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Enneline
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posted November 16, 2014 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the chart of my friend. She turned 33 a couple of days ago and still does not know what to do professionally in her life. She tried graphic-design but realized that that is not for her. She doesn't know if she wants to have children, she doesn't know her talents; all in all she seems quite lost.

I think I am not objective enough to make a proper analysis of her chart.

Any comment that could shed a light on her right career choice and her general problems would be highly welcome.

P.S. I could do an exchange
her natal:

her 5th harmonic:

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LostTaurus
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posted November 16, 2014 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Enneline, I can't offer a chart reading. But I can promise you this: some people aren't meant to know until they're meant to know, but as long as they're actively engaged they will get there. I say this because I was one of those people...until I was FORTY-FOUR. This year, finally, things are falling into place.

Encourage her to remain engaged - even in the 'most hopeless' of times; to look for the lessons; to eat up every little thing she can because there's a purpose for all of it. Life - both personal and professional - truly is about the journey, not the destination.

I know it's not what you asked for, but it's sent with the purest of hope, love and understanding, and I hope it helps.

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Enneline
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posted November 16, 2014 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, you are sooo right and both us think and keep thinking that.

It's just that some indicators would be of great help

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Enneline
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posted November 17, 2014 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No one?

I can exchange with Tarot, Chart & past life reading.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted November 19, 2014 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not knowing what to do with one's life or lacking some direction is all Neptune/12th house and Pisces related.

I see that she has her Sun/Uranus in 12th.I don't think its a question of not knowing what to do, but not knowing where to start.

Saturn forming a conjunction on these two could end up making things worse. Saturn in 12th has the tendency of making things seem like an uphill battle.

She will need a lot of your support during this transit.

How did she deal with transiting Pluto/Uranus on the IC and their concoction with natal Venus? Did it awaken any passions/inspiration in her at all?

I see that transiting Neptune in Pisces is squaring her Asc in Sagittarius- re-enforcing those 12th house feelings of hopelessness.

Both Uranus and Pluto will move to square her natal Saturn in 10th. And then later her Pluto.

So it won't be long.Courage and conviction will come.

I suggest she find religion. Find a way to focus on thoughts athrough mediation, group therapy and prayer. It really can help.

That's what I am trying to do and I feel like she feels -on a fundamental level as I have natl Sun-Neptune conjunct(less than 1 degree orb ).

The answers won't come quickly.But whilst she is getting clearer, she may need to focus on feeling good.

That Saturn sitting on her Sun/Uranus conjunction in 12th is not easy.

As I said. She will need your support.

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Enneline
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posted November 19, 2014 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you for your comment Yes, she always needs support.
She recently moved to Australia, taking some gap years. I have always been of the opinion that she runs away but she would keep telling how great Australia is and that that was the right choice. Recently she admitted that she always runs away and that she needs to change and face her issues.

What kind of profession would you recommend? You said she does not know where to start and its true but she also doubts her profession/talents

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