posted September 08, 2014 05:48 AM            

Could just do with some advice. Am I being too harsh, or is she?
Thank you.

posted September 08, 2014 06:45 AM            

I used my Starseed Tarot Deck

Pop Card: 7 of Orbs- She doesn't want to let you go or you to leave her.

Card 1: Karma
Card 2: 6 of Flames
Card 3: The Star

Has she been busy? For herself or others? She's looking for recognition

Are you the last child? Any younger siblings?

Your mother is in a transition, the past (karma) is done and she's in the progress of starting or making whatever she's into a main focus in her life.

posted September 08, 2014 07:03 AM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
@intuitivefish: Thank you! So you don't think its my fault then? I mean, I don't know if she feels betrayed because, well, the thing is I sort of tried to ask if I could practice with my dad instead because she just gets so angry and shouts and I can't concentrate on the road. We just keep falling out every time I make a mistake. But I think she's in a mood because of that. But I don't really know because usually she gets over stuff if we've argued but its been going on longer than usual. So you think there's something else besides that?

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Yes I dont think it is you, I dont see you as the root of her problem. There could be more behind closed door between her and your dad.
I wont guess as you know your family best.
But what I would advice is let her be, dont go into arguements and keep your conversations a bit less emotional.
Maybe she feel jealous of your dad or rejeceted. But that is not the root, not in my opinion. I think something more is going on in her head to keep arguing as you say, she usually did not stay in a mood for long before.

posted September 08, 2014 07:09 AM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
@intuitivefish: oh that is reassuring, thank you so much! Yeah, I will do as you advise, it seems like the best thing to do Thank you again

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posted September 08, 2014 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Hope all goes well and I truely hope I am right but I have been a very good reader of situations for my friends before so I hope it is the same for you.
would you be willing to look into a situation for me ?

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posted September 08, 2014 07:16 AM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Thank you! I haven't clue what's going on between my parents, but it doesn't surprise me that there may be something that I don't know about Oh yes, of course! What's your question?

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Yes we tend to forget our parents are a couple not only our parents and couples have their problems too.

Well if you could look into my situation with my ex A. is there any love future there, what are his feelings/wants. He does have someone but he told a close friend he doesn't love her and should end it.

posted September 08, 2014 07:22 AM            

Advice.
1)Book + Moon + Coffin = Birds
Well, it's time you look into her emotions and take them in consideration - she's extremely depressed and not feeling how she usually is, take time for a serious discussion and don't hold back - it will be very frustrating, slow, depressing, but things WILL change. Pour out your heart to her and make her see.
2)Stork + Fox + Stars = Whip
You should become more distanced from her, she's in "hunter" mode right now where she is alienated everyone including you and you should take the note and respond.. sounds primitive but I think this is what you should do.. fight her meanness with her meanness? You'll get the emotions out better...

posted September 08, 2014 09:14 AM            

2 of swords: The current situation is full of anxiety, adversity, dramatic changes and challenges. Surround yourself with good people as you'll need their support. This card symbolises arguments, and decisions that require you to use logic now, rather than emotions.

King of Swords:
Is this your ex A? An intelligent, authoritative man. Possibly works as a doctor, lawyer, something like that? Not overtly emotional, but easily bored and requires alot of mental stimulation.
I also got the Knight of Swords RX, indicating that at this point in time, he doesn't feel like committing to anything.

Page of wands: Enthusiastic, charming and excitable. Anxious to please. If this isn't a person, or even yourself, then as an event card it indicates the possibility of reuniting with someone from your past. I know this is what you're hoping for, but the rest of the spread warns you to really think about this. The next card was Knight of Cups RX, which indicates the departure of lover soon afterwards. This of course could have been representing the past when you broke up before. Perhaps you were both too idealistic about it. Reversed 7 of cups came after that, reinforcing this idea. Daydreaming, idealising, not being able to decide.

I got another court card which I think represents your love rival. The Queen of Pentacles reversed. Is she quite materialistic? Is she older than you, or do you see her as being more mature? I also got the Page of Pents reversed in the hopes and fears position. Perhaps you wish you were her sometimes. I'm not sure.

The Wheel of Fortune: What comes around goes around. Things seem like they're getting better at the moment. Clarity is on it's way, luck is on it's way.

Judgement reversed: There are major changes ahead. There are opportunities out there. I feel you're clinging to the past, to what is familiar, which is causing you to ignore people who could be really good for you. You may well get back with this person at some point, although it might not be for a period of time. This spread is asking for you to ultimately look at the situation objectively, and really look at how you feel. It doesn't have to be as bad as it sounds, you just need to take a step back and see how things really are. Not to imply that they are actually terrible, I think it just means you need to slow down- well, things will anyway. RX Judgement slows things down. But just take your time and have fun. Don't worry too much, but don't rush into things either, and make sure you know what you really want. Perhaps you want to go back to make things right, to patch things up better. But just remember, the past is the past and there are many potential partners out there who will make you really happy if you choose to look properly

Hope that was okay, if it didn't resonate, then I'm really sorry :/

posted September 08, 2014 09:28 AM            

I will go step by step to give you feedback

- He is not a doctor/lawyer or anything of that sort, he is more in the creative side, but he does get bored easily and has trouble showing his emotions.
- yes he does have problems commiting
- the page of wands could relate to both, but I think it is more of past thing as we had arguments and breaks, so it makes sense to me.
- queen of pents - no she is actually younger than both, but i am jealous of the time she spends with him so perhaps that

posted September 08, 2014 03:31 PM            

Since it was a yes/no question, I pulled fewer cards just so I could get a clearer and more precise picture.

1: Judgement: Make way for better things. An ending. New lease of life.

2. 7 of wands rx: Self-doubt. An unusual situation.

3. 6 of cups rx: Rose tinted view of the past obscuring truth. Held back by old ideas.

4. Page of Wands: An important fact may be missing.

5. 2 of Pents rx: Unspoken worry. Over doing things.

Okay, so I kind of hoped I wouldn't get these purely because I know I pulled similar ones for intuitivefish. And I tried re-pulling the cards, but deck wasn't having it so I'm sticking with these.
I do think what the message here is that what you were told may have been the truth, but it may have either been exaggerated or there's something missing. I think you're also worrying excessively about it, or just more than you should. I think you feel there's something a-miss (well, I know because you asked and all) and its bugging you that its not all there.

Thank you for your reading btw. It was brill

posted September 08, 2014 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you very much Fruity Llama you took much time to look into it I see, I am very grateful.

I will go step by step to give you feedback

- He is not a doctor/lawyer or anything of that sort, he is more in the creative side, but he does get bored easily and has trouble showing his emotions.
- yes he does have problems commiting
- the page of wands could relate to both, but I think it is more of past thing as we had arguments and breaks, so it makes sense to me.
- queen of pents - no she is actually younger than both, but i am jealous of the time she spends with him so perhaps that

it all does make good sense, thank you again
xx
I do have much to think about

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posted September 08, 2014 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
@KarkaQueen:

Since it was a yes/no question, I pulled fewer cards just so I could get a clearer and more precise picture.

1: Judgement: Make way for better things. An ending. New lease of life.

2. 7 of wands rx: Self-doubt. An unusual situation.

3. 6 of cups rx: Rose tinted view of the past obscuring truth. Held back by old ideas.

4. Page of Wands: An important fact may be missing.

5. 2 of Pents rx: Unspoken worry. Over doing things.

Okay, so I kind of hoped I wouldn't get these purely because I know I pulled similar ones for intuitivefish. And I tried re-pulling the cards, but deck wasn't having it so I'm sticking with these.
I do think what the message here is that what you were told may have been the truth, but it may have either been exaggerated or there's something missing. I think you're also worrying excessively about it, or just more than you should. I think you feel there's something a-miss (well, I know because you asked and all) and its bugging you that its not all there.

Thank you for your reading btw. It was brill

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Thank you for your reading!
You're welcome for yours!

posted September 08, 2014 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Yeah, when I was looking at them, I kind of got the feeling that it was "no biggie", but I didn't want to say that in case its part of a really serious matter I mean, going with my gut instinct, I think something was over exaggerated and you're over worrying (if thats even a word :P ) that something's a miss. I'm only thinking this because the first card I kept pulling was Judgement, so I was getting the message that there's something better on the horizon. That perhaps you should just lay this to rest and move on to pastures new, kind of thing. And obviously, just don;t worry in general, because that will be detrimental to your well-being :P

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Thanks.

posted September 08, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
No probs

Oh wow, really? Well I'm Cancer rising, but its in the Pisces decan and squared by Neptune. My Aries Venus is in the MC (ruled by Pisces) so they're both at the top of my chart Its funny, I asked my sister to guess my rising sign going by some textbook descriptions and she said Pisces too

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posted September 08, 2014 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Ahaha wow! You must be good at reading people in person then, if you sensed that with me just by my writing :P I'm not sure what I get with you- Capricorn perhaps? I think I also sense something fiery, Aries or Sagg maybe?

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