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posted October 01, 2014 05:57 PM            

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I've been gone for a while but I'm back
Anyone interested in exchanging just leave your questions below.

Question: If me and D were in a relationship, how long would we stay together?

Thanks in advance

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posted October 01, 2014 06:03 PM            

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I'm in! Brb with your reading.

My question is: what should I know about D's change in attitude?

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posted October 01, 2014 06:36 PM            

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Thank you Fille Aspirant

Four of Tomes (Reserved), Ace of Tomes (reserved)
D seems to be using this attitude as an excuse/facade to cover a current situation he's going through. This situation seems to involve a project that he has abandoned that will eventually become explosive if he continues to ignore the problem. If you want to know whats really going on don't be shy to ask D questions, at the same time don't become too involved because again this could be a dangerous outcome.

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posted October 01, 2014 06:39 PM            

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8 of diamonds - 5 of diamonds - Ace of diamonds - 4 of spades - 10 of hearts

The whole spread is saying it would be something long-term, if not marriage. Marriage-like, at least. You would both be looking into the future of this relationship and feel a mental and physical attraction to one another. Definitely commitment and committing to one another is seen here. It might end up being a bit suffocating/overwhelming for one or both of you, but a stable, long-term relationship would be possible.

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posted October 01, 2014 06:45 PM            

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Thanks for the reading, Moonfish!

Situation is this: he decided to follow in my career footsteps and has been asking me for help - but I've offered to help anyhow. The thing is, before this change of mind, he had, back in March (if I remember correctly), tried to ask me out and kinda gave up in the middle of the asking. So he retreated after that. Now he's been very talkative and open towards me, which I like, don't get me wrong, but I'm not sure how to react to it. He winked at me twice today and I was like, "er - what the hell?! Should I wink back?"

I'm a bit (or a lot!) bad at flirting and with guys.

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posted October 01, 2014 07:11 PM            

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hi

Happy ur back!

Ok, so I have just accepted an offer in Urbana at a hospiatl. THus I am leaving the job I took 3 weeks ago at a unvi/hospital in chicago. Urbana is 2 hours away.

Can I have a reading on how my job and live will go in Urbana (or is staying at the univ/chi best?) How will my love life go?

Do u want the same question to be answered or do u have others that you'd like answered?

TY!

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posted October 01, 2014 07:17 PM            

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You're welcome! And Thank you as well :3

Mi-Go, Hastar
My suggestion is keep the flirting settle - on your end. If he winks at you, just smile. If he compliments you, simply say thank you. Until you become more comfortable and aware of what kind of relationship you can have with him, keep the vibe between you friendly. A lot of times guy's flirt just for fun or ulterior motive, so unless he finally asks you out or your positive about his intentions I wouldn't take it too seriously.

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posted October 01, 2014 07:21 PM            

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@cherful24

Hi Cherful, thank you! It's good to see you again!
Oh I'm glad to hear that Sure thing, I will brb with your reading

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posted October 01, 2014 07:48 PM            

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@Cherful24

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There'll be some challenges you will face working at the hospital. You will experience sadness, and grief that you will need to overcome but of course, that is to be expected. Returning to the University all depends on the matter if you can handle the traddiges you will see working at the hospital. Overall, Urbana will bring a fear of change that you must face. With that in mind, with everything you work hard at will bring good results. Otherwise, I would stay at the University.

My Question: How would me and D react to each other on an intimate level?

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posted October 01, 2014 09:01 PM            

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well....to be honest I dont see it ever happening so, it's like asking me to tell you a fantasy. Sorry, Im not sure how else to answer that. I can't see the interaction if its not gonna happen.

Of course i'm not god so, perhaps i'm wrong!

did u have another question?

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@Cherful24

Page of Artifacts (Reserved), Five of Man (Reserved), Ghoul (Reserved)
There'll be some challenges you will face working at the hospital. You will experience sadness, and grief that you will need to overcome but of course, that is to be expected. Returning to the University all depends on the matter if you can handle the traddiges you will see working at the hospital. Overall, Urbana will bring a fear of change that you must face. With that in mind, with everything you work hard at will bring good results. Otherwise, I would stay at the University.

My Question: How would me and D react to each other on an intimate level?

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posted October 01, 2014 09:12 PM            

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Oh okay, thank you for your honesty
Is there a specific reason you don't see why me and D coming together in a relationship or intimately?

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posted October 01, 2014 09:20 PM            

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Brb with urs...can i ask u...

So, I work very hard for this new job i took 3 weeks ago, infact they lied to me about how many programs that i'd manage. And im already burnt out, falling behind, etc. Like im upset over it. Im always a hard worker so im ok with that part. I know if I move away 2 hours i will be all alone. thats scary and ill have to force myself to find friends. And im sure ill be living a more grown up life being the suburbs verse the city, but i do feel ready.

Can u see how my co-workers in urbana will like me, will i do good work, will i find freinds there and any romance?

like do u see any positives if i stay in the job ive been at for 3 weeks?

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posted October 01, 2014 09:21 PM            

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and what kind of challenges would i face in urbana?

ty

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posted October 01, 2014 09:27 PM            

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it seems like he's not able to cross over that barrier of intamicy attraction. Its more like "she's more like a sister to me than a girlfriend"

Have u ever heard of the Madonna complex that guys have? Madonna...the church Madonna and not the singer.

So he views u like that....which is good...so he certinitly doest think ur slutty...but also cant see himself (are u in general) being sexual. He can't get past ur good girl image and he likes u for that good girl image. so thats really really good. he holds u on a pedestal. I know ur intersted in him as a crush so u probably dont want to hear this. But really its a good thing. He respects u and wont want to cross ur limits. He doesnt think ur a "party girl" which at this stage in his life, is who he wants. He wants sexual and he feels more comfy being with a girl who he knows wants that too and will act/put out. with u... he is sure ur not like that.

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posted October 01, 2014 09:41 PM            

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Not even going to lie, but that makes total sense. Thank you Cherful :]

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that
Well according to the cards you might feel a bit isolated from your coworkers for some of them might have that high school girl syndrome, putting other ppl down to bring themselves up. Eventually they'll grow out of it but it might be a bit stressful at the beginning. It does show outside of work that you will find a couple of good, genuine friends that will definitely lift up your spirit.
As far as romance It seems like you will develop a crush on someone that may turn into a fun, dating-relationship. It doesn't seem like it will get too serious but you'll surely have a great time together.

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