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Topic: This Situation Just Won't Go Away.....
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lotus_flower
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From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 02, 2014 09:42 AM
  
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hannaramaa
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posted August 02, 2014 10:44 PM
I'm sorry lotus_flower  although I respect your ability to be happy for the person.I took a social psychology class a couple years ago and your post reminded me of an experiment we discussed. It's a summarized account but basically scientists instructed their subjects to not think of a white polar bear, and the more these subjects fought thinking of it, the more pervasive and central these thoughts became. Perhaps it was a mixture of this and a lesson in detachment? I'm not sure. I can pull cards when I get home though, I don't have them right now as I'm working. IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 02, 2014 11:03 PM
This appeared on my fb today... I'm going to try it, maybe it'll help... Have a read: http://thespiritscience.net/2014/07/26/how-to-remove-attachments-to-past-relationships/ IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 03, 2014 10:48 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm sorry lotus_flower although I respect your ability to be happy for the person.I took a social psychology class a couple years ago and your post reminded me of an experiment we discussed. It's a summarized account but basically scientists instructed their subjects to not think of a white polar bear, and the more these subjects fought thinking of it, the more pervasive and central these thoughts became. Perhaps it was a mixture of this and a lesson in detachment? I'm not sure. I can pull cards when I get home though, I don't have them right now as I'm working.
Thanks Hanna, for replying. I am trying to make sense of this, but I'm not sure any sense can be made? I don't understand why this had to happen at all--but detachment seems right. If you feel like pulling cards, then I appreciate it. I cannot talk about this situation with my friends or anyone else--I'm not sure they would understand? It's even hard for me to understand. I can also do an in depth reading for you as well.
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lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 730
From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 03, 2014 10:52 AM
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
This appeared on my fb today... I'm going to try it, maybe it'll help... Have a read: http://thespiritscience.net/2014/07/26/how-to-remove-attachments-to-past-relationships/
St@r, thanks for sharing that link. I have read about cutting cords and attachments and I have attempted to do that. Also, I have prayed. The moment I started to feel anything, I really prayed and asked for guidance....and I really mediated on understanding why it was happening. I will try this again though--thanks for replying and for posting.
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 4040
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 03, 2014 01:32 PM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
St@r, thanks for sharing that link. I have read about cutting cords and attachments and I have attempted to do that. Also, I have prayed. The moment I started to feel anything, I really prayed and asked for guidance....and I really mediated on understanding why it was happening. I will try this again though--thanks for replying and for posting.
I agree. He is most likely still in your system and/or there is still a lesson to learn.
Avoiding it and/or not expressing it may have just put a lit on it, but it didn't go away and/or you didn't go through it.
So sorry it crosses your path again now though :-/ Best take it by the horns.
I may be able to have a look into the cards later. Not sure since I've been reading all day though & if my energy raises a bit higher Im afraid I'll just land on another planet 
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lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 730
From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 03, 2014 02:17 PM
Twirl,THanks for adding in your opinon. If you'd like to read on it--that is OK. If not, that is OK too. (I didn't understand what you meant about your energy going higher--is that bad?) So, I'll take your thoughts on the lesson needing to be learned.... IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 4040
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 03, 2014 02:22 PM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Twirl,THanks for adding in your opinon. If you'd like to read on it--that is OK. If not, that is OK too. (I didn't understand what you meant about your energy going higher--is that bad?) So, I'll take your thoughts on the lesson needing to be learned....
Welcome.
I meant I needed to ground myself. Being open to spirit world a lot of the time isn't good. IP: Logged |
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