posted August 08, 2014 01:12 AM            

so there is this boy who heals my wounds...
it`s not love, it`s friendship with a whole lot of sex, and I don`t plan/want to get married to him but I`m super curious to see our synastry, but I don`t know his birthtime or ascendant.

can you give me insights/guesses?
his sun sign is saggitarius, he`s very tall, goofy and warm. when he gets mad at me (which he does often cos I ahve been a **** human being lately) he moves back and ignores me...kinda Cancer-like I guess, he`s very forgiving and sweet so i feel that rules out scorpio. there is light about him, even though at first glance he can look intimidating he is a sweetheart (but super manly too. not that sweethearts are not manly hahaha.. you know what i mean. he`s more yang then yin)
not sure what other clues I could give because there is a lot of fire about him but I think it`s the saggitarius.

what vibe u get? (also included his natal)

EDIT: Deleted his photo, being the twat I am I didn't think of asking for permission though I really doubt he'd care, he enjoys being in the spotlight and is quite active on the Internetz but now that the conversation has taken a darker turn and he is presented in a strange dark light...

Sorry and thank you all for your insights, I have a few ascendants to chose from and can start exploring our synastry. I also will be careful as some of the red flags I felt about him are slightly confirmed by someone else now...

posted August 08, 2014 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I feel Aries but there is something earthy about him

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yeah i get aries too, but he`s not as insisting or feisty as other aries i`ve known.. but he is super grounded (in a wild punk rock kind of way hahah).

posted August 08, 2014 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Well if his Mars is in Scorpio, then of course he wouldn't be feisty or insisting--considering Mars would be his chart ruler if Aries was his ascendant.

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hmmm..so is there a way to figure out his ascendant by knowing his mars?

posted August 08, 2014 01:32 AM            

Also this is a good sun/ascendant sign website (it's a "preview") that really describes peoples personalities based on sun sign + ascendant. I find mine to be quite accurate..here's the site (I'm Virgo Sun/Aqua Asc)

http://horoscopespot.net/virgo-sun-aquarius-rising/

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posted August 08, 2014 01:35 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I get Leo on his asc. Try to get one part of his birth chart and see if it fits with how he is in real life.

Also this is a good sun/ascendant sign website (it's a "preview") that really describes peoples personalities based on sun sign + ascendant. I find mine to be quite accurate..here's the site (I'm Virgo Sun/Aqua Asc)

http://horoscopespot.net/virgo-sun-aquarius-rising/

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holy moly, leo why didn`t i think of it:
the hair, he`s a singer in a punk band, the kind, loyal heart...

posted August 08, 2014 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
hmmm..so is there a way to figure out his ascendant by knowing his mars?

so sorry if this sounds dumb, i am a super newb.

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No that's not what I meant by that. I mean like, we all have our chart rulers based on our rising signs. For example, your chart ruler would be Mercury since this planet rules Gemini, which is your rising sign. If he was Aries rising, Mars would be his chart ruler as Mars rules Aries. This goes for every other sign in the zodiac.

posted August 08, 2014 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
No offense, he's kind of cute, but he gives me the heebie jeebies! I thought this before I saw his chart, but maybe it's his Mars/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio so close to my sun. I wouldn't trust this guy as far as I could throw him! Be careful!

He looks like my Aquarius Sun dad when he was younger, so I think Aqua rising. The dreads point to Aqua also. I've noticed that Aquarius and Leo share a lot of physical similarities, being on the same axis, so maybe it is Leo, but Leos aren't the only sign with hair!

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actually, we met on some dating/hooking up app when i was recovering from my breakup. after talking for three weeks, we met up for a few pints, got really drunk and i did the silliest thing one could do; go back to his place while barely knowing him. in a moment of lucidity back at his place as we were about to get undressed, i got a bit scared and i guess it showed on my face as a i froze. he said ``what's going on?'' and i answered that i was kinda scared. he said ''what are you afraid of? me? i mean c'mon, look at me'' hahahahah followed the longest silence as i stared at him and said ''exactly''. he's like this giant in comparison to me even though i'm pretty tall, with dreadlocks and a punk rocker attidude, but he doesn't seem to get how intimidating he comes off as...anyway..one thing that makes me uneasy a bit is how he holds back during sexytime..like he can`t fully unleash his inner wildness because he is scared of hurting me. the second things get rougher and enjoyable he kind of slows things down and says he doesnt wanna hurt me........now i am making all these scenarios in my mind, my god.

i dont know sometimes i feel like something could be off...but im super paranoid when it comes to guys and im always afraid of attracting abusive relationships (which tends to happen often so its a vicious circle). are u intuitive though? or its just an impression?

posted August 08, 2014 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
No offense, he's kind of cute, but he gives me the heebie jeebies! I thought this before I saw his chart, but maybe it's his Mars/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio so close to my sun. I wouldn't trust this guy as far as I could throw him! Be careful!

He looks like my Aquarius Sun dad when he was younger, so I think Aqua rising. The dreads point to Aqua also. I've noticed that Aquarius and Leo share a lot of physical similarities, being on the same axis, so maybe it is Leo, but Leos aren't the only sign with hair!

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posted August 08, 2014 05:00 AM            

^Yes, I am very intuitive, there is something unsettling about him. You should read up on Mars/Pluto aspects, because these people have usually been through some form of abuse as children, and have the potential to be abusive themselves. Also the fact that he retreats when he's angry probably means that he doesn't want to unleash his temper onto you. As a casual hookup his emotions may not be involved enough for you to see his worst side, but having those 2 planets so close, and in Scorpio no less, is a red flag. It's a very intense energy, so if he's fairly easy going he's probably keeping his issues hidden. The fact that you have felt uneasy is your intuition telling you to look out for red flags.

I have Moon conjunct Pluto(along with a lot of Scorpio and 8th house planets) and there have been times in my life I could be dangerous to myself or others when my temper comes out. It can only be handled with self awareness.

With Mars, you have the planet of aggression mixed with Pluto which is like Mars on steroids, and things can get really get crazy, and potentially violent. It takes an evolved person to handle the intensity when things aren't going their way.

posted August 08, 2014 05:16 AM            

One name: Ted Bundy.

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posted August 08, 2014 05:40 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
If you see me in real life I'll give you a bad vibe as well. Don't go off looks..it's really unfair judgement..

One name: Ted Bundy.

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I was just stating my gut reaction to him. I have many stories about the accuracy of that feeling, but the first time that ever happened to me, I was 5, and I used to get a certain vibe from my neighbor's ex husband when he would pick up or drop off their kids. The only person I ever told was my friend, their younger half sister. When we were 12 he was charged with murdering his girlfriend, which prompted police to investigate the disappearance of his former girlfriend. They found her body buried on his property. He's now 20 years into a 50 year prison sentence.

posted August 08, 2014 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:

Right now transiting Saturn is on that point, and soon Mars will be there too, so just keep an eye out for anything off. Also the full moon this weekend will be squaring that point, and the moon will be right on his north node. It could be a difficult transit for him.

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thank you! while deep down I feel this weird connection to him, like he was my child in a past life, I`m super protective of him and want him to do well and it was like that right off the bat, I know he`s had a dark past. the reason why I am even more worried is that I ``wronged`` him by going back to see my ex and left him at the last minute a few times (though we`re not in a relationship together...). he was angry at first but says he's over it and still wants to hang out and sleep together, but I just hope he does not have a vengeful streak and doesn't try to hurt me as I have bruised his ego for sure...

thank you for your insights and intuitions, I really appreciate your honesty. I am not sure what I'll do just yet, but if I do see him again I'll make sure it's in the safest possible way...

merci xx

posted August 08, 2014 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
If you see me in real life I'll give you a bad vibe as well. Don't go off looks..it's really unfair judgement..

One name: Ted Bundy.

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absolutely! I can give off a rude vibe because I am painfully shy sometimes, and people often think I am full of myself when I really am super introverted and uncomfortable in new situations.

posted August 08, 2014 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Aquarius.

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I think either Aquarius, Libra or Leo at this point. Does anyone know what signs I could look for? For example to figure out someone's Mars positioning by guessing you'd look at their drive, how they are in love you'd love at Venus, etc...

posted August 08, 2014 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
If you see me in real life I'll give you a bad vibe as well. Don't go off looks..it's really unfair judgement..

One name: Ted Bundy.

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posted August 08, 2014 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
absolutely! I can give off a rude vibe because I am painfully shy sometimes, and people often think I am full of myself when I really am super introverted and uncomfortable in new situations.

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I'm exactly the same way ^_^ people think I'm stuck up when I'm really not, its either I talk way too much or i'm way too shy.