posted September 09, 2014 03:41 PM            

I think 14 years came from Solar Arc between sun and venus (when progressed venus reaches the position of your natal sun). Basically you take the difference in degrees between Sun and Venus to [allegedly] calculate the age you'll be when you meet your biggest love

HOWEVER

There are TONS of examples of exceptional love totally uncorrelated with SA Sun Venus

Jane Birkin met Serge Gainsbourg when she was 22 whereas her SA took place around the time they split up and she (34 or thereabouts) married Jacques Doillon who pretty much coudln't cope with having to compete with memories of Serge. One can only spit in the face of whoever says this was not a case of absolute love (pretty sure no one on this forum has encountered experiences comaprable to those lol).

So basically SA is one of the possible indicators albeit not the only one

posted September 09, 2014 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
Well, I've only had one lover, who was also my first one, at the age of 26 and it was a long-distance relationship so basically, a half-lover.
You can understand my frustration.

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you don't have to be frustrated you know

there's this counter-productive mechanism which could be a massive hindering influence. like when you think you have to change yourself, do this or that, have this or have that etc.

i have seen girls just buiding their frustration up. the only way against this is giving up the idea something is fundamentally wrong with you and trying to understand nothing needs fixing, you are not obliged to earn anyone's love. guys find this more attractive too, but obvs this has to be done for yourself, not for them.

be cool and independent, love yourself to bits, others will follow suit.

posted September 09, 2014 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
É don't need any sort of fixing and I know there is absolutely nothing wrong with me, quite the opposite actually.

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posted September 11, 2014 02:15 AM            

But anyway back to the 5th. Ruled by Uranus which sits in your 3rd and you have Venus in Gem. Later this month there will be a (closer to exact) trine from Leo Jupiter to Aries Uranus, which will grand trine your H5 ruler. At the end of the month, Sun will trine your Venus, Venus will trine your Moon, and Mars will opp your Venus. I think if you see someone you like, don't be afraid to approach and go for it.

Interestingly, that transiting trine from Jupiter to Uranus is at 14 Fire grand trining your Uranus again, but this time late February. And that's around the time when the transiting Uranus/Pluto square will be affecting your pVenus.

Coincidence?
Maybe keep your eyes peeled for a person whom you feel a sense of freedom around, but maybe also someone who makes you second guess your way of approaching relationships up to this point. Because it seems that's about to change,

One thing working to your benefit natally, is that Uranus ruling 5th is sextile Jupiter which rules 3rd, which is in line with the transiting Jupiter/Uranus energy and in line with your Venus in Gemini.

posted September 11, 2014 02:20 PM              

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Hi Choc,

I think 14 years came from Solar Arc between sun and venus (when progressed venus reaches the position of your natal sun). Basically you take the difference in degrees between Sun and Venus to [allegedly] calculate the age you'll be when you meet your biggest love

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posted September 18, 2014 04:07 PM            

BTW

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You have Vertex and North Node in the 7th house, so you were pretty much cut out for lovers and long-term relationships, these aspects are defs a priority in this lifetime,

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posted October 04, 2014 05:41 AM            

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when you are 43 you will meet them. it will be very sexual and be a very prominent person.

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posted October 04, 2014 07:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
Man, still pi$$ed off at this. I'm having the worst time of my life right now. Things are going to hell, in general.
I don't deserve to wait all these f***ing years just to get a f**king touch from someone.

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posted October 05, 2014 11:34 PM            

I know how you feel but you're only 29, so you have plenty of time. So many things can change from here on out. Don't focus on NOT meeting someone sooner. As others have stated, that 1 reading doesn't mean that you're doomed.

You won't find a partner - they'll find you - think of it that way. You'll never know when and where you'll meet your partner.

Wishing you the best!

posted October 06, 2014 11:23 AM            

I don't know what other kind of hope you want if you think that the preachy words are nonsense. If you want someone to read tarot and give you a specific person, date and time when you'll meet, I'm sorry but I can't help you with that but perhaps someone else can.

I guess keep bumping up your thread and 'hope' for the answer that you want and need.