posted December 26, 2014 10:37 PM            

What's going to happen to my sister? Can you tell me what her life will like next yearH?

posted December 26, 2014 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by BNY10:
I can try.

When is J going to stop hurting me and himself, and just start to move on?

Thanks.

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10 of Wands, Knave of Pentacles, 8 of Cups, The Empress

I feel like in order for him to stop hurting you, you must remove yourself from the picture. I think you're the only one he has his sights on at the moment. He has a lot of stress on him but at the end of the day, your presence does calm him. However, youre going to be the one who needs to close the door and tighten the locks this time. I think he feels possessive over you but you need to hold your head up high and really speak your mind and mean it. What do you think?

posted December 26, 2014 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
10 of Wands, Knave of Pentacles, 8 of Cups, The Empress

I feel like in order for him to stop hurting you, you must remove yourself from the picture. I think you're the only one he has his sights on at the moment. He has a lot of stress on him but at the end of the day, your presence does calm him. However, youre going to be the one who needs to close the door and tighten the locks this time. I think he feels possessive over you but you need to hold your head up high and really speak your mind and mean it. What do you think?

Can you see why AL and I were brought into each others lives?

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So are you saying that I should ignore his presence, and then he will go away?
When will J start fixing things?

posted December 26, 2014 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by BNY10:
So are you saying that I should ignore his presence, and then he will go away?
When will J start fixing things?

Hermit, Strength
I think that both of you were brought together not to be lovers, but to help each other discover your own strengths. You both seemed to have had a lot of bad karma (on your own and with each other), but you two have a chance to walk away from the karma by learning your lessons, and by becoming stronger people in the way you live, the way you treat each other and others. I feel like AL needs to change his outlook on life, and he needs to understand the impact he's making in other people's lives. AL seems to have a certain hole in his heart that can only be closed until he connects with spirituality.
Does AL believe in a higher being? I feel like the two of you are in a different page when it comes to spirituality. I don't think that you two will achieve your "mission" for this lifetime until you two are on the same page.

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I just feel like diverting your attention will make him realize he needs to change. I asked when this will happen: 5 of Cups, High Priestess, The Hermit
He's not in a good place right now. He's not happy with how things are going in bus life and he just can't see anything good at the moment. He's too focused on what isn't. For now, I think he needs time alone to truly focus on himself and treating himself better. Once he does this, he will be able to treat others better. I think he needs to get more in touch with himself.

As for AL and I, thank you. I definitely feel like this is true. I've never had a romantic interest towards him, no matter how much be tried to make things work, i just couldn't feel a spark.. But I do feel there is a reason we were brought together. We both met during hard times and I do agree that we definitely both helped each other find our strengths for sure. Thanks again He actually wants me to teach him about astrology.

posted December 26, 2014 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by BNY10:
I understand that he might of said that he needs to be alone to find himself, but that is the last thing he needs. He REALLY REALLY needs to get out there NOW. He's wasting time. He is an introspective and reclusive person at heart, and he will not change if he sits at home stewing in his intense feelings. He needs to be meeting women that he can have a companionship with. I think that can be one area in his life where you can GUIDE him. Has he said anything about him trying to find a girl, and has he asked you for help. Also, I think he has leanings toward Christianity.

I would greatly appreciate it if you can do a reading regarding my sister. I can answer another question for you if you want.

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Wow you have definitely picked up on AL!!! Lol. He's a Cancer btw so he's always in his feelings :P Actually, he is in very much need of companionship, the thing is... he wants it from me. I do like him but I'm not sure if I want to be in arelationship with him. I don't want to go into something when I'm not sure if it will be worth my time. I think he's an amazing guy but I don't want to be hurt in the end. He hasn't done anything to show me that his intentions aren't pure but I just don't know if I should take the step into opening my heart with him.

Your sister: 3 of Swords, The Hermit, Death, 9 of Cups

posted December 27, 2014 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Wow you have definitely picked up on AL!!! Lol. He's a Cancer btw so he's always in his feelings :P Actually, he is in very much need of companionship, the thing is... he wants it from me. I do like him but I'm not sure if I want to be in arelationship with him. I don't want to go into something when I'm not sure if it will be worth my time. I think he's an amazing guy but I don't want to be hurt in the end. He hasn't done anything to show me that his intentions aren't pure but I just don't know if I should take the step into opening my heart with him.

Your sister: 3 of Swords, The Hermit, Death, 9 of Cups

Has she been going through some rough times lately? I feel like she isn't happy with how this year has gone and feels quite disappointed by the turn of events. I don't think she's happy but she doesn't want people to know. I feel like she keeps quite a lot bottled up inside. However, 2015 will be a might brighter year for her. I feel like she'll be going through a metamorphosis for sure.. A big change is coming for her and her old way of doing things will no longer be of use to her. Her past will no longer be of use and she will want to start fresh. It will be hard at first to let go but I see her being much happier. Everything will start falling into place and she'll see big results by the summer. I do feel she may need a little patience though. Everything she sets out to do will be achieved but she must remember not everything happens over night. What do you think?

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Regarding AL, I feel like there is mistrust and feelings of hurt, it might not be felt but I feel like it's there in a subconscious level. I feel like you two need to develop emotionally before you two can be in each other's lives. But, AL seems to have a hard time changing himself. I don't think you two will ever change enough to be compatible for one another. The both of you want different things from one another but refuse to give what the other needs. It's hard. The best thing to do is try to change starting now (both of you wasted enough time thinking about this...it's time for action). Get over the fear, whatever it is, and find people that are compatible for each other.
You have the choice of putting your past behind you, and becoming a stronger person, but you will have to forget the past or suppress it until you see a change in yourselves.

You're correct about my sister. She bottles up everything. She has a sweet heart, and I don't want her to be sad. I feel like no one was there for her when she was growing up including me, and I want to be able to protect her. I want her to feel loved, and I want her to be happy for the rest of her life. I want her to have a good life. I wish this for everyone. But sometimes, I just can't help some people, and I feel like I need to move on. With my sister, I know I can do something, but I am not sure how to do it or what to do.

Is there a question you would like me to answer?

EDIT: I actually have another question if you want to continue this. J wants me to find him a gf. He says he needs someone to focus on before he can move on from me? Can you clarify something for me? Does he want a new gf or does he want to get back with his ex G?

posted December 27, 2014 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by BNY10:
Regarding AL, I feel like there is mistrust and feelings of hurt, it might not be felt but I feel like it's there in a subconscious level. I feel like you two need to develop emotionally before you two can be in each other's lives. But, AL seems to have a hard time changing himself. I don't think you two will ever change enough to be compatible for one another. The both of you want different things from one another but refuse to give what the other needs. It's hard. The best thing to do is try to change starting now (both of you wasted enough time thinking about this...it's time for action). Get over the fear, whatever it is, and find people that are compatible for each other.
You have the choice of putting your past behind you, and becoming a stronger person, but you will have to forget the past or suppress it until you see a change in yourselves.

You're correct about my sister. She bottles up everything. She has a sweet heart, and I don't want her to be sad. I feel like no one was there for her when she was growing up including me, and I want to be able to protect her. I want her to feel loved, and I want her to be happy for the rest of her life. I want her to have a good life. I wish this for everyone. But sometimes, I just can't help some people, and I feel like I need to move on. With my sister, I know I can do something, but I am not sure how to do it or what to do.

Is there a question you would like me to answer?

EDIT: I actually have another question if you want to continue this. J wants me to find him a gf. He says he needs someone to focus on before he can move on from me? Can you clarify something for me? Does he want a new gf or does he want to get back with his ex G?

Thanks

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J feels like getting back with G would take a miracle to happen. He doesn't believe that things can get back to how they were, he feels the relationship is tainted and has a lot of drama and there would be many setbacks he'd have to endure to get it running again. Honestly, I don't feel that he wants to be in a relationship with her but if the chance to have something a bit more physical arose, he would take that step. He is still very much attracted to her but no so much emotionally.

Does he want a new girlfriend? He's definitely lonely and feels like there's a lot on his plate. He feels he never really gets what he wants, but the thing is, he doesn't even know what he wants. His mind is fogged up at the moment and he is in a little funk. I do see that he doesn't think there are any options for him relationship wise at the moment, so essentially, yes, he wants a new girlfriend. However, he think it's going to take some time before he finds one so he will remain cautious and not jump in too fast. What do you think?

posted December 27, 2014 03:31 PM            

So J wants something physical? Why won't he put himself on dating sites? Or try to meet new people. When do you see him actually ready to date someone (like what year)??

Do you think it would be good for J to move to Colorado?

posted December 27, 2014 04:03 PM            

Can you answerh the questions I asked above.

posted December 27, 2014 04:42 PM            

King of cups- hes too mature for fwb random hookups . He also is sensitive in nature and any rejection would hurt him severely....is he pisces?

7 of wands- again guards his heart immensely and also doesnt want to hassle with getting to know girls or dating period

Temperance- he made himself content with whats in his life ppl in it now he focuses on that.

Brb with the other questios you had

posted December 27, 2014 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Tjis just erased everything I wrote here's the short

King of cups- hes too mature for fwb random hookups . He also is sensitive in nature and any rejection would hurt him severely....is he pisces?

7 of wands- again guards his heart immensely and also doesnt want to hassle with getting to know girls or dating period

Temperance- he made himself content with whats in his life ppl in it now he focuses on that.

Brb with the other questios you had

Why doesn't HN want people to know about me :-/

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J and G started off as FWB, so are you saying he has changed?
He's very sexual. And all he thinks about is sex. Why is that?
What kind of girl does he like?

Regarding HN, have you been erratic with him? Have you said things that makes him think "Wtf?" Have you embarrassed him in front of his/your friends? I having a hard time picking up stuff right now, so I'm just asking? Do you dress unique? Do you take care of how you look/present yourself in public? Have you recently had a weird hair cut? My energies are off, so answering some of these questions will help me zero in on why.

posted December 27, 2014 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok so I think J completely seperates intimacy and love very well anything deeper than intimacy too him will hurt him if he it falls apart or he gets rejected

Ok so i said some really mean bad things to him very awful on texts and messenger but I look normal I think...lol I think he finds me attractive he the one intimated talking to me. Yes erratic the things I said were awful . You know like I get embarrassed if someone calls me names cuts me down I won't tell anyone it's embarrassing. I really wish I could make up with him just don't know how he feels about me or thinks of me

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No I think you have embarrassed him. Did you do something to make him look bad in front of people. I feel like he can't and will never be able to get over it.

posted December 27, 2014 09:39 PM            

Emperor- I feel like a older male ms ybe his father has a lot of say in Js life and wouldn't like if J left to Colorado

Ten of wands- I dont think its a good idea for J to go he will be i verwhelmed burdened with the whole move and kufevtheir in general.....he won't be happy

posted December 27, 2014 09:50 PM            

Emperor- I feel like a older male ms ybe his father has a lot of say in Js life and wouldn't like if J left to Colorado

Ten of wands- I dont think its a good idea for J to go he will be i verwhelmed burdened with the whole move and kufevtheir in general.....he won't be happy