationship and does have that grounding effect, but also feel limiting to have it materialize for the both of you. Needs to be middle if that makes sense.
There is also a Saturn-Neptune in the synastry too, blending of astral, psychic, dream world, and practical, earthly energies.
Pluto-Mars, magnificent sexual passion, sq Venus-Mercury-Sun so unfortunately can manifest into violence

Sun in 1, you are the main pursue and chaser in this relationship

I don't really like it for a "real" relationship but its good for spiritually evolving. There are more able-bodied partners.

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OMG! Again not my MAN You know I am tired of looking for a new again and again.

posted July 10, 2014 09:34 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
sure be friends thatd be a cool relationship

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Nice But I like him like a man Ok, I will try not to ruin our friendship.