posted December 15, 2014 04:07 PM            

I was just thinking about you and our last exchange. I was worried I woukd get in trouble because the rental I had broke down well they didnt get mad I have my own car now....no one said anything bad at the shop. So far you been reading resonated!

posted December 15, 2014 04:46 PM            

I know I'm going to get s*** for this and people can tell me off.... that I'm not thinking of somebody else's emotions but I'm telling you because I don't want you to keep getting confused and you keep doing things like this.

I'm always the bearer of bad news.

I have to stop you. I have to point something out you. You only started to get confused when you started asking so many times about him. many many months ago when we first spoke about it you weren't confused. you understood he wasn't looking for a relationship with you. You were cool with it.

now I'm seeing you post about him and getting readings about him which seem to be very encouraging. it seem to say that yes he was interested and yes, yes he wanted a relationship.

but moonfish has that ever happened? no it has not. I'm almost afraid you're addicted.

I'm not trying to be a heartless b****. when you really need to take stock of what people are saying and what the reality is.

I don't have any good messages for you in terms of you sending that letter but again I'm going to be blunt as I always been, I still don't see a relationship. I know you said to him you want to do restart your friendship but he doesn't believe it and he's not going to start hanging out with you like a true friend. It's going to be the opposite in fact. A little bit of discord with him. you really need to understand that he knows exactly what you want but he's being a good guy, he doesn't want to hurt your feelings but at the same time he doesn't want this weird awkward or drama situation. so now he's looking at it like.... right now I have this girl who likes me who I don't like, sending me this letter to restart a friendship but I know she actually wants to be with me....it's not even fair to him to have done that to him. It's almost forcing someone to be around you to spend time with u, to be friends with etc. if he didn't have any issues with you he would be hanging out with you. he would have confronted you if he thought you were being distant and it bothered him.

again I'm not trying to be harsh I just want you to get a realistic picture of what's now and his thoughts about you.

posted December 15, 2014 04:56 PM            

The cards I got were positive.... Hmmm

I hope I didn't mislead you and gave you false hope

In my reading I had the ring for you in the end, which I saw as commitment but it can also be going in circles.Anyway, from my reading is seemed after texting you'll have face to face interaction and you'll get your answer.

posted December 15, 2014 05:09 PM            

every time that we did have a conversation about him you always confirmed that I was correct. you never said anything was not correct. honestly it's been like a whole year of people telling you yes he relationship didn't happen then you have to go another month of course that happen again then you would ask another month people are still telling you to see positive thing and yet it would never happen. maybe you should realize that they are incorrect

I didn't say you should not have done the letter, etc. I'm just trying to get it clear to you that he knows why you did it and he knows it's because you like him.

but what's really odd is that you had confirmed you know what type of girl he's interested in and that type of girl is not you. yet you keep asking on this forum if you two will be in a relationship when you've already confirmed you know he doesn't go for your type. what's sad is the title for your post was your love interest so even though you sent the letter to rekindle your friendship, you know it's to a love interest who isn't able to reciprocate at this time and I'm telling you he knows why you sent the letter and its all about a relationship for love. you might not think so because you disguised it as an apology letter

that's great that he's coming up to you were looking at you or said something to you I don't think you've ever asked me that number one so I don't know where you're saying that I was incorrect that number to that doesn't mean he wants a love relationship with you so again just protect your heart & your emotions because for a year now you been obsessing over this and you have not yet been asked out by him.

but if I was wrong on some things that turned out to it good that I was wrong on then that's great then that's fantastic but the only thing I can remember you asking me and how we view you if you do will ever be in a relationship and I think I've answered that like seriously five time and hypothetically what it would be like if you guys were in a relationship which I said I could not answer because I don't ever see it happening

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@cherful
I appericate your honest opinion but some of the things you posted aren't true. We have talked about a month ago and he was the one who approached me. There were other things that happened besides that, but I never told him straight up that I was sorry for what happened between us last year. Again thank you but Imuch going to wait till I hear that from him.

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posted December 15, 2014 05:15 PM            

I've done it a hundred times myself posting on here about a guy and guy that was not interested in me.

I have no idea where your last post came from

so what if he doesn't want to hurt your feelings and doesn't tell you that are you just going to hang on because you haven't heard the words no sorry I'm not interested in you sometimes silence is the answer but it's been a year I just hope you don't waste any more time if you are interested in other guys I hope you focus on that and I hope you let other guys focus on you and you be open to that

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@cherful
It's not weird, in fact is completely normal for women to go through there doubts about whether a guy likes them or not. And again, if that is the case where he finally gets the courage to tell me he's not Interested. Then I will have no choice but to move on and I will

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posted December 15, 2014 05:38 PM            

I was referring to that one time when I had told you the kind of girl that he was looking for that he was interested in a girl it was also interested in sexual activity and he knew you were not that kind of a girl. and you confirmed that I was correct so I was referring to it's odd that you know he's not looking for your type right now but yet you're still trying to maneuver a position into his life in I'm telling you he doesn't believe its just for friends and I'm confirming that because you know it's not just for friends you know what you want hence the title of your post love interest.

moonfish I always said that he regarded you with high regard and put you on a pedestal and that you guys were good buddies so yeah I definitely see why he would be upset over falling out but you're thinking and his thinking are different which by now you should know what I'm trying to say your a good buddy to him but you you want him to be a bf. I hope I'm totally wrong I hope magically one day he says I want to be her boyfriend and it happens honestly I really do hope you get that wish. but I think it be really an ethical is me to tell you but that's going to happened when I never saw it happening sorry if you don't want to hear the truth but don't ask the question then I'm not going to feed you a fairy tale princess just because everybody else is you know what you want and you should know by now what he wants from you you've confirmed it every single time that I have spoken to you that you know he's not looking to you for a love relationship so you're the only one of being defensive and you're doing so at my expense because you're twisting my words in this thing things which I never said and now you're saying that my answers to you were wrong but before you could confirm them to be corrected that's a ******** if I knew this was your character I would have said you would line a year ago and tell you to keep going after him

I'm not getting defensive.but you're twisting things around in the same things that I never told you so of course I'm going to clear up your misunderstanding and jog your memory. everybody on here including myself have been wrong multiple times on many different meetings so I'm not cleaning to be all knowing I'm just trying to get you to see that regardless even of what I had said even if I never spoke to you about this you been leaving this guy is romantically interested in you for a year because people are telling you so we get this number come true I'm just telling you to guard your heart and your emotions

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
"but what's really odd is that you had confirmed you know what type of girl he's interested in and that type of girl is not you. "
Sorry, to me odd and weird are the same.
But that's fine Cherful, idk if you feel like I'm getting defensive but I was just pointing out some things that you were fairly unaware of. Again i appreciate your opinion, I really do.
My message to him was how I felt bad for unfriending him on fb, and not talking to him (being distant). His friends told me that upset him, yet again he was the one who approached me a year later.
If your prediction turns out right than great whether I'm with him or not I'm not going to let it weigh me down.

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posted December 15, 2014 11:14 PM            

Four of wands- the message made him happy and hevwas very welcoming to it and the receiving of it. It was also liberating for him because you had been distant removed him from FB out of nowhere so it was a relief tovsee and read

The chariot- D feels very positive about you and in high regard; but also objective towards you as well I am thinking because of the fact you distanced yourself from him.

Six ofvswords- I really dont like this card....but it can me either or. I feel in this case its moving on and away from the situation that happened...to a calmer state of mind butvalso like....its final? Your friendship hope to bevwrong