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Topic: So need a reading exchange
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 03:34 AM
  
Anyone up???IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
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posted November 11, 2014 06:12 AM
hi venuscorpio86! Are you still there and up for one??? lolIP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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posted November 11, 2014 08:05 AM
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DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
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posted November 11, 2014 08:22 AM
I got for you venuscorpio86...4 of Cups - 7 of Pentacles - 9 of Swords - Sun I sense that this guy is having some troubles regard his heart. He sees you as someone who he had a relationship in the past... As his mojo now is "More of the enough", more of the same feelings, more of the same things... His choice was difficult, but seems like he's more interested in you as a good friend, not for love relationship.... So sorry for this... My question: what I need to do to have more energy for doing the things I love???
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted November 11, 2014 09:11 AM
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venuscorpio86
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posted November 11, 2014 09:31 AM
DaniQueen of cups- ok, is reading tarot cards a passion of yours? Something you love? Reason is, that is what this card indicative of. Tap into your intuition and use it more. Knight of wands- become more aggressive and assertive. How about traveling ? Seems like that would be something you would really love.
The magician- this tells me you have every aspect needed to make and do what you love. Are you very religious or spiritual? I feel like something is telling you to build a stronger bond with a higher being whatever your beliefs maybe.
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted November 11, 2014 09:53 AM
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intuitivefish
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From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 10:22 AM
Hi. I can try and help. If you feel my style of reading resonates I can give it a try for you. If not then I hope someone with cards comes along  IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted November 11, 2014 10:28 AM
Yes. Thanks intuitive I always seem like we connect well ! I would love that IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Yes. Thanks intuitive I always seem like we connect well ! I would love that
Great, well post your questions and I will do my best. I'll post a question in return if something comes to me but I am trying to cut down.
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted November 11, 2014 11:01 AM
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intuitivefish
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From: Europe
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posted November 11, 2014 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok.
My question is why isn't HN interested in me? Does he think I'm ugly does he dislike my personality? Is there another girl what is the problem with me that he doesn't like me??
I dont quite get that he is not interested, I just feel it is less than before. Yes I am sorry but other female(s) is the reason to this, I would say 1 in particular got him distracted. But I am not sure if he is only chatting to other girls, but not dating. I feel he is right now wanting more choice and wants to spread around, its an ego thing where he needs to feel validated and liked.
I do not feel it is a personal thing about you, more as in, he had a shot with you and now lets see what else is on the plate. ( I am sorry if I am being too blunt, I do not want to hurt you or your feelings )
With him I am feeling distraction, like a kid in a candy store. I actually can see him come back to you once he is done with looking around and it will be up to you and what you will wish to do
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted November 11, 2014 11:24 AM
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intuitivefish
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From: Europe
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posted November 11, 2014 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
So.....do you see him contacting me or asking me to hangout again. I'm so mad at him right now....how does he think I feel about him towards him?
Yes I can see him contact you, not sure on when.More towards next month is what I get. Honestly, right now I feel he just hopes you are hooked enough on him to wait while he decides it time to come back. He does care about you, but right now, I feel he is more pushing that down and having a fun time. It does not sound nice I know but I would reconsider how you would react if he comes back. I think he should earn you back and not get you back so easy. Now, its him him him. He put himself in the 1st place and you should do the same. He is being all ego IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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posted November 11, 2014 11:51 AM
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intuitivefish
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From: Europe
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posted November 11, 2014 12:03 PM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Man. I hate to be so obsessive about stuff like this but it hurts so much I m 27 never even had a real boyfriend or a long term anything. I have quite a bit of friends a social life no a complete loser but I feel like one because I have no one who ever like me enough for anything. It really makes me feel ugly or like my personality is wrong or something. My self esteem is exctinct now because of this.
Is he being distant because I didn't have sex with him was he looking just to have sex with me once then be done talking to me?
I am going to rest now so this will be the last one I am sorry you feel this way and I can assure you, you will find someone who will be more suitable for you. I feel you need to let the man come more to you, that you should not make it easier for them just so that things get going. Now is the time to turn to yourself and turn to living a life where you can re love yourself. You need to find a way to find confidence in yourself without finding it through others. I dont know how to help you with confidence, that is something you need to learn on your own. And once again, I am sure that special man will come into your life. But as it does usually go, it will be once you learn to love yourself more. Once you love yourself you will know how to love a man properly and not only look for validation in them. As for your question, I really do not feel it was anything like that, I just feel he wanted to see what else is there, like he got a bit bored. I might be saying this too bluntly but I feel this man is not good for you.
He enjoys that you would wait and be there and, He can see that you would be around so he can have it any way he likes it.
You need to be more in control of what happens in your life, not any man. IP: Logged |
sunnybunny
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From: tellico plains,usa
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 12:14 PM
i put in for a schedule change at cleaning job which is my 2nd job asking them if i can work 1-5 instead of 9-1.
will they approve the change?now what's your question ? IP: Logged |
sunnybunny
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From: tellico plains,usa
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 12:17 PM
venusscorpio, why HN is not interested. i drew the justice card.
you may be too strong for him.
some men just can't handle a strong, logical woman, and so he's probably just threatened by your personality.
you're better off, believe me, i've settled for men who couldn't handle my reason and logic, and it always ended in disaster.
could weight be an issue here?
if so, don't worry about that either, you don't need that kind of drama.
find someone who loves you the way you are.IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 12:18 PM
Venus...I left a question on the thread we did yesterday it's also the same question to a thread I just posted if you wouldn't mind answering it and yeah the reading you left gave me did resonateIP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 12:36 PM
Cherful do you mind putting your question here....I tend to get overwhelmed when a thread is going I can't always see the q gets convolutedSunnybunny are you saying he thinks I'm fat??? He is the one who approached me asked me to hangout he knew what I looked like he the one who approached me it's not like was a blind date he didn't know what I looked like IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 11, 2014 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I am going to rest now so this will be the last one I am sorry you feel this way and I can assure you, you will find someone who will be more suitable for you. I feel you need to let the man come more to you, that you should not make it easier for them just so that things get going. Now is the time to turn to yourself and turn to living a life where you can re love yourself. You need to find a way to find confidence in yourself without finding it through others. I dont know how to help you with confidence, that is something you need to learn on your own. And once again, I am sure that special man will come into your life. But as it does usually go, it will be once you learn to love yourself more. Once you love yourself you will know how to love a man properly and not only look for validation in them. As for your question, I really do not feel it was anything like that, I just feel he wanted to see what else is there, like he got a bit bored. I might be saying this too bluntly but I feel this man is not good for you.
He enjoys that you would wait and be there and, He can see that you would be around so he can have it any way he likes it.
You need to be more in control of what happens in your life, not any man.
+1 Venus, why are you putting your self-worth in some guy? Love and respect yourself first, and then the right one will come. P.S. no its not a weight issue, that is an incorrect interpretation of the Justice card. Other readers' (including mine) interpretations have proven it doesn't have to do with your looks. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 3141
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 01:27 PM
My question is so at my new job that I am at there is a manager of the department but no director, and there never has been....there's nobody that's actually had good experience to run the department well so it's crumbled. The manager has a lthrough a lot of change in this depth so she's kind of been here for 6 months and dealing with a change, but she's not experienced. I do see her working hard......Will she stay? Will they hire a director....could I replace her as a manager or even get the director title... or move to a higher position? family only one with years of experience and knowledge and I feel like I keep overstepping because I'm the only one that gives the information to everybody I'm the one that is training the staff because nobody knows anything so I don't know how the manager feels about that. I mean I just started a week ago and already co workers are coming to me for help. The manager had asked me to run everything through her first. I think while she needs me desperately to better this office...she could hold me down... be an enemy or am I just getting paranoid but I'm doing a lot of things to where I have to send it to her and then she sends the email out as if she found all that information and did all that work...but this could be normal procedure. I'm not use to not being the one who has all owner ship on my work. She's really nice so far.I think they know more than they are saying about this merger between the hospital and university, growing the medical school....do they have info on what's going to happen with our department....will it grow here in the hospital or move over to the university and grow there or could they close this office in the hospital completely IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 03:21 PM
Sorry for the wait cherful had to do some work
Seven of pents- hmm well, right now it's a waiting game and other s you work with feel the same wonder same thing about that position. Right now best thing to do is be patient I think your work might consider making someone with in the dept the director b st thing to do right now is work hard work diligent prove yourself as if your in running for it. I feel work performance is really being monitored right now in that dept
Five of swords- do you get along with your co-workers??? I see some conflict here you are very opinionated and sometimes it might be interpreted wrong or way you words things so if any conflict arises try your best to avoid it let your co workers disagree sminst eachothet you just continue working and stay away from the drama for your sake of feelings and theirs Queen of pants- I think you might see an increase in pay. Are you a earth sign? This is you a grounded worker a bit msterialstic so the money def doesn't hurt at all. Are you in your probationary period?? IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 2153
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 03:28 PM
I can come back and answer the rest of these Cherful. I have to work now but will definitely come backIP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 3141
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 04:21 PM
correct I am on probation. But there was nothing in the talks about I pay afterwards. I think they like me I do have a lot of ideas for change and growth and some are resistant. IP: Logged |
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