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Topic: Need help please! Does natal show in marriage or relationship about her
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mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 25, 2014 09:48 PM
This is my best friend's natal chart. I wonder if she never will get married happily because she always has this kind of realtionship- she falls in love those who either don't really love her or she shouldn't love them; or the others love her but she doesnt' love them. She feels she will probably never get married, or maybe get married but will divorce. So far she is not married but stuck in a relationship. Can anyone here do us a favor, thanks a lot.Her natal IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 4137 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 25, 2014 09:50 PM
With Sun conjunct Venus, I have noticed these people need to find true love in themselves, because sun never arcs to a conjunction with venus or vice versa, and that represents when they meet their true love.However When NN is on her Venus/Sun in a few years, she may meet someone significant along her path that will be better than anyone else. And unfortunately, not with the ruler of her seventh house in the 12th. It means she is saving all that good energy for next time. But this time she needs to learn how to be alone. IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 25, 2014 10:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: [B]With Sun conjunct Venus, I have noticed these people need to find true love in themselves, because sun never arcs to a conjunction with venus or vice versa, and that represents when they meet their true love.
Hi,athenegoddess. It is so nice of you to respond so quickly. Sorry I am very new in astrology. Yes, you are right, she is always looking for someone who can be her soulmate but until now nothing happened better. Sorry I didn't get what you mean totally, would you kindly please explain further more? I checked by progression, it is impossible to have the Sun/Venus conjunct in her natal except when she was just born. Thanks again. IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 01, 2014 10:02 AM
No more reply? I hope there are more people to make comments because she is frustrated about her relationships and want to know if she is doomed to have bad relationships.. Thank you again for everyone making comments in advance.IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 19, 2014 10:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: With Sun conjunct Venus, I have noticed these people need to find true love in themselves, because sun never arcs to a conjunction with venus or vice versa, and that represents when they meet their true love.However When NN is on her Venus/Sun in a few years, she may meet someone significant along her path that will be better than anyone else. And unfortunately, not with the ruler of her seventh house in the 12th. It means she is saving all that good energy for next time. But this time she needs to learn how to be alone.
Hi,athenegoddess.Sorry I am not sure if I get what you mean. Do you mean she supposed to look for the true love because sun is conjunct venus.However, her first house with sun/venus/ASC in it, its ruler, mercury falls in 12th house. So this life, she cannot find true love, right? Thanks again. IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 19, 2014 10:25 AM
I am desperately longing for more insights, please!! Thanks a lot.IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 19, 2014 02:51 PM
bump...IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2014 02:56 PM
Yeah she has sun/venus/NN but they're all in the 1st. That's all about developing herself, apart from a relationship.Then her 5th and 7th rulers, Saturn and Neptune are in square. Again, she needs to find her talents. The good thing is Sun/Venus and SN 7th make her relationship oriented, and Asc/Dsc rulers Mercury/Neptune are trine. She can't go for someone out of sympathy or because she rates herself at a low level. But he needs to be humble and genuine and forgiving. These are some of her partners qualities. Unfortunately she might get a partner who gets sad often, so that's one thing to watch out for. She needs to pride herself more, find what she's good at, maybe in the health industry, maybe with some kind of fine motor skills work like dress making, she needs to find her worth first. Then she is better able to find a partner who balances her out. IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 20, 2014 10:40 AM
HI Lonake, thanks a lot for giving explanation and advices. I have one question, since her 4th and 10th ruled by Sagittarius and Gemini are intercepted. Does it mean she a partner who has personal planets or ASC/DSC in the interception to balance her personality? IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 20, 2014 09:09 PM
The squares from gem/Sadge that aspect her sun venus nodes would prob be attractive but I don't know how stable they'd be. Prob would be nice to have sextile from gem or trine from Sadge to her stressed Mercury. Especially their sun.His Venus in Aries or Capricorn tsquare to her mars/pluto might be attractive too since they'd fall in her 5th/8th. But she would be drawn to Leo which is in her 12th (house of her Dsc sign) and Gemini in her 10th (house of 5th Capricorn). IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 20, 2014 09:13 PM
A Gemini around 22deg would sextile merc/trine pluto. He might be attracted if his cancer venus were on her mars trine her moon/uranus and sextile her saturn.IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 20, 2014 10:11 PM
Dear Lonake,thank you for more useful insights.How about this one, his has sun and mercury in gemini with virgo ASC, but the problem is they have few house overlay in 5,7,8th house. Also, they have many hard aspects on Saturn as well as Pluto. IP: Logged |