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Topic: Sunday Funday Exchanges---Lilly2Lilly Owe You
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lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 09:50 PM
Venus: Rider+House+StorkI think his memories of your time together (House) made him want to talk to you, possibly to ask how you’ve been or to update you on his own life (Rider; Rider+House). However, he ultimately decided that probably wouldn't be a smart thing to do as you both moved on (Stork). (And God, don’t you hate hovering exes? And men who just can’t make up their mind?) Cherful: Snake+Tower+Mice To be honest, the cards I pulled and what popped into my mind when I saw them… that’s the kind of advice I roll my eyes at. I do feel it’s useful, though (even if I haven’t quite accepted it yet myself). So… Snake+Tower tell me that you’re letting the past poison your life. You need to let it go. And you need to stop stressing out so much about your present (Mice). Relax more and go with the flow; try to be more positive and good things will happen. All in all, this sounds like something my mom would say, so I’m kind of sorry that I don’t have anything better. Just “kind of” because I think it’s actually useful if you’re strong enough to do it (I’ve only just started to let go). On the other hand, the “sorry” part is here because that’s easier said than done, and trust me that I know where you’re coming from. For the city/state that would be good for you, I pulled Stork, which is not too helpful because it can signify relocation (so, wherever you are now is not the best solution) or it can signify that you just relocated (which you did) and that this new city will treat you well if you let it. Honestly, when I pulled it, I immediately thought about the second option. If you give me some specific state/city names, though, I can pull a card for each and see what happens. IP: Logged |
lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 09:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24:
I get it more that he's going to be a learning lesson and I'm sure you're probably getting him as a future romantic partner which could be but he's not going to be all fun and glory. that's not necessarily a bad thing and getting that he's more of a father figure. could it even be your father or did your father lack in some areas? was he not present much at all? regardless you'll be better off by having this person in your life for that time so it's actually a good thing but I don't believe it's going to be a relationship that's marriage
Thank you! Not really looking forward to a father figure. lol But lessons have to be (un)learned, I guess. (Btw, I love my father to bits and he's been a huge support in everything I do, but I do have some issues due to my parents' marriage.) IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3328 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 30, 2014 09:57 PM
I was thinking California , Arizona, or Utah.I personally think I need to be in a state that allows for outside activities IP: Logged |
lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 10:04 PM
Cali--Whip, so I’d say this is a no. Arizona--Tree, so I’d say this is a yes. AZ is somewhere you can put down roots. Utah--Crossroads, so I’d say this is a maybe, i.e., could be really good or not.For just a general “state that allows for outdoor activities,” I got Sun. So you’re right! Living somewhere like that would be good for you! IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3328 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 30, 2014 10:16 PM
I agree my past does poison my present but I have had a rough 3 years and now I'm very lonely and I'm bitter because of what an ex did to me. I'm definitely trying to get over it in fact that's kind of why I moved I knew I needed a fresh start but can I ask you how else can I get over my bitterness and the hardships of the recent past? do you have any other questions I can answer for you
quote: Originally posted by lily712lily: Cali--Whip, so I’d say this is a no. Arizona--Tree, so I’d say this is a yes. AZ is somewhere you can put down roots. Utah--Crossroads, so I’d say this is a maybe, i.e., could be really good or not.For just a general “state that allows for outdoor activities,” I got Sun. So you’re right! Living somewhere like that would be good for you!
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lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 10:31 PM
Can I ask where I'll work over the summer?Anyway, here's what I got for your question: Fox+Sun+Rider This combination I actually read in three different ways originally and then I pulled a clarifier which did not clarify anything. I’ll take that to mean that you can and should do 3 things. 1. Stop thinking about Fox (i.e., your lying ex). (And I know… it’s more than difficult, but just tell yourself to stop every time he pops into your mind.) That’s how you’ll allow good things to enter your life (Sun+Rider). 2. Look around yourself at work (Fox). There may be a great (or at least nice, lol) guy there, who could help you heal and be happy again (Sun+Rider). 3. Focus (more) on your actual work (Fox) as it can bring you a great feeling of achievement or even an actual award/official recognition of some sort (Sun+Rider). The clarifier was Tower, and here’s how it applies to all 3: 1. Forget the past; just let it go. 2. You don’t have to be alone--be more active in looking for love, do your part. 3. I believe you work for a university, and this could literally represent the “ivory tower.” lol IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3328 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 30, 2014 10:55 PM
This helps. Thanks😊you're not like a journalist in any where are you like working in media or at a newspaper quote: Originally posted by lily712lily: Can I ask where I'll work over the summer?Anyway, here's what I got for your question: Fox+Sun+Rider This combination I actually read in three different ways originally and then I pulled a clarifier which did not clarify anything. I’ll take that to mean that you can and should do 3 things. 1. Stop thinking about Fox (i.e., your lying ex). (And I know… it’s more than difficult, but just tell yourself to stop every time he pops into your mind.) That’s how you’ll allow good things to enter your life (Sun+Rider). 2. Look around yourself at work (Fox). There may be a great (or at least nice, lol) guy there, who could help you heal and be happy again (Sun+Rider). 3. Focus (more) on your actual work (Fox) as it can bring you a great feeling of achievement or even an actual award/official recognition of some sort (Sun+Rider). The clarifier was Tower, and here’s how it applies to all 3: 1. Forget the past; just let it go. 2. You don’t have to be alone--be more active in looking for love, do your part. 3. I believe you work for a university, and this could literally represent the “ivory tower.” lol
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lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 11:01 PM
Great! I'm so glad it does! I'm not a journalist but who knows... lol I honestly have no idea what I'll do over the summer. The only thing I know is that it should be law-related in some way (because I need that for my resume and sanity). IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3328 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 30, 2014 11:05 PM
maybe that's where the writing comes in and the research so I hope you get a law firm position! quote: Originally posted by lily712lily: Great! I'm so glad it does! I'm not a journalist but who knows... lol I honestly have no idea what I'll do over the summer. The only thing I know is that it should be law-related in some way (because I need that for my resume and sanity).
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lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 30, 2014 11:25 PM
Thank you!! You and me both. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2344 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted December 01, 2014 01:03 AM
Lilly I thought it posted bbutit did not Eight of pents- I feel this king of wands will be a hardworking, serious individual who works hards and takes pride in fact he is a hardworking man
Six of swords- I feel you two will meet during a period where one of you is going through or just gone through a break up or seperation. So again personality vibe will be one of ....like getting over that sadness so I don't think the initial meeting will all that party n crazy Six of wands- I always have a hard time with this card. Here is my interpretation: he will feel victorious In meeting you and knowing you, being in your presense more bond grows between you the happier more satisfied he will. be it will remind him he was going through a sad time when you met then it like flowers and rainbows you will be blessing to him
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lily712lily Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 01, 2014 01:26 AM
Thank you! Except for the sadness part (which makes me kind of worried I could be a rebound; but then again... I am feeling kind of sad myself at the moment, so it could be me), everything sounds really nice! (Will update you, of course.)IP: Logged |