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Topic: Selfish people problems. Will exchange
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 513 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2014 02:44 PM
Basically, I was left by my flatmates in a club- not on my own, there was a couple there who I sort of knew and so I had to third wheel for ages. They were lovely though, so it wasn't all bad. But they didn't bother to ask about me or anything. They haven't even apologised yet. But am I being silly about this or not? It could have been worse, I know. What advice could anyone give on this? I am more than happy to exchange a tarot reading if you like Thank you. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 31 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 01, 2014 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Basically, I was left by my flatmates in a club- not on my own, there was a couple there who I sort of knew and so I had to third wheel for ages. They were lovely though, so it wasn't all bad. But they didn't bother to ask about me or anything. They haven't even apologised yet. But am I being silly about this or not? It could have been worse, I know. What advice could anyone give on this? I am more than happy to exchange a tarot reading if you like Thank you.
I do not do tarot readings (sorry), but I will offer some advice. It depends how often this happens. Sometimes it's not even about the act of others, it's about the feelings that the actions of other people trigger in us, how did it make you feel when they left? Did it ruin your night? If so, I would probably bring it up with them, but only when you really understand why it made you feel a certain way. How often do your flatmates leave you (even if it is in places with other people that you sort of know)? - Is it a reoccurring thing? and to what extent does it bother you? - why does it bother you? I guess what I am trying to say is that, you need to put it in context before you can know what to do. - Hope that helps somewhat and someone else provides you with a tarot reading #sorry lol xx
------------------ If not me, who? * Sun: Gemini Asc: Scorpio Moon: Aries Mars: Aries Venus: Taurus Mercury: Gemini IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 513 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2014 03:22 PM
No that was very helpful, thank you! Yes, it is more to do with the underlying feelings, rather than what they did. Even the people they left me with thought it was a bit harsh of them. We were close before though, I think that's why it hurts more.
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1995 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 01, 2014 03:24 PM
Fruity Here you go.
8 of pents- I think they thought they were giving you your freedom to do what you want, that you wanted to be self reliant sort of speak. They thought you wanted to stay do your own thing at the club. Queen of pents - is one of your flatmates a woman Sith lots of earth in her chart? I feel she was one who made decision to leave for rest of the group. Is one that maybe had to work today?? None the less this woman is very cautious person who probably is on a schedule follows rules rarely lets her hair Dow. Too much.
My question is about HN , why haven't I really heard from him since Saturday? How does he feel about me and view me? Judgement - have you done this to some friends or a friend before? It seems like maybe you have or Bern in a group that did this to a friend before. Forgive me if I'm wrong. Queen of pents -
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 513 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2014 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Fruity Here you go.
8 of pents- I think they thought they were giving you your freedom to do what you want, that you wanted to be self reliant sort of speak. They thought you wanted to stay do your own thing at the club. Queen of pents - is one of your flatmates a woman Sith lots of earth in her chart? I feel she was one who made decision to leave for rest of the group. Is one that maybe had to work today?? None the less this woman is very cautious person who probably is on a schedule follows rules rarely lets her hair Dow. Too much.
My question is about HN , why haven't I really heard from him since Saturday? How does he feel about me and view me? Judgement - have you done this to some friends or a friend before? It seems like maybe you have or Bern in a group that did this to a friend before. Forgive me if I'm wrong. Queen of pents -
There was a female, but she's more water and fire dominant. There was quite a bit of anger between the two friends in question. I was actually trying to think if I've done this before, and I don't think I have. Sometimes everyone loses each other but that's when we're in a massive group and we weren't last night. They didn't leave because they had work to do either, we went out early and left early because of halloween and the queues and stuff Thanks anyway though, I'll do your question now.
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1995 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 01, 2014 04:04 PM
Ok, maybe I can pull again a little later. Thanks for feedback. I'll be waiting for my reading. Thanks again IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 513 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2014 04:07 PM
Venus:WHy hasn't he called: King of Pents- slow, easy going, taking his time, focus on work, material success. Ace of Pents- new beginnings, fresh start, inspiration, wealth Ace of Swords- great insight, break through, power. I think he will get back to explaining about a new position at work or something. I think he's preoccupied with all these flashes of inspiration, money making ideas and such. How does he view you; Queen of swords- mature, withheld emotion, cool, calm and collected Page of Wands- potential mate, feeling free, young passion, burdenless 9 cups- comfort, happiness, dreams coming true I think there's a fondness there, but I don't want to say too much in case I get your hopes up and Im wrong, but thats what the cards show. I would just let him do his own thing for a bit, he's busy and likes being free atm basicallY! But yeah, dont get too disheartened, guys tend to do this IP: Logged | |