posted November 02, 2014 06:33 PM
Next time, please put the asteroids that are doing things in the synastry, it would make this easier to read. Also, add who I'm doing the reading for because in certain relationships, I could spot themes that would be more telling.Chart 1: Your Sun, Venus conjunction on his NN is very poignant in spelling out the future. You're going to help him develop the traits he has to develop in this life-time, which binds you. The Venus-Saturn conjunction is also another binding agent but because he has it in the natal chart, he could definitely come off as colder than he actually is. The Moon-Mars trine Uranus indicates much fun and sparks between you, plus his Ascendant on top of your conjunction is a long term indicator.
The only bad I can say is be wary of Pluto-Venus-Saturn bit going on there. It could lead to power plays (considering the age gap) and games. His natal Pluto-Moon conjunction already suggests dependency so him being Venus makes him more demanding, I'd wager. Juno-Pluto in 7th house would say you're his ideal wife, (since Scorpio rules pluto) but the square to Saturn is problematic because it could delay(?) getting together or finalizing things. Coupling with his Venus-Saturn natal in Aqua, he could also have a fear of committing.
Chart 2: His Asc to your Venus-Sun is a prime indicator of affection! It's also an indicator for long term. Mars-Jupiter combust on top of his NN is really good for going somewhere plus there's Venus-NN, so it is also in a romantic sense. The Moon-Moon conjunction with Mars is pretty good for sex. However his Chiron is there and can bring up deep seated emotional and physical wounds when you're intimate.
Not many Saturn aspects however except for Saturn square Mercury-Pluto-Uranus. Mind not to make a habit of putting down his ideas because he takes distinct pride in them. I see his Saturn is in your 7th and I believe that's positive since that's Saturn's house of exaltation.
Hm, they both have a good chance for long term but the first is more binding. But however, is that what you want? He has a whole saturn return on you, so he may be looking to settle down indefinitely whereas you may just be looking....
It's really up to you, whether you want to explore Chiron, or Saturn-Pluto. My votes on the second because NN aspects are mutual, plus NN on your DSC is prime indicator of marriage. His asc is also conjunct your SN so he may look like a blast from the past, idk lol