posted August 06, 2014 12:22 AM            

I just wanted to look a tiny bit deeper into the situation, as its kinda tricky.

I am supposed to be riding to Chicago with my s/o. I am visiting my best friend and he is visiting family. The plan was for him to meet my best friend at some point while we are there. Nothing formal, maybe just dinner or something along those lines.

For some reasons, I am apprehensive about this. I think its because he and I are already in a sticky predicament within our relationship. Because of this, she does not dislike him but she definitely has apprehensions. Her opinion means a lot. Both of my parents have passed and she is one of the closest people in my life.

I am also nervous because I simply want to avoid any potential for drama. This has been a very long and stressful summer. I have two weeks before summer ends and I want them to be enjoyable.

I was wondering how the weekend will play out, will there be drama, and if she will like him. If she will not like him, how do I avoid them seeing each other, as this has already been somewhat put in the works?

posted August 06, 2014 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Whitewitch was so kind to give me her insight about his situation…

I just wanted to look a tiny bit deeper into the situation, as its kinda tricky.

I am supposed to be riding to Chicago with my s/o. I am visiting my best friend and he is visiting family. The plan was for him to meet my best friend at some point while we are there. Nothing formal, maybe just dinner or something along those lines.

For some reasons, I am apprehensive about this. I think its because he and I are already in a sticky predicament within our relationship. Because of this, she does not dislike him but she definitely has apprehensions. Her opinion means a lot. Both of my parents have passed and she is one of the closest people in my life.

I am also nervous because I simply want to avoid any potential for drama. This has been a very long and stressful summer. I have two weeks before summer ends and I want them to be enjoyable.

I was wondering how the weekend will play out, will there be drama, and if she will like him. If she will not like him, how do I avoid them seeing each other, as this has already been somewhat put in the works?

I just want PEACE and for everyone to get along!! Lol.

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Alright, this is not astrological advice as I am too much of a newbie to even know where to begin, but here are my words of wisdom: it does not matter what others think/feel about your relationship.

Now, repeat after me: it does not matter.
It does not matter what others think, because they are not the ones in the relationship. Maybe she has apprehensions because she feels he isn`t right for you, or is a bad person, or the growth he is providing you with is outside of her comfort zone. But it does not matter.

Yes, on a rational level if all your friends and everyone tells you someone is not good for you, it can be seen as a red flag. But trust your own judgement and don`t let it get clouded by someone else`s opinions. Those lessons are there to be learned by you and no one else, so it doesn`t matter.

I have a strange very strong relationship with my mother, she`s very loving and protective of me and up until recently i realized that she would critisize any relationship I was in. I used to think that because she knows me so well, is so inuitive, she would know what was best for me. Until she started questioning life choices that I made and being critical of things that made me feel authentic and real (not working as a teacher, pursuing creative writing, doing what feels right)...

Moral of the story, regardless how much the person loves you or cares about you or how important they are, I think the best advice is given from people who allow themselves to be mirrors and show us what is deep within us. The answers are within you, and perhaps what you are scared of, is what answers she`ll bring up about your relationship?

Not necessarily bad either..
But the answers are within you!

posted August 06, 2014 01:28 PM            

As I said in my OP, I think I just want things to go well. Happiness. Not so much for her (in this instance), but for myself. Lol. Although, I am blessed I have had a rough last 2-3 years. I am tired. I just want peace right now. I just want things to go smoothly… If for only a little while. I understand life has ups and downs, but right now I am ready for a few ups.

posted August 06, 2014 08:48 PM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
Do you do any type of readings blessed? I have a pressing question. If not, not to worry.

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I dont…. I am so sorry! But you know… K4S told me that I have an intuitive energy and I should look into reading.. I just might. But unfortunately I do not at the moment. I am so incredibly sorry.

posted August 06, 2014 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
Its ok. brb

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posted August 06, 2014 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
Hey blessed I'm a little tired...so I'm going to get to this in a couple of hours. Ok

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