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Topic: Wedding today with psycho family. Reading please?
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1980
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 10:15 AM
  
I really dont want to go because my family is so nosy and gossipy. I'm not looking forward to the invasive questions. Can anyone pull a card on how it will go? IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 1554
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 10:23 AM
I can't read cards, only offer some advice. I have a family like that too. When you've been single forever like me, they all want to know when you're getting married etc. I would honestly, walk away from anyone who criticizes you or gives you a difficult time. Or have some fun with them, make up stories to see the look on their face as you tell them your love interest is in prison but it's not their fault. But in all seriousness, just go and have a good time and find people who you enjoy their company. Don't let the crazy/negative ones get you down. Dance, drink, eat, and have some fun.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 28, 2014 10:31 AM
I got for youBouqet - Cross - Moon Hmm, either it will be very nice due to bouquet or Moon, or you will burdened by all the lovey-dovey stuff that comes with a wedding. Cross/Moon can also mean that you feel a little sad or down, it does not need to mean anyone is nasty to you, but maybe you would long for something like a wedding yourself? On the other hand if we view it as a timeline it starts great, then there will be a burdensome middle part, but it will end emotional and usually the Moon is having to do with being appreciated after all.
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1980
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 10:52 AM
Thanks  I have been single too. They are like at opposite ends of the stick. They are nice and supportive and I know they love me, but they are sooo quick to judge and talk behind my back. I don't like how two-faced they are. I am the type of person that cuts fake people out of my life instantly. It must be my mars square saturn in eleventh.But you can't do that with family. quote:
Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I can't read cards, only offer some advice. I have a family like that too. When you've been single forever like me, they all want to know when you're getting married etc. I would honestly, walk away from anyone who criticizes you or gives you a difficult time. Or have some fun with them, make up stories to see the look on their face as you tell them your love interest is in prison but it's not their fault. But in all seriousness, just go and have a good time and find people who you enjoy their company. Don't let the crazy/negative ones get you down. Dance, drink, eat, and have some fun.
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1980
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 10:53 AM
this is actually eerily accurate. They are often very appreciative of me and compliment on my appearance and say I'm so smart. But they think I'm not living up to my potential so they always share their unwelcome advice. Lots of ups and downs all the time. quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I got for youBouqet - Cross - Moon Hmm, either it will be very nice due to bouquet or Moon, or you will burdened by all the lovey-dovey stuff that comes with a wedding. Cross/Moon can also mean that you feel a little sad or down, it does not need to mean anyone is nasty to you, but maybe you would long for something like a wedding yourself? On the other hand if we view it as a timeline it starts great, then there will be a burdensome middle part, but it will end emotional and usually the Moon is having to do with being appreciated after all.
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SandyShore
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posted December 28, 2014 11:28 AM
Same for me too. Forever single and a psycho family. So I usually resort to smile through it all - at least I try - as if I didn't have a care in the world, and sometimes that makes them feel insecure and I get a bit less of the inquisitive part. So maybe try to be zen and smile through the ups and downs that Ceridwen sees, like  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 28, 2014 11:29 AM
Being zen is quite a goo idea I think. WEll I have been forever single, too, and I think my family have given up by now. IP: Logged |
elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1980
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 11:32 AM
Yes, zen lol.IP: Logged |
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